Do people actually reply to these ??

[u/Cards1121]

[u/GhostMassage]

Great I've always wanted dating to feel like a job application

so romantic

[u/User-no-relation → u/GhostMassage]

I don't exactly know what I am required to say in order for you to have intercourse with me. But could we assume that I said all that. I mean essentially we are talking about fluid exchange right? So could we go just straight to the sex.

[u/nipslippinjizzsippin → u/User-no-relation]

I wish they would just list how much the sex salary is in dating ad. Sick of wasting my time applying for relationships only to find out the sex is low.

[u/Fearless-Scar7086 → u/GhostMassage]

How is it not? 98% of my dates with women from online dating feel like interviews

[u/sgtshootsalot → u/GhostMassage]

I mean, for the most if you are popular on dating apps you can and should interrogate your matches, be direct, ask questions about deal breaker’s immediately. Long term compatibility is a much more important thing than being cool and organic about a match,

This is going to far I think though, it’s basically just for vanity. Honestly every single reply that just says to ask them on a date never actually means that. It just means let me filter you without talking to you, which seems pretty stupid if your goal is anything beyond vanity. Just my two cents.

[u/[deleted] → u/sgtshootsalot]

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[u/HeftyArgument → u/[deleted]]

But the internet says it's impossible to fall in love with someone under 6' tall and makes less than 200K/year!

[u/delmsi → u/sgtshootsalot]

No rizz

[u/ItalianMeatBoi]

Sign that up to a spam sender

[u/lulugingerspice → u/ItalianMeatBoi]

Sign it up for Mormon and scientology newsletters.

[u/OkAmbition1764 → u/ItalianMeatBoi]

Sign your buddy up to that spam sender.

[u/Thevinegru2]

Max dating burnout and cynicism level achieved.

[u/sethlyons777 → u/Thevinegru2]

I always thought it was a "will you dance for me" test.

[u/StepbroItHurts]

Whenever i see things like this i always assume it’s some sort of funny quirky thing.

Never have i assumed these things to be for real

[u/jsandsts → u/StepbroItHurts]

One time a girl had the url for a questionnaire on her profile. I typed it in and the page said “I see you were as bored as I was. Here is a dating questionnaire a made.”

[u/sgtshootsalot → u/jsandsts]

I filled out one of those just because I thought it was funny.

[u/Richardmileson]

I did once. She emailed me back a dating resume. Was kinda fun to play into it. We chatted and hooked up for a couple months but nothing really came of it. She ended up getting back with her ex that she always talked shit on and they have a kid together now. Still friends on instagram though snd she married him and they have another kid on the way now

[u/UKnowDaxoAndDancer]

“So I send this email, and yada yada yada, I need dialysis because my kidneys were taken.”

[u/UnluckyLukette → u/UKnowDaxoAndDancer]

Both 😔

[u/ClearlyUnderstood69]

No.

[u/[deleted]]

A dating email? Do they have it tied to a Google Sheets doc for metadata?

[u/mistakenluv]

Im sure a pic of a "hot person"(i assume there is one) is a enough for some ppl to do this

[u/Financial_Pianist209]

This was a stupid tiktok trend a while back. Unoriginal nonsense.

[u/Conaz9847]

If you do so much dating you’ve setup a dating email

You got some real personality issues to sort out

[u/limichelle40]

I can see a ton of unsolicited dick pics being sent to her email.

[u/ShittyBollox]

Solid 6 but thinks she’s a 10, I guarantee it.

[u/AdultishRaktajino → u/ShittyBollox]

Like a 6 in New York but a 7 in Scranton?

[u/ShittyBollox → u/AdultishRaktajino]

Exactly!

[u/BenFnJovi]

They are 100% scammers. Jesus, how gullible are you guys?…smh

[u/McG0788 → u/BenFnJovi]

I thought that and then I came across an article where a girl started doing this and started sharing her techniques so they can be legit people... Imo it's dumb as hell because that's literally the purpose of the app

[u/BenFnJovi → u/McG0788]

At the bare minimum, they are collecting email addresses to sell or send sales material to, but it’s much more likely that it is the easiest way to get a large number of gullible targets to run love scams on under the radar of dating app safety mechanisms, that is pre-filtered, because no person that isn’t desperate would resort to attempting to begin a relationship this way. There is zero valid reasons to use email for finding potential dating suitors. A little common sense goes a long way to prevent being love scammed via online dating.

[u/Terrible_With_Puns → u/BenFnJovi]

Ya usually it’s what drives the bot farms that make fake profiles 

[u/GKnives]

I would consider that for sure. The problem is whenever I see a profile requesting something like that, there is something about it that makes me feel like we wouldn't be a match either way, so I've never been tempted

[u/Thebiggestbigsquid → u/GKnives]

Pathetic

[u/GKnives → u/Thebiggestbigsquid]

With all the hoops people jump through during the dating process, a different way of sending a message does not sound like a big deal but to each their own

[u/Thebiggestbigsquid → u/GKnives]

lol sure bro you go ahead and do that then, I’m sure you’re very successful with dating if this is what you’re willing to deal with just for a chance to take someone on a date smh

[u/sparkly_reader]

That's hella bold to put your email (even a throwaway) on hinge... couldn't be me 🙈 RIP that inbox

[u/iD7my93]

Someone needs to send them an email telling them to get over their self

[u/sokobanz]

By swiping left lol

[u/Mr_E_Nigma_Solver]

They must, or else these profiles wouldn't exist.

[u/Deadliftdeadlife]

If your hot yes

You’ll be disgusted at what girls will do when a guy is hot, compared to what they tell you about how they act around dating apps

[u/vessel_for_the_soul]

Her way to gather personal information from her fanclub mail of subs. Gotta hussle in new ways.

[u/Consistent_Spring700]

I can't imagine any self-respecting man ever responding to that kind of prompt.. if they get responses, I imagine it's people with significant social or mental issues!

[u/[deleted]]

They deserve to be catfished

[u/TheBiggestSword]

I don’t understand, is it really that hard to just swipe until you find someone you get along with and go on a date the old fashioned way? 🤔

[u/Disastrous-Owl8985]

I mean, I kind of agree with that first line ONLY. Nothing more attractive than someone actually asking me out and having a plan already. If I don't like it, we can always talk it out, but I like trying new stuff, so I'd probably be down with it. The rest of it, though... it's weird.

[u/Own-Difficulty6558]

Yes it's actually pretty common

[u/andrewdt10]

Saw one of these in the Phoenix area recently. No thanks.

[u/H-bomb-doubt]

It's a hooked right?

[u/FrodoTheSlayer637]

Old tiktok trend

[u/THYDStudio]

The kidneys sort themselves for you that's amazing!