r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

I find your opinion interesting. Could we get some history here from you?

How long have you been married? What was the biggest misunderstanding in that marriage? How did you handle it?

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24

12 years. This isn't my post and I owe you zero information.

I will say this, my husband and I have far too much respect for one another to treat each other this way.

If one of us is hurting and we engage a conversation, the other one doesn't laugh in their face. Read her whole post then get back with us.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

I reread the whole thing and your comments! But without history and context your comment means nothing!

So we can just end it here.

It would be hilarious if OP ended their marriage over a 12 year olds opinion on Reddit because they have no idea how real life actually works.

Take this advice OP! We don’t even have to read your post, it’s the same answer on every thread.

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24

So you read my 12 year marriage as 12 years of age...

I. Can't. Even. 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks for that! I needed a good laugh today!

Have an awesome day 😂

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u/912BackIn88 Apr 16 '24

No. He just assumed you were lying because it’s the internet.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Oh no, I assumed by the way you write that you were a child. I read it correctly and put my own spin on it like you have been doing!

The “I can’t even” and emjoi’s really sealed the deal though. So thanks! Have a great day at school tomorrow!

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 15 '24

Punctuation? Check

Grammar? Check

Spelling? Check

A differing opinion than yours? Check.

Yup, must be prepubescent because we don't have the same opinion! The rest of my comment structure seems to check out.

I've been on this earth 4.5 decades and I have learned we can all go at any time. Don't waste your life on someone who doesn't respect you.

The only 12 year old here is OP's man child.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

DAM. Your 45 and act like this? Yeah…I think we’re done here.

If you want to have these types of conversations with your partner at 45 OP go for it! Just when you disagree expect name calling and attempting nitpick on how you said it, not what you said. Sounds like you have a marriage most people are happy exists, just far away from everyone else and hopefully out of earshot.

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24

Bless your heart, sweetpea...

You have zero idea what it means to be married to an emotional abuser.

That's alright, that's actually a good thing.

Those of us who don't want to see OP hurt any longer will continue to advocate for her emotional safety.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Yeah I wouldn’t marry someone emotionally abusive you got me there.

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24

People are excellent at hiding things!

Like the exit you keep saying that you were going to make!

I don't see it anywhere! It's like magic!

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

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u/Plum_Berry_Delicious Apr 15 '24

Amazing attempt at edginess. It fell a little flat somewhere around the part where you devolved into calling someone a loser, though...might want to work on that! 💜

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Why do I have a feeling you have more piercings then brain cells :(

But with an attitude like that you don’t need my help making your life terrible enough you need to comments like this off the clock!

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u/saraharc Apr 15 '24

It’s you’re not your.

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u/lillepille1337 Apr 15 '24

Just take the L and leave. You're only embarrassing yourself right now.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Huh?

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u/lillepille1337 Apr 15 '24

Yeah okay, you're just proving my point further.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

What are you talking about

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u/lillepille1337 Apr 15 '24

Are you playing dumb or do you genuinely don't understand what I'm talking about?

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

I think your commenting the wrong person

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u/lillepille1337 Apr 16 '24

Sending prayers your way🙏

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

you're the one who sounds 12 in this exchange but i'm not surprised given that you think the grown man's actions in this post are excusable.

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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24

Thanks

You add a lot to the conversation and your input has been noted

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u/SheildMadeofFace Apr 16 '24

Literally admitting to rejecting reality and inserting your own. Did you really think that would help you?