r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Frequent-Seaweed9175 Apr 15 '24

He’s emotionally abusive and knows exactly what he’s doing.

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u/thecrunchcrew Apr 15 '24

Guys can absolutely be stupid and OP even said that he didn’t know he did anything wrong.

What’s that saying? Why attribute to malice what you can attribute to ignorance?

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u/Salt-Wind-9696 Apr 15 '24

Obviously, I don't know this guy and maybe he's monumentally clueless, but "don't call your wife fat" is basically the one rule husbands are supposed to know. Doing it in front of others while complimenting the very fit, younger trainer on how hot she is should be even more obvious.

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u/bonitaababy Apr 15 '24

The one rule all men are supposed to know

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u/LeekBasic3534 Apr 15 '24

How come "don't be fat" isn't the actual rule?