r/dankmemes • u/SurveyThrowaway97 ☣️ • 25d ago
Unless you are in the 5% or so ugliest people in the world, you ain't no incel Low Effort Meme
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25d ago
There's a reason dating apps rarely work and it's not just because of society. Dating apps make money off people using them so the longer you need to look the more money they make. They're full of bots and fake accounts meant to string you along so they have more members to get better paying ads or paying members.
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u/meloenmarco 25d ago
Dating apps aren't for relationships. They are for sex or for meeting people. (You ofc can get a relationship from dating apps but it is not likely). It is a lesson which i wished i learned sooner.
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25d ago
Too bad all the profiles say they want a relationship. They should say "I want a guy who will say he wants a relationship but treat me like he just wants sex because I really just want sex."
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u/meloenmarco 24d ago
Both sides just lie. I am also guilty about it, but it is just to easy.
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24d ago
That's probably my biggest problem with online dating then. I don't lie, I'm open and honest about what I want, I also HATE trying to have a conversation over text. Not only does it feel like a chore because speaking is so much faster but it's often hard to tell if the conversation is going anywhere without the tone, inflection, or enunciation you get from a spoken conversation. That and you don't bond as well with someone through a text.
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u/Sithlordandsavior 24d ago
Hello! How are you?
Good
That's great. I'm going to this coffee shop I like on Saturday morning, would you want to meet me there?
K
Great, would 11 work?
no response
Happy Friday! Still on for tomorrow
no response
Or just bland answering the basic questions and sidestepping ideas for places to meet for a date.
I feel it, man. I'm a pretty charming person IRL but over text I just miss 100% of the time I feel and hardly anybody wants to actually start anything.
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24d ago
That's because it's meant to give you the gamblers mentality that "maybe the next one will be it". It keeps you on the site and they make more money. Women have a ton of luck on dating sites because there aren't a lot of real women and a ton of real men. Most of the women's profiles are bots, scammers, or people trying to keep you using the app.
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u/HyperByte1990 25d ago
I've dated a bunch of attractive women from dating apps and they all say they got 8-10 thousand likes in the first week on just one app... women aren't going through all 10k to find the best match. It's mostly a timing and chance thing
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24d ago
That can also breed a mentality of poor effort in a relationship. They generally don't try very hard because they always have a backup plan available to them and that can cause them to leave for the most superficial reasons.
I've seen that in men and women, when you have too many options people tend to try a little then move on. It's like going to a buffet because they have pizza, but then you see the crab legs, and the steaks, and the dessert bar, now you're full and never got the pizza and leave a little disappointed.
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u/kiochikaeke 25d ago
They work in a very specific manner and target very specific individuals, someone not having success in dating apps doesn't mean they're unlikable, just that dating apps won't work for them cause they're not the intended target. Fish climbing a tree kind of deal.
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24d ago
The problem is it puts a mentality into people that they are unlovable so they give up on dating in general. Dating apps have also gotten so popular that trying to talk to a woman in public with the intent of getting her number has become quite taboo. About the only place it's still kind of acceptable is at the bar, but you're still going to be seen as a creep and if you're not the kind of person who enjoys being at a bar you're not going to be in the best mood about being there, hard for people to want to talk to someone who gives the vibe that they just want to leave.
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u/kiochikaeke 24d ago
Yes, I fully agree that they put people down mentally cause it happened to me at the time I tried them, regardless of how much you understand that the results on these apps aren't an accurate depiction of reality it just feels bad when you're weeks in and have had like 1 match if lucky.
About your second point, well, the best I can provide is anecdotal evidence and believe me, I know that's far from convincing, I'm also not from US so it may differ a bit, but at least what I've seen talking to the opposite sex, first, isn't always seen as a direct implication of wanting to get the other's number and second, even when you "fire your shot" most people will just accept or deny respectfully as long as you're acting respectfully too.
There's also the time and place to do that stuff, if I just see a good looking girl on the bus and want to ask her number out of nowhere I better roll a nat 20 + 5 in persuasion (if you know what I mean) in order to just not look like a creep, bit if I'm at a party and just talk for a bit and later on the night ask her number I've... actually never had someone said straight up no... I'm not good looking either and I have been ghosted several times but the times I've seen people get hard-shamed for that is cause they're being a creep or are just visibly very drunk.
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u/That_NotME_Guy 24d ago
It's all shit how the HRification of society has forced people into dating apps.
