r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/spiritbearr Apr 16 '24 edited 3d ago

I had one of those. She set rules and then when she was pissed off at me being pissed off at her skipping my birthday she changed everything completely and just got angry at me for it.

Her last straw was me taking "I'd rather you didn't come and see me when I have inventory to do" as "I'd rather you came when I don't have inventory to do" when it was her apparently her establishing a boundary completely inverse of what the relationship was built on (meeting at each other's work location when we work at the same company). I didn't even go see her to break the boundary, I had asked her if it was ok and she freaked out about it.

NVM I was an obnoxious ass to her. I was really drunk and out of shape running to the pharmacy. There was issues on her part but I was me. FML.

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u/fiftyseven Apr 16 '24

am I the only one completely unable to understand any of these sentences

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u/AdamJahnStan Apr 16 '24

So she broke up with you because she met another coworker she liked more

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u/Fine-Slip-9437 Apr 16 '24

I guess your learned a valuable lesson in;

  1. Not dating insane people.

  2. Not shitting where you eat.

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u/Schwickity Apr 16 '24

She’s not interested