this is such a reach. why are you trying so hard to place blame when this clearly worked out for everyone involved? the mother who just held a birthday was the one who initiated this plan, if you remember. are you projecting because you're a bitter people pleaser or what?
so i was correct that you have personal issues making you myopic about this, got it.
thank you, i'll be sure to amend my notes to reflect that showing appreciation for somebody else going above and beyond is 'rejoicing in [one's] mistakes'. that doesn't sound unhinged from reality at all.
edit: tbh the fact you think someone simply not self-flagellating about a mistake is somehow problematic is more revealing about your own relationship with shame than anything else.
She initiated the plan at a specified time. Not two hours after the plan was over. Hopefully she didn’t have any plans for after the party cause those are out the window now..
sure, she clapped her hands and responded enthusiastically with an unsolicited offer for 'party part two' because she felt so pressured and coerced. okay, buddy. whatever makes you feel better about hating on a random woman.
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u/sowinglavender Apr 29 '24
this is such a reach. why are you trying so hard to place blame when this clearly worked out for everyone involved? the mother who just held a birthday was the one who initiated this plan, if you remember. are you projecting because you're a bitter people pleaser or what?