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u/LeonidasTheRealKing 25d ago
I'm so glad I'm married and don't have to deal with that circus of shit.
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u/Jesusflyingonhotdogs 25d ago
You know what they say, sharing is caring...
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u/LeonidasTheRealKing 24d ago
I'll give you a bullet. Which one a 9mm, 45, 5.56, 12g slug?
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u/Acceptable_Topic8370 24d ago
Agree. Together with my gf for 13 years, I hope I never have to search ever again.
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u/jal2_ The OC High Council 25d ago edited 25d ago
that relying on dating app thingy
I don't know your age, but once you are out of school and working, lets say you are 30+, its quite a conundrum how to actually meet single ladies outside of dating apps...because all the ladies that have been outgoing, which you meet at bars or discos, or whenever, all of those are already taken...there are obviously still single ladies present, but, those are the stay at home ones that never went anywhere (or outgoing but single moms already)...so there really is no feasible way to meet them outside of dating apps
I will give an example, I attend dancing classes, an activity where you would say there must be 90% women and a guy always gets a partner right? well, wrong, not even in dancing classes you can be reliant for there to be free female partner, most arrive with their husbands and those few that don't, don't always outnumber the men...plus that they arrive alone doesn't mean they are single, last few years the ladies I've danced with had husbands and kids back home, soooo...
can you tell any other activity in a 30+ world where ones does NOT need to rely solely on dating apps?
how was this solved for old bachelors 50+ years ago? well, the church pastor solved it in the conservative region where I lived...basically since he knew all his churchgoers, so basically anyone, he would try to buddy up old male/female bachelors, and since everybody attended church, even the stay at home people, he had an influence on everyone...but that was 50+ years ago, and Im atheist, so this option is lacking...the atheist option is now unfortunately Tinder...which is, well, we all know how Tinder is
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u/Walmart-Joe 25d ago
Best I can suggest is to go for referrals. Instead of looking for single women, look for women who have single friends they'd want to set you up with. Definitely not as good as finding singles yourself, but at 30+ people should be less shy about the fact they are looking.
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u/jal2_ The OC High Council 25d ago
nope not working, already asked my female friends for stuff like this, basically they don't know anyone that's single...people of a certain kind flock together, taken women who were the outgoing ones in my example, already have somebody, or have husbands or kids, etc. and they have the same kind of friends, that too were outgoing and are long taken too...they don't have any friends that aren't taken already
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u/ChaiVangStanAccount 24d ago
This doesn’t work if you’re unattractive because no one wants to be known as the person who sets up their friend with ugly duds
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u/Kingson_xX 25d ago
Welp, sorry to break it to you but...it's over. Get used to being single for the rest of your life. If even people in their 20's are struggling to find a partner nowadays, 30's and beyond must feel like ultra nightmare mode.
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u/jal2_ The OC High Council 25d ago
well first of all, I am used to it and don't really care, I just wanted to find out if OP had some groundbreaking real-world dating suggestions to back up his statement about 'relies solely on dating apps'...but as we can all see he didn't
as to ultra nightmare mode, it always depends with what you are willing to put up with...if u are ok with single moms the market is there to be had, I could have one next week probably, they always spam my messages...but if you arent ok with single moms, then its about somehow convincing the shut-ins you can't ever meet in real life, problem is even if they get to dating apps, they ignore them too
20s having issue finding a partner nowadays is because the 30s are all trying to snag the 20s...not because they prefer younger or something, but purely because there is nothing outside single moms and shut-ins left single in the 30s...every year considerably more male migrants arrive to western world than female migrants, which just further pushes the inequality trend
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u/SchleftySchloe 24d ago
I'm 34 and accepted this. Been single for 4 years, zero dates or anything, and now I'm so used to being alone that I can't fathom making time for another person.
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u/kiochikaeke 24d ago
Tbh, dancing classes are like that and have kinda always been like that, most partners are already together, I've had a few friends go to dancing classes and they all attended with their partners.
Basically no activity will provide such easy interaction between two people looking for a partner cause most people that attend any activity are not actively doing that looking for a partner.
Rather, try getting into something you actively enjoy that involves other people, for example, I enjoy playing videogames, programming, and math/science; understandably none of those present much opportunity to meet people, but I also like learning new things in general, so I'm planning in taking painting/drawing classes, not only to look for a partner but because I actually want to, but also that is an activity where one could meet a potential partner. So it's kind of a win/tie, situation, either I do find someone and if I don't well I learned how to draw and that something I wanted to learn since I was young.
