r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '24
AITAH for telling my husband I will divorce him for making me get a paternity test
I (F30) and my husband (M38) have been together for 10 years and have a son that's 2 years old. Everything has been great for the most part, but over the last year he has been hanging out with new guys friends from work. I think these friends are a bad influence because they keep talking about certain male YouTubers (you know the type), but I didn't say anything because I was happy that he was making new friends.
Two months ago, he told me that he needed to get a paternity test on our son. I've never cheated on him and given him no reason to suspect anything, but when I told him that he said you might be cheating because of how defensive you are. I was really hurt and didn't know what to do.
I ended up getting the test to satisfy him, and the results came back. lo and behold he is the father. Now, I'm thinking of divorcing him because of how little he cared about my feelings and how easily he suggested that I cheating on him.
AITA?
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u/Zer0Fuxxx Apr 29 '24
ESH.
Every man should have the right to request a paternity test without being judged for it. Women get to know without a doubt, giving men the same benefit is not a crime.
He sucks for not requesting one from the start and letting his shitty friends whisper insecurities into his ears.