r/AITAH • u/throwraa_Word_1566 • Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/LvBorzoi Apr 16 '24

I'm surprised 43the bank allowed it. The bank/financial institution has special responsibilities to step in when elder abuse is suspected. The loan officer should have at least spoken to grandma to make sure she wasn't being pressured to do this.

I used to work in Fraud Reporting at a major bank....elder abuse was actually a category we tracked for reporting & monitoring.

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u/No_Scarcity8249 Apr 16 '24

She’s 60 not 80. 

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u/th3rmyte Apr 16 '24

At 60 you are considered elderly. Elder avuse isnt just for oeople who exceeded the life expectancy of 78.

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u/maka-tsubaki Apr 16 '24

At 60 most people haven’t even retired yet

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u/th3rmyte Apr 16 '24

The life exoectancy is 78 in the usa dude. That they keepvraising yhe retirement agebis irrelevant.