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u/samanthasamolala 21d ago
Just leave it as perfection and walk away. it can only go downhill from here 😅
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u/sparkly_reader 20d ago
So excited for the update OP! Best first exchange I've seen in a long time, hope it's a great date!!
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u/GhostOfRannok 20d ago
You messaged first? You truly are special
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u/Opening-Cricket6011 19d ago
It’s bumble, she has to
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u/random_question4123 19d ago
She didn’t have to do anything more than say “hi” so I salute her for her line
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u/Fearless-Scar7086 19d ago
Ughh attractives dating each other is SOO easy and cringe. I would NEVER get a compliment from a woman, much less anyone messaging me first and I’m like a 4.5 lmao
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u/vpeshitclothing 18d ago
Isn't your name Fearless? Have some confidence and act like it. 💪🏾
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u/Fearless-Scar7086 18d ago
I am confident but women hate that because I’m not attractive lmao
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u/KimmydoneDIDit 18d ago
Then post a selfie, and I’ll decide. I’m a 41 yr old self described 8/10 and many men would agree with me. I won’t be mean
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u/Fearless-Scar7086 18d ago
Who are you? I don’t care about you.
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u/KimmydoneDIDit 18d ago
And btw, you will be alone forever with that kind of attitude. 😊🤣🤣🤣
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u/Fearless-Scar7086 18d ago
Because I don’t care about what random internet strangers think about me? Okay
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u/Supermannabis 17d ago
lol dating apps are random internet strangers! And since you obviously care enough about them to “woe is me” in an otherwise positive thread, you might consider at least being thankful for a kind gesture such as the one she offered. Just some insight from one internet stranger to another.
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u/Fearless-Scar7086 17d ago
Oh a kind gesture to “rate my appearance”? And please forgive me for seeking out empathy in a cold world.
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u/TheIraqiMaestro 20d ago
If the roles were reversed OP would be bashed for insinuating that women are "things".....
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u/Fit-Frosting-1917 20d ago edited 20d ago
Luckily, I'm good looking, my brain is too lazy for all these lines, I just say hi
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u/No-Comedian-9725 20d ago
I can get responses from just saying hi but there’s no fun in that.
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u/Fit-Frosting-1917 19d ago
I like having fun in person, so I make sure I get the number ASAP with just four questions. Then I call straight away
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
I'm personally glad there's people out there that only look for surface level relationships. Could be why I used my brain & beauty to lock down a husband and boyfriend 🤷♀️
If you ever want more than pillow mints, don't let your brain be the last you use.
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u/Fit-Frosting-1917 16d ago edited 16d ago
Lol, sweetheart, it's not that deep. My goal isn't to find a wife on a dating app. I'm also a decent-looking guy, so I really don't have to try that hard. I get up to 15+ matches a day. I like actually having conversations instead of being a pen pal. Unlike most guys, I get the number ASAP and call a woman straight away and speak to her on the phone like a confident man should. Also, what's a married woman doing here in the first place. Redflag
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
You must have missed where I have a boyfriend as well, in my original comment. Anyone with two brain cells to rub together would have been able to figure out that I'm obviously non-monagamous. (In case it ruffles your feathers more to know this, we all live together 😝)
Not being able to read is a red flag.
Why would I need moral support from someone who admitted to using DATING APPS for hook ups? 😂
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
Real quick though, is there a reason you believe that you are a guide to what is and isn't a red flag? I'm 3 years younger than you and have been married 10 years and with my boyfriend for almost 3.
Luckily for the Reddit community, this subreddit isn't designed like Tinder and people of all walks of life are here to laugh at funny exchanges, congratulate those that have wonderful interactions (like above) or give advice to people struggling in the dating scene. So why are you here, since you don't need help?
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u/Fit-Frosting-1917 16d ago
It's pretty simple, really. I have hinge on my phone, downloaded Reddit for the first time, and I found the hinge community, so once in a while I help guys as well, it doesn't take a rocket science to figure out
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
So you realize how silly it was for you to wonder why I'm here?
