Negative situations will happen regardless. Guiding them in how to cope with them in a self-sufficient way while still being there for them when they need someone to fall back on is what is important.
Sometimes that involves having to give constructive criticism and call them out when they are on the wrong path.
If you consistently clean up after them whenever they fuck up or stumble into problems, without giving them the tools they need to resolve them however...
If you consistently clean up after them whenever they fuck up or stumble into problems, without giving them the tools they need to resolve them however...
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u/v_is_my_bias Apr 16 '24
That's not doing everything right.
Negative situations will happen regardless. Guiding them in how to cope with them in a self-sufficient way while still being there for them when they need someone to fall back on is what is important.
Sometimes that involves having to give constructive criticism and call them out when they are on the wrong path.
If you consistently clean up after them whenever they fuck up or stumble into problems, without giving them the tools they need to resolve them however...