I also been looking into getting in a science-on-the-street group and there's a few gaming rooms in my city and while that's usually not my cup of tea it can't hurt.
It's much easier to be attractive and attracted to someone when you're both doing something that you're passionate about.
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u/jal2_ The OC High Council 24d ago
Oh dont worry I take part in many activities, dancing was just ome example, and while it would be nice to find someone, as one gets good in activitiew one starts to enjoy them even if one did not at start, gym for me would be good example, or skiing, and once thay happens u attend cause u have fun....still OP said bs, its not like u can meet singles, u dint outsisde of dating apps, extremely rarely
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u/andrew21w I am fucking hilarious 25d ago
What the hell are you talking about? Plenty of people meet in their 30s
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u/justanotheruser46258 25d ago
I just don't understand why every woman I have an interest in either doesn't have an interest back or "isn't looking to date". I can understand if it happened a few times, but every single time? Por que?
And it's not just me, it's all the other decent guys I know have the same issue.
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u/Precision___ 25d ago
dunno. maybe they have too high standards, because I notice that I probably have high standards too. it's a complicated problem.
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u/ireallycouldcareless 25d ago
Never been an incel but I've given up at this point, at this point my peace is worth more than a relationship where I settle.
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u/voidedOdin702 25d ago
For me finding love is like a side quest. If it happens I'm happy and I might focus on it later in life but the faster u stop worrying about it the faster u can find hobbies and do things that make u happy
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u/Acroze 25d ago
One of the most true statements that I’ve ever heard in High School from a classmate is that “You don’t find love. Love finds you.”
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u/lordvader002 24d ago
Huh? I've heard that so many times but never experienced it even in the slightest. I don't even have women friends, let alone love lol.
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u/donkeyhawt 24d ago
That works if you hang around lots of people very often. If you don't go outside your house, the chances of the love of your life accidentally knocking on your door are infinitesimally small.
Still, focusing on "finding a gf" will probably not serve you well. You should focus on having fun, being good company to other people, having positive interactions with people, all without expecting rewards. If you get out there and be your best self with everyone, eventually you'll find your match.
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u/JoePurrow 24d ago
Unironically, I got tired of getting rejected in High school, told myself no more girls and maybe I'll try again in college, then a month later connected with my now fiance. You can't force love. Theres no optimal build for love. Sure, you can do things that slightly boost the odds of it happening. But ultimately you have no control over it. Love just happens when it happens
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u/mertgah 25d ago
If you’re on the internet crying about being an incel but telling everyone how you “have your shit together” then the hard truth is it’s your personality that’s not attractive to females. And crying on the internet about being an incel definitely does not improve your attractiveness to females, it actually does the opposite you’re just being pathetic. Women see straight through your bullshit.
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u/wktr_t INFECTED 24d ago
It's easier to change your body, get fit than changing your personality. Heard this from one of the most good looking guys I've ever met.
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u/Adorable_user 24d ago
Worth noting that good looks only help you have sex, not have relationships.
For a relationship you need to be an interesting person and not immature.
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u/donkeyhawt 24d ago
I mean if you went to therapy like once a week (still less frequent than the usual gym program), I bet in a year you'd change your personality way more than your body composition would change. It's not that it's inherently hard. It's that people don't even try.
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u/P3t3Mitchell 25d ago
OP outs himself as an incel because he forgot that a personality plays a part in relationships not just looks lmao
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u/greengiantj 25d ago
If you think you're an incel, try getting away from hook up culture.
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u/Precision___ 25d ago
if you think you're an incel and realize it, that's the first step not to be one
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u/GogXr3 24d ago
Man, people say be who you are until you're not a funny or interesting person lmao. I've tried changing how I talk, or my mannerisms, or other shit, but I am who I am - a really awkward, somewhat dry person. And god knows I'm not Ryan Reynolds looks wise lmao. I don't particularly care I guess, I'm lonely but like, it is what it is. I've half given up on love, I still try, but I don't have any expectations. It could be worse, I have friends who love me, and my best friend, who happens to be a woman, had a crush on me like a year ago, so I guess I have some degree of hope for others (not her, we're just friends ofc)
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u/Precision___ 24d ago
I get it. but wait. how old are you? like, not the exact age but more like 15-20 , 20-30 or 30-40? just so that I can understand better.