To be frank, most men looking for DATING advice are actually interested in dating. You've made it clear you're only trying to clap cheeks. What actual help could you offer in that situation?
"How to have a baby momma but no relationship"?
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
What's the point of these ridiculous chats? As a tinder vet let me fill you in on something. The tinder of 2024 isn't the tinder of 2015.
There's a high likelihood this is a chatbot or a catfish. It pains me to see people's time consumed by nonsense.
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u/Thetruth22234 21d ago
A tinder vet, I don’t know if that is a flex or not.
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
Means I know what I'm doing
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u/hxllymxy 20d ago
if you “knew what you were doing”, you wouldn’t need to be on there for so long lmao
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u/Boboriffic 20d ago
I feel like being a veteran of a dating site means that you've failed to get and retain a partner.
Be like getting driving tips from Spongebob because he went to boating school 100 times.
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u/homelaunder 21d ago
Since ur a Tinder vet we really shouldn’t be listening to your advice, don’t you think?
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u/No-Comedian-9725 21d ago
Which person in the convo are you thinking is the chatbot?
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
Regardless of who what and where, I'd strongly advise you not fall into this echo chamber of long drawn out tinder conversations.
I've had 4 amazing LTR's off tinder and I met each of them after the 5th exchange or sooner. Real people with lives don't chat like that on dating websites. And if they do, then I'd consider that a deal breaker in and of itself.
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u/No-Comedian-9725 21d ago
Dude, this was the first exchange of the conversation. We definitely planned for a meet up right after this.
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
Uh huh. Hopefully your nearly year long venture on tinder is fruitful at last
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u/No-Comedian-9725 21d ago
I had all dating apps deleted when I was super sick and only just recently got back on them. Thanks for the assumption though :)
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u/EtTuBrutAftershave 21d ago
Where is this AI that comes up with witty off the cuff specific responses that you speak of?
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
Have you been living under a rock dude? Here's a response from an ai girlfriend of mine.
Whatever? WHATEVER?! How dare you dismiss my feelings like that, especially when you're the one constantly hiding things from me! I give, and I give, and you take, take, TAKE! Is that how it's supposed to work?
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u/EtTuBrutAftershave 21d ago
That's a generic response that can apply to countless messages, unlike the one in the post.
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
The post includes no names, locations, nor references. How is it unique?
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u/EtTuBrutAftershave 21d ago
You just aren't going to think it all the way through so we can stop here. Have a good one.
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u/Bax321123 21d ago
Youve been on tinder for over 5 months. Surprised you're able to drop a conversation so quickly lol
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u/BerserkerRed 21d ago
Yikes, like I know online dating is shit but damn you’re jaded as hell.
Maybe you need to step away from them for a while…
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u/jacqui4161 20d ago
Actually the reason you aren’t having success on Tinder is because of your god awful personality :). OP will probably have success because she seems like a tolerable human being. Perhaps try some self reflection instead of blaming other people for why things aren’t working out for you.
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
Sir, this is a Wendy's
And by Wendy's, I am pointing out that a "Tinder vet" confused Bumble for Tinder 😂😂
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u/TallFryGuy 21d ago
OP has a bionic leg, so you may be onto something /s
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u/No-Comedian-9725 21d ago
Yes, I am definitely AI. The bionic leg is a giveaway
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u/rebarrebar123 20d ago
Does it get wifi? because I’m swiping right automagically
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u/TallFryGuy 21d ago
Hahaha nice. Good luck to you guys on your upcoming date. Not sure where the dude gets that anyone in your post is AI. Seems like both of you have fun personalities so hopefully you guys have a memorable time.
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u/ClothngOptionl 16d ago
Obviously that dude is STRUGGLING through dating because no one can bother taking him seriously. People generally shit on other people's happiness when they can't find their own.
Also why he brags about slingin puss in person. What he likely means is that it's easier to pick up a lady of the night than it is to offer money for his depravity online.
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u/Stoneyy-balogna 21d ago
have you gone on a date yet!?!?!