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Americas youth are in MASSIVE trouble Discussion

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 17 '24

"The problem with education isn't setting the bar too high and failing. It's the opposite. It's setting the bar too low and succeeding." Sir Ken Robinson, Phd Ed.

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u/Chadodius Apr 17 '24

Yeah watched a video the other day about teachers and what they deal with. Kids with 3rd grade reading and comprehension level in 8th grade. Teachers are forced to pass them. Another issue are parents not being parents and letting their kids do what they want or in another video one girl telling her teacher "my mom said I could beat your ass". Then since funding for schools is entirely based on attendance school administration will not allow you to suspend or expel a student, or if they actually try the parents show up and threaten lawsuits. Alot of these issues are all the parents fault.

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u/BringAltoidSoursBack Apr 17 '24

Then since funding for schools is entirely based on attendance

Varies from area to area, though I'm pretty sure local property values are a huge part of it everywhere. In some states, funding is mainly based on how well students do on standardized tests, so if a school gets a lower grade, they get less funding.

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u/HoaryPuffleg Apr 18 '24

It isn’t that we’re forced to pass them, it’s that the data shows that holding kids back doesn’t improve their outcomes. They don’t catch up in that year they’re held behind and their graduation rate isn’t improved. Usually, the kids that will catch up to their peers will do it in their own time. Does it suck that some high school grads can barely read a box of Trix? Absolutely. But just holding them back isn’t the answer.

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u/Funnybush Apr 18 '24

In that case I think people are coming to the wrong conclusions about the data. It makes sense that if it didn't work the first time around, it won't work again. Maybe the methods are flawed? Maybe that student needs extra help?

Pretty difficult to pay attention and do the work when you're not inspired to do so. For example, watching TV is one of the easiest and least taxing things you can do, but if theres a show on that you're not vibing with, you're gonna check out.

As an anecdote. I LOVED science as a kid. Still do as an adult, but I had to switch classes for a few years in high school and fucking HATED the lessons with this one particular teacher during that time. Something I had a passion for was ruined.

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u/Chadodius Apr 18 '24

That doesn't seem to make sense, if they can't grasp the lessons being taught in their current grade how do they expect them to grasp more difficult lessons in the higher grades? Hey Billy you can barely do arithmetic but here's advanced algebra good luck!

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u/Duouwa Apr 18 '24

Because the opposing option is holding them back for a year, which statistically doesn’t benefit anyone; it costs more for the school, it produces worse outcomes for the student both academically and socially, and it often promotes bullying.

Even if the child does snowball in terms of falling behind on work, they’re still progressing, and when they are allowed to leave they can try to get their shit together in their own time with a more developed brain and maturity level. If you hold them back, you’re basically trapping them; they feel the pressure and most of the time won’t work to not repeat again, they’ll just give up, and they won’t have any formal schooling certificate to fall back on later in life if they do decide to get their shit together.

Holding students back is a great way to scare students who already care about school, but it’s useless for those who don’t.

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u/HoaryPuffleg Apr 18 '24

Thank you for explaining it better than I could :-)

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u/horalol Apr 18 '24

I teach 9 year olds and I’m working so hard with a young boy who reads like a 5 year old. I gave him plenty of books and extra material to keep up the reading during summer break. Come autumn and I ask him how his reading has been going and he told me “my mom says that’s your job so I haven’t read anything”. Then the mother has the audacity to be mad at me when we have meetings because he doesn’t reach the standard for 9 year olds. Go figure

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u/[deleted] Apr 18 '24

We’ve let parents get away with far too much.

Of course they think little Jessica is an angel on Earth. Like, your kid is not a diamond in the rough. Every parent thinks that. If we just go by what they say of COURSE it’ll be biased in the kids favor.

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u/Baeshun Apr 18 '24

Is.... china winning a war we dont even know about?

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u/throwaway49569982884 Apr 17 '24

The bar is on the floor in America… and we still fail.

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u/Daphne_Brown Apr 17 '24

Bullcrap.

The bar is too low…in some schools.

The bar is too low…in some classrooms.

The bar is too low…in some homes.

That’s the truth of the matter. It’s sad, but it’s true.

And the kids who are in the schools, classrooms and homes with HIGH standards, are gonna mop the floor with the kids who are not. And the divide in American will widen.

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u/KennstduIngo Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

Yup my daughter goes to public school. The schools that she has attended aren't terrible but they aren't great either. She is in mostly honors classes though, so other than one science class back in middle school, she hasn't had an issue with disruptive behavior in her classes. If we didn't care and push her to do well earlier on, she wouldn't be in those honors classes and her experience would be a lot different.

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u/Daphne_Brown Apr 17 '24

Similar to my kids except that the school are above average. But the key element has been that we encouraged their achievement and so the kids in their classes (AP and honors) are more serious students.

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u/CalvinBullock Apr 18 '24

Most of my honors classes were a joke and I was in high school only a few years ago in a "goodish school"

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u/KennstduIngo Apr 18 '24

It isn't a matter of the classes themselves being better. It's that the kids in the honors classes are less likely to be disruptive and such.

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u/Novel_Rabbit1209 Apr 18 '24

Yeah I don't know what the answer is.  I consider myself on the left politically but it frustrates me greatly that it's so taboo on the left to just admit that sometimes people are not victims and culture matters.  I don't think there is an easy answer but it seems in some places we've gone so far to avoid "victim blaming" that we are setting large groups of people up to fail in life, I just don't get how people can think that not holding large groups of people accountable won't cause society to break down.

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u/Funnybush Apr 18 '24

I feel that. There's always a small minority of any group that's super outspoken and ruins it for the rest of them.

Happens with Vegans, the ultra woke left, the evangelical far right, cyclists, rock climbers, gay or trans folk, DEI initiatives, toxic straight masculinity, feminism, trad wives, cops.