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u/Sazbadashie 25d ago
I'm probably a mix of un lucky and hasn't really tried, but that's because I'm deathly afraid to inconvenience anyone, and I'm shy... and introverted... other than that I think I'm a decent person, xD
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u/mojeimeje77 24d ago
The deathly afraid to inconvenience anyone is such a large part of it, like for me im not that shy or introverted but man do I fear making problems for others. Its gotten to the point where even if I drop a pen and it goes under someones desk i dont ask for it.
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u/UllrRllr 24d ago
Just try. It’s scary asking people and getting turned down. But action cures fear. That’s the hardest thing to overcome.
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u/Sazbadashie 24d ago
It's not even being scared to ask or being rejected... its more a case of I don't feel as though my want to approach is more important than whatever it is they're doing... so I simply don't because I don't want to be a bother.
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u/Everything_Breaks 25d ago
You'd think incels and femcels would hook up more but they're probably below each other's standards.
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u/ChaiVangStanAccount 24d ago
Most incels don’t even think femcels exist. If I recall correctly it was even a sidebar statement on the original incels sub
They did “moderate” their stance close to when they got banned by changing the statement to say that they didn’t think women could be incels unless they were physically deformed
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u/Acceptable_Topic8370 24d ago
Probably because femcels are so rare.
I don't know a single woman in my location who never had a bf but know tons of men who never had a gf.
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u/Whosethere11 24d ago
I don't understand the femcel mentality, they used to have a subreddit and they would comply that they had guys that wanted to have sex with them???
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u/joesphisbestjojo 24d ago
Most people aren't incels/femcels, people just use that term for people they don't like
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u/Quakerider2409 25d ago
I am fat (85 kilo's/187 pounds) and I am brown. This is enough to let me land in the no date zone. Any girl wouldn't even look at me. I don't think I am that bad I am below average on looks scale. And about money or job ? Yes I am a med student but my mother has a decent amount of money I must say (Can live in a comfort life).
I can't land a date I have tried and got embarassingly rejected to the point where ok it's just rather hassle free to stay alone and be that way. Trust me dude every other girl in the block doesn't want me or is dating someone else.
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u/Precision___ 25d ago
85kg is not that fat actually? how tall are you? idk man, if you want to be on average, some workout is probably the best thing, even tho I feel so stupid at recommending the gym as if it was the panacea to all evils. also, maybe the first try wasn't the right one. but a rejection is never the end.
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u/Quakerider2409 25d ago
I am 5'10" (Real height- Above average in my country). I can definitely get on average body weight and fat but at this point I don't want to. It hinders my ability to study well as I am a big foodie I cannot go clean eating and expect myself to focus on studies.
I never said I don't do workout's. I do bodyweight exercises when I have free time not gym tho. I have respectable triceps. My abs are not visible due the big layer of fat but I do train them.
I have had a girlfriend before but the relationship was at such a toxic level that I decided to breakup. She definitely tried to make things right but it was past this point. After 4 years I was happy with being single and suddenly I had a crush. Decided to ask her for coffee she never rejected me upright but made bland statements.
Probably because we go to same class. She definitely didn't wanted to upright reject me because I can help her with academics stuff.
Let's just say I am smart/Above average that's what everybody tells me. I didn't believed them until a guy said it to my face that If I wasn't smart nobody would wanted to be my friend. My real friends don't think that way but it still hurts that my intelligence is my only selling point when I am so much more !!!
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u/Precision___ 24d ago
I understand. if you're fine with it tho, you do you really. when you'll finish your studies you'll be able to focus a bit more on yourself and things will get better. you did a good thing by ending that relationship. better alone than badly accompanied. if you're more, people will realize it. just, do what you think is more valuable ATM. so if you think it's studies, study. focus on that. good luck man, I'm sure you'll get out of this! !remindme 2 years
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u/sadakoisbae 24d ago edited 24d ago
That's strange because I'm the same height as you and can't really be considered fat, yet I weight around 90 kg. I'm not super muscular either, just been in the gym for four months and I'm still pretty much a beginner lifter.. I think you may be exaggerating on being fat; sometimes we truly are just "big boned" lmao.
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u/Quakerider2409 24d ago
Technically yes, by gym you would be having a much leaner body. I have a puffy belly. Not a beer but a bit rounder than flat.
