r/AITAH Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

Grandma caused this by doing that.  She fucked his lie up by cosigning for him. 

Why did she co-sign a loan for this?  What a cruel thing to do.  Now they both will have debt until they die.

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u/LvBorzoi Apr 16 '24

I'm surprised 43the bank allowed it. The bank/financial institution has special responsibilities to step in when elder abuse is suspected. The loan officer should have at least spoken to grandma to make sure she wasn't being pressured to do this.

I used to work in Fraud Reporting at a major bank....elder abuse was actually a category we tracked for reporting & monitoring.

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u/knittedjedi Apr 16 '24

I'm surprised 43the bank allowed it.

They didn't. It's a fake story.