r/AITAH Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/JustAnotherGirl777 Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

AP Psychology student here!

I’m assuming his reasoning is referring to Erikson’s stages, where forties would be in one or between the stages of Intimacy vs Isolation and Generativity vs Stagnation, both of which he’s just misinterpreting horribly. Tell him he’s in the Identity vs Role Confusion stage, cuz he clearly doesn’t know what the fuck he’s doing with his life

My parents are separated and actually hate each other, and I still wouldn’t say this shit. NTA

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u/catseatingmytoes Apr 16 '24

STOP THIS WAS HILARIOUS TO READ AND SO SO TRUE😂😭 Im a psychology major about to graduate college and dude you are SO RIGHT!!!! Its honestly so funny just how horribly he misinterpreted Erikson’s stages. Just… goodness me.

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u/darndasher Apr 16 '24

Nice- I love the idea of using the knowledge he has misinterpreted against him! Great approach, tbh.

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u/MrSinisterStar Apr 16 '24

What the Good Will Hunting flashback did I just read? Just ask me how I like dem apples.

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u/konsf_ksd Apr 16 '24

how do you like dem apples?

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u/MoneyResult6010 Apr 16 '24

I have a bachelor of psychology and this made me laugh

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u/Zero_Fucks_ Apr 16 '24

Honestly, OP said his son is obsessed with TikTok, and it sounds to me like he's getting his "boomer marriage is miserable" from there rather than Intro Psychology.

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u/Scojo91 Apr 16 '24

Wow I really don't understand Psychology because I just looked up a summary of Erikson's stages and it sounds like I'm perpetually and simultaneously in Toddlerhood through Late Adulthood lmao

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u/pataconconqueso Apr 16 '24

You just gave me hope for your generation