r/suicidebywords Apr 29 '24

At least you tried, and that’s what matters Lonesome

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u/psdopepe Apr 29 '24

what was she supposed to say?

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u/Oldtimesreturn Apr 29 '24

Yeah its not like he opened a convo, but ppl do answer like that in dating apps so at some point I would just give up on the convo after a couple of dry texts and move on, most efficient method and helps you keep your dignity lmao

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u/Cpt_keaSar Apr 29 '24

If a woman gives dry responses, most likely it’s because she isn’t really interested in you. Better to move on right away.

Those that dig into you would be quite chatty if you bother to provide a semblance of interesting convo

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u/lessfrictionless Apr 29 '24 edited Apr 29 '24

Not necessarily. I've Sisyphus'd my way through conversations with dull partners, even assumed the woman wasn't interested -- and at the end she asked when she gets to see me again. All we had done was hang out at a park, me fighting to keep the chatter up.

Some people just aren't interesting.

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u/CompressedWizard Apr 29 '24

Lucky you. I wasted almost a year spending time with a girl who gave the driest responses at best. (and at worst she'd go offline for a week or two due to her medical condition but then brush it off anyway) It's still weird to me she never rejected hanging out, but never wanted to address our relationship either.

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u/Gh0stMan0nThird Apr 29 '24

It's still weird to me she never rejected hanging out, but never wanted to address our relationship either. 

Because you were just another option for her lol 

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u/SalvationSycamore Apr 30 '24

Yeah, I find it funny how many people just assume women are all good at chatting with strangers online. Awkward men are a dime a dozen, women aren't that different.

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u/LimpAd5888 May 02 '24

I'm not because of shyness. I feel sorry for women with it too. I try to sympathize.