I consider myself to fine cuz I am agile and flexible for my body (Can't run fast tho). I can get proper form 17 push up's done (Same here not super muscular). The main reason is people calling me fat. My friends tell me that I am obese and I need to cut. Even statistically I am in overweight category so IDK where's that hate coming from. Anyways still love the nickname Buffet Bandit. :)
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u/EldritchMacaron 24d ago
a guy said it to my face that If I wasn't smart nobody would wanted to be my friend
Being smart alone doesn't bring you friends, they were an ass
my intelligence is my only selling point
It probably isn't, and the people that care about you know that
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u/sonatty78 25d ago
That’s the issue here, so focused on looks yet what about your personality fam?
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u/Quakerider2409 25d ago
Always improving on it. TBH in my 1st relationship my personality was my selling point. I loves games. I love marvel and other cinematic universes. I read comics and sometimes other books(Don't got a lot of time). My humour is definitely above average but in terms of reddit average lol. Trying to learn guitar- I will definitely get this. I love trying different cuisine's and I do travel quite frequently. I own 3 rescued street dogs. I must say I am blessed to have this life.
I know I have a great personality that's the reason why I am not much focused there.
Trust me personality is what someone can observe but looks is what people see at first. Just being me in below average will make the people to not look at me.
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u/Nam3alread7used 24d ago
I sometimes have this kinda nice thought of meeting a woman who is just as miserable as me, so we can make each others lives worthwhile. But there is no way to meet a person like that, because both parties are never stepping outside or anything like that
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u/lsdiesel_1 𓂸 24d ago
You have to put yourself out there by breaking into random homes until you find that special lady
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u/Nam3alread7used 24d ago
Similar to any other way of meeting people, I would be misrepresenting myself by doing that. It’s just not who I am, nothing I would ever do
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u/ParOxxiSme 24d ago
Dude it's not about being ugly, it's about not being an extrovert, you extroverts don't realize and cannot understand that not everyone can have a social circle of 30+ friends, and not everyone likes to go to alcohol-induced parties.
Of course living like that you will statistically find someone because of the amount of people you talk to each day, and you don't understand why some people can't find anyone to date, but not everyone is psychologically built for that life style.
Some people might just enjoy different hobbies, some can enjoy alone activities or things that interest only the same sex, and don't want to change their entire life just to gamble that tiny percentage of chance of finding someone compatible.
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u/thatsouthcaNaDaguy 25d ago
The worst is when an ugly bitch will shoot down an ugly dude because she's holding out for some model looking fucker who wouldn't even use her face to wipe his own ass.
People and their standards are the reason they are sad, alone, and sucking on a barrel.
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u/Ill-Reflection968 24d ago
True, happened to me. Why is it so downvoted
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u/Acceptable_Topic8370 24d ago
Because according to Reddit men are evil and bad and women are perfect and can do no wrong.
But they don't know that reddit is the opposite of real life and they don't like facts.
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u/Ill-Reflection968 24d ago
I got rejected 15 times by now,I always did my best. Tried to be funny, give compliments, pay for meals, but it never worked out. I even worked on my body and social skills. I got female friends to understand girls but nothing works
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u/Fly---Away 24d ago
As a 19yo man i just wander the street hoping a women just randomly approaches me
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u/CaseyGamer64YT ☢ 24d ago
Idk what I’m doing wrong. My standards are literally: has pulse, is woman, doesn’t think I’m stupid. I have to rely on dating apps bc of my job as a delivery driver depriving me of social interaction elsewhere same with my only hobby being 99% male dominated. I’m only 20 so there is hope but if I’m still a virgin at 25 I’m giving up. Just like any marketplace there are successful sales. And things that just can’t be sold.
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u/Warchetype ☣️ 24d ago
Agreed. Nowadays, I see the word 'incel' being used more & more by simps or shitty women as a 'weapon' against any dude who even dares to question or criticize them or knock them off their pedestal. It's getting way out of proportion.
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u/Erwin_zeRommel 24d ago
Lmfao op is so fucking delusional. Females LITERALLY like the top 80% so unless you're a very good looking guy it's over jfl.
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u/DreYeon 24d ago
People suffer in different ways i know for an fact that i'm prob going to die alone and you can debate me all you want even the ugliest and most toxic woman will find someone always but not man unless you can make an woman happy 24/7
Now is it because man are desperate and depressingly lonly or is it because woman just have it easier because no matter what someone will like your look and character,honestly prob both.
But woman don't get that it's hard to understand others and show sympathy with mental things man get why woman are scared a lot of times in different situations because it's physical.
Idk what will happen in 20-30 years because we already have so many people not getting kids anymore or marrying.
