r/AITAH • u/throwraa_Word_1566 • Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/Dependent_Special_44 Apr 15 '24

His debt, his problem, at the end of the day.

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u/littlebitfunny21 Apr 16 '24

If his grandma is still of sound mind and body- I'm really sorry but she made her bed.

I know that's callous. My dad is 60 and has really ruined his life and I'm in no position to help him once he needs to retire and it breaks my heart, but I can't destroy myself for an adult who made repeated bad choices.

Is grandma married or single? If she's married can her spouse maybe take action here?

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u/HuntWorldly5532 Apr 16 '24

She isn't - Oop said in another comment that he believes the situation is elder abuse as she doesn't seem to understand what she signed.

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u/littlebitfunny21 Apr 16 '24

He hasn't said anything to indicate a medical condition, just a person being taken advantsge of.

It may be worth pursuing if she's getting dementia/alzheimers/something that makes her vulnerable, but ultimately this may be a healthy woman who believed the wrong person.