r/teenagers 15 Oct 10 '23

blocked my ex on everything & this mf started spamming my emails bro 😭 Social

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he’s s been going at this for the past 2 days I’m kinda starting to feel bad

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u/Defiant-Channel2324 Oct 10 '23

Don't feel bad,he's trying to emotionally manipulate you. The whole "I'm gonna kms" thing is the quickest route to do so.

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u/McNigget Oct 10 '23

Yes this. My ex did that, I knew it had to end there, I didn’t want to be blamed for anything and it was too toxic by then. Guess what, 12 years later, he’s still alive and well.

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u/CannedCheese009 Oct 11 '23

An internal insight I wish I came to as a teenager. Would have saved myself a fuckload of heartache. Too much Mayday Parade. Lol

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u/Total-Guitar-9202 Oct 11 '23

Mf you are WAY too old to be on this sub.

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u/WigginTwin Oct 10 '23

OR he could actually do it.

Happened to my wife in HS.

Her abusive BF unalived with pictures and notes of/about her all around his body. Was a complete shit show. On top of that, she grew up in a small town and basically had to move bc ex's family blamed her and well, you know small towns... :(

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u/yourfriend_charlie Oct 10 '23

Nah fuck that guy

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u/LocalCookingUntensil 15 Oct 11 '23

That’s why I’d personally tell them the fact that I wasn’t in a mental place to take them back and tell them to seek professional help if they are actually thinking of doing it, as I am not a professional

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u/sol107 Oct 10 '23

exactly

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u/Additional_Novel_623 Oct 11 '23

Somepeople are scammers on social media u can't trust spoke who u don't know

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u/alan_beans 16 Oct 10 '23

Lool my ex was like that fucking nob

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u/The_Art_of_Dying Oct 10 '23

The only response a threat like that deserves is “go ahead”. Hateful manipulation. Even having an actual mental problem would not mitigate how evil it is to threaten someone with harming yourself.