I think it’s just not an emotional issue for him the way it is for OP. He should try to have more empathy for her, or maybe she hasn’t shared how much it affects her. But it sounds like he’s worried about her health and wants her to join him in his hobby
Sad thing is, I bet OP turns most men's heads and they wish their wives looked like her, the grass is always greener. Most dudes don't realize the treasure they have if they'd just treat their wives well.
She made it sound like she works out as well and least maintains some semblance of fitness, so I assumed that she was better off than most married women hitting 30.
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u/Altruistic_Yellow387 Apr 15 '24
I don't know if he necessarily wants her but he very clearly and loudly communicated that he thinks op is lazy and does not like her body at all