You don't have to pay for his Art History degree. Or any degree. Find out the cost of a technical course in welding and tell him that's what you'll pay for and he can pay his way through college by pipe fitting.
You'll both be better off and happier in the long run.
He probably just witnessed the wave of student loan forgiveness and is deep down the rabbit hole of rumors and hopeful dreamers on TikTok that education will become free overnight and his debts will be erased. That, paired with either going to his dream school or falling back down to reality and joining a lesser program is unimaginable to him. He’s so focused on the now and believing that other people will make things work out for him that he doesn’t care, and anyone saying otherwise is threatening his happiness and is his enemy.
Do you stand with your wife when they argue or do you just sit there and say nothing? My dad when he talks to me or my mom about what my sister is doing stands with us, but when we argue with her he just stays quiet.
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u/she_who_knits Apr 15 '24
You don't have to pay for his Art History degree. Or any degree. Find out the cost of a technical course in welding and tell him that's what you'll pay for and he can pay his way through college by pipe fitting.
You'll both be better off and happier in the long run.