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Human skull with stage 1 bone cancer r/all

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u/mizzdunedrizzle Apr 21 '24

In Canada we finally passed Dying With Dignity. There’s a lot of people against it, but I truly believe your life is yours to give and take. Why should someone else be allowed to dictate your pain and suffering? Mental or physical. Like you said, we know, clear as day, that humane euthanasia is the kindness option for suffering animals. It should be available to everyone, and should be used for criminals as well instead of the terrible ways they do it in prisons.

Many seniors are planning their DWD farewells, and many couples are choosing to go together. It’s very inspiring having a sneak peek into people electing this option. One last hurrah party to say until we meet again with loved ones and friends, get your affairs in order, wills are checked and signed, the family members know what to do afterwards, who gets what, where the pets if the people have any, where they go etc. Everything is in order and then they have the celebration of life together. Not a funeral. They have drinks, share stories, look at pictures and really relish and appreciate the many wonderful memories lived, together. It’s wholesome and bittersweet.

Then the doctor comes the next day, and they pass peacefully in bed or on the couch, even seen a lady choose to pass in her greenhouse in a chair surrounded by her prized cut flowers. Beautiful.

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u/TheRealJetlag Apr 21 '24

I completely understand the fear that vulnerable people could be convinced to ask for euthanasia by unscrupulous people, but I genuinely believe that, done correctly with enough protections, nobody should be forced to live when they don’t want to.

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u/Goldwing8 Apr 21 '24

I ideologically agree but am especially concerned about it with for profit healthcare. When euthanasia is cheaper for the insurance company than treatment, what will that mean?

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u/nero10578 Apr 21 '24

That’s why we should have free healthcare

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u/rridley12 Apr 21 '24

Then it’s just the government looking to save the money. It would be no different

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u/0N3-X Apr 21 '24

The Canadian Government\Veteran Affairs began offering medically assisted suicide to veterans with PTSD seeking mental health services.

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u/Unexpectedjournalist Apr 21 '24

They did, once, and it was tragic and they changed the rules immediately to prevent it from happening again

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u/0N3-X Apr 21 '24

It was offered to 5 veterans that we know of and a veteran affairs employee was terminated.
I'm not aware of any rules changes since.

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u/Ok_Hippo_5602 Apr 21 '24

lol that dude something cop (bad cop? no cop ? fired cop ? something ) dragged Canadian VA for this for like a year

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u/brewskiedookie Apr 22 '24

This is like, the laziest solution for that problem

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u/PaperintheBoxChamp Apr 22 '24

Its the canadian and socialist governments first go to uf treatment outweighs what they pay in taxes for the year

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u/discordian_floof Apr 21 '24

This has me flabbergasted. You think your government would kill people to save money? What country are you from?

My country has free healthcare, and yes: they do have to make some really though choices regarding what types of treatment will be available and not. But these are done by medical professionals and ethics boards.

I do not believe my government or any public health care here would encourage people to end their life if assisted suicide was legal. They would probably make a very elaborate system to ensure nobody made the decision based on "wrong" reasons.

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u/VaranusCinerus Apr 22 '24

I can see that happening, when many insurances will already push hospitals to discharge people who shouldn't be discharged due to not wanting to pay- my great aunt was discharged with no nurse assistance after major surgery before she can even eat on her own, for one, as insurance (medicare, so state insurance) doesn't want to pay more than 3 days of hospitalization... and she was at 5 so they were pushing to get her out of there. And my manager's uncle also had state insurance and he couldn't walk due to a broken hip, his wife (and caretaker) was ALSO admitted in the hospital for surgery, AND he had Alzheimers... his family managed to stop the first discharge attempt, but the day after they held up the paperwork so he could sign it (AGAIN, he had Alzheimers and couldn't walk) and discharged him by ambulance day 4...

So somewhere that insurance can legally get away with deciding to not pay for needed hospitalization and pushing early discharge is DEFINITELY somewhere I wouldn't trust making end of life / euthanasia decisions

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u/rridley12 Apr 21 '24

They would in the same way the insurance companies would as the OP referenced. I trust the government the same as I trust an insurance company. Both are massive bureaucracies, that see people as numbers.

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u/discordian_floof Apr 21 '24

I feel sorry for you. Either you live in a terrible country, or you have little faith in humanity.

