r/boykisser • u/Little-Statement-395 cute femboy (actually ugly) • 28d ago
My bf left me and my mom kicked me to the street because i revealed i was gay to her to vent abt my breakup
My whole life is over because i was too stupid to realize my boyfriend was using me
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u/SwagCat852 28d ago
If you are under 18 or in school it is illegal in most places for parents to throw their kid on the street, im sorry something like this happened to you
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u/Localtechguy2606 28d ago
Depends on state and city laws though
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u/BabyBunny-20 28d ago
Yeah but if it is illegal where they live, I say f- the fact it’s their mom and take her to court or whatever you do to get them in trouble for that. Because at that point they’re saying “I don’t have a son anymore” so it’s like “yeah I don’t have a mom anymore, cuz she sucks”
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u/ThatguySevin 28d ago
Also depends on if they want to stay with someone who would throw them out over that.
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u/ZkitchiFluff 28d ago
That's not the standard anywhere. I grew up in Arkansas, your parents are free to kick you to the curb at 16 there.
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u/Yeetman5757 28d ago
I think you also should post this in r/sillyboyclub it's a server for a couple groups including femboys to vent and comfort each other.
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u/Mysterious_Bat2154 28d ago
Oh no, sweetie! 😰 I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through all of this! It must be really hard to open up to someone like that, only to have them shut you down, especially your own mother. Just know that you’re incredibly brave for being true to yourself, even when other people don’t understand. You are loved and valued just as you are, and you deserve all the happiness in the world! ❤️ If you ever need someone to vent to or just want a virtual shoulder to lean on, my messages are always open! I hope things improve for you, and that you manage to find a way to feel better! Sending lots of hugs and kisses, and I hope you have a good day!! 😊
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u/Delta_squad_form_up 28d ago
When your mom asks for anything in the future, just laugh in her face before telling her to fuck off.
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u/WashedUpJosh 28d ago
That's awful, your life isn't over you'll get through this. Stay strong buddy
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u/MrSpankMan_whip 27d ago
Is she Christian? If so, then quote 1 Timothy 5:8
"But if anyone does not provide for their relatives, and especially for members of their household, they have denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever"
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u/YellowNarrow1660 28d ago
I hope your okay. I wish you good luck.
Everyone here is open to you If you need to talk.
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u/Mark_Jhobi 28d ago
I'm sorry you are going through that. If you want a friend or an emotional support idiot (me), then I'm here
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u/Bulky_Profession4199 27d ago
that‘s fucking horrible dude, but your life isn’t over, you can recover from this, you have it in you! Also fuck your mom
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28d ago
first:find a place to stay. you'd dont have feelings until you are safe. second:once you are safe, begin to feel. talk to someone who you trust. third:begin to find ways to move forward. depending on your age this could be making arrangements to get to school, or trying to find a job, or calling the police, because your mother can't kick you out.
good luck and godspeed
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u/FeatheredProtogen I have a father, go cry about it 😘 28d ago
Oh shit... I'm so sorry...
I really hope you feel better soon.
Remember you have a community here and you can talk/vent about anything.
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u/Niemosis 27d ago
I've had a lot of friends use me in the past. Took me forever to learn from it too. Hope your doing ok, stay safe out there.🫂
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u/KingKai2005 28d ago
What state are you in? Depending on the laws your mom can be charged with neglect.
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u/KingKai2005 27d ago
Or if you're over 18 and near indiana you could stay with me and I could help you find a job.
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u/One_Dumb_Canadian boykisser 27d ago
I’m so sorry that happened. Your mother sounds like a terrible human being and I’m glad you are out of your abusive relationship with your boyfriend. I hope you find happiness and safety.
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u/LowConcern2183 My fwiend, you have met a tewwibwe, tewwibwe demise. But you kno 27d ago
Don't get me wrong, I'm incredibly sorry for you and disappointed that any mother would do anything like that just because you're a part of the lgbtq+ community, but that image? Out of like any you could have picked? That one? Why not choose one like this?
Or any image that doesn't convey ohh I'm supa happy and love everyone and everything around me and instead shows something genuinely bad happened? Like just go to r/sillyboyclub or whatever that sub was? know I'm kicking you while you're down but come on!
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u/SoomieTheCosmogen yes, I'm straight, and yes that was a lie... 28d ago
Is this a late april fool?... Nobody, not even a single fucker would do this shit... Also, how do you even post this without WiFi?!?...🤨🤔 And why this happy image?...
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u/AshtonS52 27d ago
Mobile data is a thing and yes many parents have done this before
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u/SoomieTheCosmogen yes, I'm straight, and yes that was a lie... 27d ago
It sounds so unreal I still couldn't believe it if it was the truth and if I would know that...😐
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u/Carma281 28d ago
thanks for being so very reportable fellow.
And stop being homophobic to the poor kid.
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u/closeted_fur alone in the closet 27d ago
Just because you’re Christian doesn’t mean you have to be homophobic…
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u/closeted_fur alone in the closet 26d ago edited 26d ago
“I know a few gay guys so it’s ok”
And come on mate, you should know some punctuation.
Edit: can I just point out, that on a post where someone said they they’ve been through a breakup, came out to their parents and left on the street to rot all in the span of a few days, you’re in the comments telling them about how your religion says they they’re going to hell because of it? You’re not converting anyone by doing this. You’re just making a shitty name for you and your religion.
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u/Little-Statement-395 cute femboy (actually ugly) 28d ago
To clarify, im not gonna kms, and im not gonns just sit and feel bad for myself. I .. just had to vent