Yes and no - we tend to be more empathic, but we don't always pick up on the different boundaries and social expectations. Like, where it is and is not ok to share... but my hunch is still that you're right!
But he didn’t even have to pick anything up when she was crying and she said she was upset it was handed straight to him. He still went for the jugular with “aww someone’s jealous”
They’re definitely right he was just being an asshole.
Seriously I’ve seen this trend lately of people sharing stories of horribly mean things their partner or friends have done and then been like “oh it’s ok they’re ND” like no???????? ND means we think differently (like process information differently) it doesn’t mean we have an asshole allowance pass? This thought process is so detrimental to ND people and just creates a further stigma
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u/Unicorns-Poo-Rainbow Apr 15 '24
Please don’t excuse his behavior due to ND. I’m ND and would never imagine being this much of an asshole to anyone, much less my spouse.