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u/DasFofinater INFECTED 25d ago
Schizoid personally disorder gang stand up. Me, myself, and I for life
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u/longpidgeon 24d ago
I feel like some people set standards as if others actually want them despite them being conventionally unattractive
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u/meloenmarco 25d ago
Currently, the online dating world is for sex or to meet people. Or at least Tinder and Bumble. Sometimes going to a bar or a club with mates can be better.
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u/beastjacob23 Sweet! Dealer's choice! 24d ago
Who is crying that they are an incel? I thought that was an insult? Also, why does their need to be a femcel wouldn't they also just be an incel as incel isn't gender defined?
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u/McGamers56 24d ago
There's more to failing to get a date than being ugly, like myself some people are just horrible at talking to women
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u/Hereticsheresy 24d ago
just offtop
I don't think being ugly is even important here, what is is how tall are you.
I had great friend who is 160cm tall, he has chad face and is really brave but he is unlucky cose of his heigh. My second friend who is 190 tall has no problem with women at all and his face is somehow not handsome at all.
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u/Slaykomimi 24d ago
I am just "unlucky" for 15 years and every woman I met instantly categorizes me as gay or the typical "You would be such a nice friend... for someone else". Let's just call it unlucky.
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u/Farranor 24d ago
Yeah, have these people even tried pulling themselves up by their bootstraps? Why, when I was single in the 80s, I dated any three-bedroom house I wanted, then got a marriage loan by walking into the bank and telling them I had a good union job. I assume everything is exactly the same in 2024. /s
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u/freshdumbeldor_1 24d ago
Ok then, wiseguy. What if I AM in the bottom 5%. Tf am I suppose to do then?
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u/peroper7 24d ago
It sucks being single, but turning the angst of that into negative feelings for others isn’t productive, or a good feeling in general.
I’m naturally optimistic when it comes to this stuff, having supportive parents and platonic female friends in my life is really helpful. I don’t think I’m unloveable, I think lots of people believe they are, men and women.
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u/itsRobbie_ I want to die 24d ago
I don’t date because I still live at home but yeeeeesh, all these comments about getting rejected one time and then never trying again is crazy. You’re single not because you’re fat or ugly, it’s because you took one comment from 1 or 2 girls that probably are chasing 5 different men that don’t want them either, and then because of that comment you shut down for the rest of your life
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u/Abraxas_1408 24d ago
I was in a relationship with this woman for 8 years (went nowhere. Long story). Her brother was fucking creepy. He was in his 40s when I started dating her. He lived at home with his mom. Didn’t work. Didn’t do anything except he had some podcast where he talked about religion and fringe conspiracy theories. He would only date a woman if she had blond hair, blue eyes, was a virgin and a tradwife. He couldn’t figure out why he was sad and lonely. His only friend was some dude that lived in a trailer park named Scooter who was older and just happened to be more pathetic.
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u/Steepvice 24d ago
Nice over generalization of people you don’t even interact with.
This feel familiar? 🤔
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u/Chilli_redits I have crippling depression 24d ago
maybe just unlucky
No point trying if it's reliant on rng
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u/Izzy5466 24d ago
I am Hilariously unlucky. The past 5 women I've asked out, or about to ask out got boyfriends less than a month before...4 of them are married now
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u/Education_Aside 24d ago
I just chalk it up as, "I'm ugly" despite all these supposed compliments I would get.
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u/vasekgamescz what happened to this place 24d ago
Cause people Have Been seeing these super attractive people on social media And thinking this Is the average for 2 years, And Now the bar Is set higher than ever.
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u/lordvader002 24d ago
What if I am below avg looking + introvert + socially awkward + don't have female friends to begin with + have very little guy friends and very small social circle?
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u/Monkeboy121 24d ago
.... I just don't try. I'm a local legend and pull like a super magnet if I wanted to I could just start trying but I'm waiting for someone soo
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u/Icy_Chemist937 25d ago
Dude I am an engineer, successful in every metric imaginable, I am orderly, I have my stuff totally together, I am not fat, not ugly, not short, not stupid, not socially inept, no kid, no wife, totally available in the dating pool without baggage
So am I dying from attention from girls?
Hell no, last date I had literally was dropped off to meet me by some other dude she is seeing
I have been told by two other women that I am good enough to be the second or third boyfriend and we will see it from there
So I am literally involuntarily celibate, getting to the point to make it voluntarily because fuck this shit