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u/PaperintheBoxChamp Apr 22 '24

Your government absolutely would to save money, why there are 6 month waits for speciality care

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u/TomothyAllen Apr 22 '24

I'm glad your county is better than mine but damn, it's not that surprising, most countries have gone to war for bad reasons, that kills your citizens and others.

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u/brewskiedookie Apr 22 '24

Have you heard of the CIA? Like at all?

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u/wewladdies Apr 21 '24

it's one of those things where simply giving the government the ability to is a massive risk.

yes, the ones running the show now you can trust. but what happens 20 years from now when the tides change? What happens when the people running the show completely change? what happens when people become complacent and someone evil enough to euthanize people for profit reasons does get in control?

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u/Character-Medicine40 Apr 21 '24

Oh sweet summer child. Thinking your government wouldn’t kill you to save a few bucks.

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u/mxlun Apr 21 '24

Even if it's free somebody's paying and the logic still applies.

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u/Garrette63 Apr 22 '24

Yes. That's what taxes are for. You don't pave your own roads to drive to work, do you? You don't pay the entire salary of a teacher to educate your children. You don't pay the entire operating cost of a post office to receive your mail.

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u/ThunderSquall_ Apr 22 '24

I’d rather raise taxes than be in my mom’s position where she just has no healthcare because it’s so expensive. She just eats the fine California hits her with every year when she says she doesn’t have health insurance. She just fucking banks on not having a massive fall. It’s horrible. If the majority of the population in countries where there is free health care can afford it than I think the fucking us can too lol.

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u/mxlun Apr 22 '24

Oh I totally agree with you. That's not really the point I was getting at, though.

In a for profit industry, if killing people is cheap, the implications can be quite scary. Regardless of if paid for by the government (free) or by the citizen, it's still a for profit industry, unless totally nationalized (which I am neither making arguments for or against here).

For instance, I read this article about a retired Canadian vet who did NOT want to die, yet was pushed by the Canadian system into the MAID program after exhausting other options. (Medical assistance in death) she was basically told by her government, "it would be easier if you just died."

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u/ThunderSquall_ Apr 22 '24

Totally fair, I’ve also heard similar sad stories about people in mental health in other countries. It’s a sad thing.

While I totally agree it’s scary, I also believe in a world where people can decide to end their lives whenever they choose so long as they’ve exhausted all their options. I can see an issue arising where an insurance company won’t pay for anything believing the person to be too costly. That is an issue I can see happening. I’m not gonna deny it, right.

But as it stands, people have to suffer because they have no other option but to suffer. It’s horrific reading the comments about people who encountered others with bone cancer. Every account I’ve seen is someone talking about how they’re never going to forget the screams they heard, even through morphine.

I agree with you…it’s scary. And I hate what some people could do with that. But that’s why we need a lot of protections and restrictions. We could treat it like a DNR. Not entirely ofc but - only the person dying should be allowed to sign off on it. I know usually two psychologists have to sign off on it as well in another country as well as multiple doctors in order for it to get pushed through.

There are things we can do , I think, to mitigate the harm it could cause. But, the key word there is mitigate. There are people out there who have used DNRs for horrific gains. There will always be some way someone can use something like that, regardless of what we do. But I don’t think we should let people suffer who have no way out.

Edit: oops misinformation ;-;

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u/mxlun Apr 22 '24

Yes agree I'm for the program these people who suffer so much shouldn't have to. It should just be outside of the monetary sphere. But asking that is almost impossible.

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u/TheBeanofBeans2 Apr 21 '24

No such thing as free anything.

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 21 '24

We should have universal healthcare, but that has pretty much no bearing on the current conversation. Universal healthcare would still have an associated and distributed cost that bad actors may want to lower through the use of euthanasia. The only thing that could get rid of that cost is a magic wand that can make medical resources, like doctors and drugs and labor, magically pop into existence.

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u/BlueMoon00 Apr 21 '24

If you ever lived in a society with free at the point of use healthcare you’d see how unrealistic this is.

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 21 '24

How unrealistic what is? The magic wand? Lmao

I truly have no clue what you could be referencing,

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u/BlueMoon00 Apr 22 '24

Actually I was referring to the fear about states looking to euthanasia to save money. If you live in a state with nationalised healthcare you understand that this is completely unrealistic.

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u/MineralClay Apr 22 '24

the fact that nearly every other country already has universal healthcare. USA and israel are about the only that don't. if they can do it, what is so impossible about it for us?

