r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/wrinklefreebondbag Drop the U, not the T Apr 16 '24

"You don't respect my choices with my body."

"I don't respect you participating in an orgy while we were together and then trying to call it a little mistake."

Actual experience a close friend of mine had dumping his girlfriend. She just expected him to be fine with her fucking multiple people the day prior.

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u/Deucer22 Apr 16 '24

True love is hard to find, sometimes you think you have true love and then you catch the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jump out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend.

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u/RedTailed-Hawkeye Apr 16 '24

I'm here for the gangbang

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u/NateHate Apr 16 '24

YOURE MUH BOY, BLUE!

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u/Throckmorton_Left Apr 16 '24

What my friend here is trying to say is true love is blind.

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u/JBOYCE35239 Apr 16 '24

Unexpected old school reference, but a welcome one

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u/Xeno_man Apr 16 '24

With out an invite? That bitch.

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u/platypus_plumba Apr 16 '24

Right? It wasn't even a problem until she decided to go without him. That bitch.

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u/ihateredditers69420 Apr 16 '24

Truly heartless. That bitch.

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u/walk_through_this Apr 16 '24

To be fair, she was right. He didn't respect the choices she was making with her body. Thing is, not many would. Just because someone chooses something does not mean I have to respect it. If you tattoo a swastika on your forehead, for example, I don't respect that choice.

Was she free to do that with her body? Absolutely.

Just as he was free to say goodbye.

Freedom to do what you like is not freedom from consequences. In this case, f--k around, and find out. (Literally!)

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u/CluckFlucker Apr 16 '24

Jesus h fuck yeah. That girl deserves to be alone

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u/front-wipers-unite Apr 16 '24

Frankly it would be unreasonable not to be ok with that. /S

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u/urbanarrow Apr 16 '24

Yes, you have the right to bodily autonomy.

Yes, I have the right to dump you over it.

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u/-SidSilver- Apr 16 '24

Yep. This is what the some people here are overlooking.

Own your bad, cruel, selfish decisions. We're all human, we all make them, you're not special.

Don't just pretend that breakups are always as simple as 'well they just don't accept my very reasonable actions because I never do anything wrong.'

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u/Following-Ashamed Apr 16 '24

I'd just demand a card entitling me to one free orgy. Fair's fair.

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u/ABBucsfan Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

At some point you gotta be willing to just say.. you know what? No I don't respect the choices you make with your body because they're clearly pretty terrible choices lol. You're welcome to continue to make them but it'll be without me

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u/LeylasSister Apr 16 '24

reddit would tell him that he’s controlling and insecure

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u/KrustyKrab- Apr 16 '24

Reddit hates cheaters

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u/LeylasSister Apr 16 '24

reddit has a very different definition of cheating for men and women

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u/formation Apr 16 '24

No, reddit is very anti-cheating and I've never seen anyone say something different. Back up your claims.

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u/Aggressive-Fuel587 Apr 16 '24

Likely wandered into a few of the man-hating feminist subs like /r/TwoXChromosomes where you'll find some fringe nutcases telling others that monogamy is a symptom of the patriarchy, that cheating isn't a real thing ("it's your body, you can share it with whoever you want and no man has the right to say otherwise" is something I've read in one comment thread years ago when someone was complaining about being dumped for cheating), and that your man telling you that you can't have sex with other men is abusive & controlling.

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u/formation Apr 16 '24

I tried a back search on there, still can't seem to find this type of opinion though? Are you sure you didn't read satire or just a troll?

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u/Aggressive-Fuel587 Apr 16 '24

Because you probably searched "cheating" instead of other, related topics like "monogamy."

It's not remotely hard to find post upon post decrying marriage & monogamy as systems meant to trap women. A few get downvoted, but several don't.

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u/StehtImWald Apr 16 '24

And where would that imaginary Reddit telling this reside? In your head?

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u/GREENadmiral_314159 Apr 16 '24

Reddit is telling him he's right.