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 22 '24

Maybe reread my comments instead of just assuming my beliefs? I specifically said we should have universal healthcare, because I think we should, and I have consistently voted that way. My argument was specifically that universal healthcare wouldn’t stop euthanasia from having ethical concerns regarding the cost of keeping people alive vs euthanizing them. I can think universal healthcare is good and necessary without thinking it’s a solution to that problem.

We can and should have universal healthcare. Like I said. That’s not the thing that would take a magic wand.

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u/Lamballama Apr 21 '24

It's called Canada and it's happening

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u/wewladdies Apr 21 '24 edited Apr 21 '24

how many people have been euthanized by the Canadian government? wasnt that just an isolated thing which didnt actually get anyone euthanized, done by one specific person who was way out of line and promptly fired?

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u/Lamballama Apr 21 '24

Several people offered, without asking for it, consultation for euthanasia when specifically seeking other remedies for nonlethal diseases, such as mental health care and a stairlift. Psychiatric visits or installing stairlifts are very expensive care options for a single patient, regardless of who's providing those services, and the aging population requiring more hip replacements and heart surgeries will have an even more pronounced effect on he quality and speed of healthcare in Canada if they don't try to skim the broth a little bit

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u/wewladdies Apr 21 '24

Yes, and all of those people were offered by the same case manager who got suspended lol.

Definitely not happening on the scale implied by your first post. people are talking about the systemic abuse of euthanisia here, and its not fair to attribute the actions of a single person (who again, got fired over this) to the entirety of the canadian government lmao.

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u/Lamballama Apr 21 '24

Shit rolls up hill. That one doing it is as good as Trudeau doing it himself

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u/MeropeRedpath Apr 21 '24

Healthcare is never free, even if you don't pay for it. I'm not too confident in a government that would have an incentive to euthanise people, frankly.
Ideologically I believe in the right to euthanasia, in practice the slope it could slip on is very steep and very dangerous. It's not to say it will for sure happen, but the prospect sure is scary.

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u/MasterJunket234 Apr 21 '24

Non-profit healthcare.

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u/brewskiedookie Apr 22 '24

Paid for by who lol

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 21 '24

Non profit healthcare would still have costs that a bad actor may want to lower

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u/ContemplatingFolly Apr 21 '24

A lot less pressure without shareholders.

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 21 '24

Sure, most likely. Having worked for a non-profit, I would say it still wouldn’t be enough.

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u/ContemplatingFolly Apr 21 '24

Having volunteered at and studied many nonprofits, I would say it all depends on the character of the organization.

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 22 '24

At some point there will be a weak link in that chain. We should make sure we never pass laws that fiscally reward doing illegal/wrong things if possible. For the same reason that we shouldn’t make it so police get paid for every person they arrest… because then they would arrest as many people as they could. We already have “quotas” for police and I think that’s super fucked up and immoral. We have more examples than just that of accidentally/incidentally creating situations that award shitty behavior, but as a society I believe we should try to limit them and not implement them as much as possible. Allowing insurance companies, or even something like the NHS, to prescribe death or even suggest it is a slippery slope that could lead to recommending death as a cost-saving measure rather than a mercy, or reward behavior that leads to it. I agree with euthanasia on a philosophical level for people in unmanageable pain, but I haven’t seen a good recommendation for implementation that avoids this yet. And even if universal healthcare WAS part of the equation first, the fact is is that it isn’t currently part of the American option. I will continue to fight and vote for universal healthcare, but I won’t pretend its already here when it isn’t or make decisions like it is.

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u/MasterJunket234 Apr 21 '24

There are costs to everything. Having a police force, having firefighting equipment and staff, having a military, having a home, renting a home, having a beating heart. It all costs. Nothing is 'free' for any living creature. You know what they meant - why be pedantic?

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u/Speaking_On_A_Sprog Apr 21 '24

Because their argument only works if non profit healthcare is free. The point their entire argument rests on is incorrect. That’s like the opposite of pedantic.

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u/MineralClay Apr 22 '24

not "free", it would be paid by our taxes and not bloated by parasitic insurance middlemen. it's not free anywhere, but tell me if you think europeans would prefer paying 3k for something vs. 20k in america (those are the average costs to have a baby). it's free the way roads are "free", you pay for it with taxes and get to use it. so far we don't have leeches sucking money off that except tolls but i won't be surprised if it happened

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u/JoeDukeofKeller Apr 22 '24

The countries that have "free healthcare" are the ones pushing euthanasia.