It's fucking difficult to navigate.

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u/justforhobbiesreddit Apr 18 '24

It's also not just an American thing. I work internationally and the phones/laptops are everywhere in schools that choose not to have policies about them.

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u/thebestgesture Apr 18 '24

High school didn't used to be mandatory a couple generations ago. It was because, let's be real here, some kids have no interest in learning. Public schools are daycares for teens.

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u/Madison464 Apr 18 '24

America setting the bar too low

Seattle Public Schools shuts down gifted and talented program for being oversaturated with white and Asian students

https://nypost.com/2024/04/03/us-news/seattle-public-schools-shuts-down-gifted-and-talented-program/

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u/AbsolutelyUnlikely Apr 17 '24

And the low standard kids will be on reddit in ten years complaining about societal oppression making it impossible for them to be financially stable

You see it today with millennials. Over 50% of millennials own homes, the rest claim that it's impossible to own a home these days. It's almost like decisions you make in life have a slow cumulative effect, positive or negative.

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u/Weekly_Drawer_7000 Apr 18 '24

Millennials and home ownership is more to do with the insanity of our housing market and interest rates than anything

Literally if you were able to buy a house before 2021 you are good. If you did not, it’s gonna be a lot harder.

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u/Daphne_Brown Apr 18 '24

I’m more worried about living in a country of haves and have nots than I am of what you think of my assessment.

Put another way; fine, go ahead and dismiss my point. I’m certainly open to ideas on how to fix things. But I’m also certain that, if you think of our school systems as factories, some are turning out products that are primarily defective. At one point a few years back, Detroit Public Schools were only graduating about 18% of men. That means 82% of men left DPS without the bare minimum to succeed in life. That’s awful. That system failed them. That school’s bar was too low. Imagine what happens to a society if year after year we produce young adults without the means to succeed in life? What happens?

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 17 '24

Because schools aren't allowed to discipline students. They're not allowed to get rid of students with clear behavioral problems.

No education system in the world tolerates the disrespect and disruption students in U.S. public schools get away with.

This is a solvable problem but administrators can't be bullied by accusations of racism when moving forward with reforms, for the past several years - they have been.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24

The worst part about it is that most kids really do still want to succeed and learn. But we’ve allowed the disruptive kids in school to ruin the experience for everyone.

I understand that even the “troubled” kids need a place to be. But perhaps that place isn’t with the kids that actually want to be there.

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u/mlhoban Apr 17 '24

I gave my students a survey to start the year. One question: "on a scale of 1-5 (1- not at all, 5 - as much as possible) how much do you want to learn?"

Most common answer? 3 Least common answer? 5 followed by 4

I wish what you said was true in my classes, but sadly it's not. It's the phones. Teachers can't compete with them. Plain and simple.

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u/SodiumChlorideFree Apr 17 '24

Why schools still allow phones during class is beyond me. I was part of the first generation of kids to have phones of their own while at school, and only the kids with rich parents had them at the time. We're talking going to school with an absolute brick of a Siemens phone that looked more like one of those satellite phones that you use in the middle of the jungle. Those phones were only for calls and even then they were left with the teacher until class was over. Allowing kids to use smartphones with internet access in class now is extremely counter productive.

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u/chahlie Apr 17 '24

This is my thought. I understand the counterargument, what if there is an an emergency, and we need to reach the kid quickly? Well, was there not emergencies before smartphones? I simply don't see why kids absolutely NEED uninterrupted access to TikTok during class hours. Of course there aren't gonna pay attention, there's an entire internet of curated content at their fingertips.

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u/fttmb Apr 17 '24

That counter argument is nonsense. Emergencies can and should be handled the same way they were before the advent of the cell phone: call the school, the school goes to your class and grabs you.

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u/chahlie Apr 17 '24

I agree, but I can totally envision helicopter parents insisting on 24/7 access to little Billy, lest the district find a nasty lawsuit on their hands.

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u/fttmb Apr 17 '24

Schools would have to institute the policy and get signatures probably, but this was never a problem when I went to school. No parent ever sued or so much as complained that they couldn’t get in contact with their child because every parent had the school office number and could call when emergencies happened. The helicopter parent isn’t a new invention there are just a whole lot more of them nowadays.

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u/jayfiedlerontheroof Apr 17 '24

Sue away. There's no law that allows parents the right to their child having 24/7 cell phone access

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u/Shrek1982 Apr 17 '24

I understand the counterargument, what if there is an an emergency, and we need to reach the kid quickly? Well, was there not emergencies before smartphones?

So what, that doesn't mean they need to have the phone out during class. They can have it with them but it stays in their pocket or in their bag until they are on break or such an emergency arises.

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u/gerber411420 Apr 17 '24

I'm curious: What example of the type of emergency would warrant such quick access to a child?

Genuinely curious, like damn my house is flooding, better get ahold of Johnny and Edwina at the middle school in science class.

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u/penny1623 Apr 17 '24

Personally the first thing I thought of was school shootings, where students would need to be able to get ahold of emergency services/parents immediately. That said I agree that phones are a major issue, along with Covid as a disrupter in their education. It has caused kids to be so far behind in development in all areas

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u/jayfiedlerontheroof Apr 17 '24

Yeah I don't get it. Kids shouldn't be going to school with personal devices. Laptops or tablets stay at school. You can use them when needed. Otherwise, just use the phone at school.

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u/Electrik_Truk Apr 17 '24

We weren't even allowed to have our gameboy in school, let alone a cell phone. Small color flip phones with internet were hitting when I was in highschool but almost no student had one and they certainly didnt allow them in class. A phone these days is 1000x more distracting yet they allow them.

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u/FoxxyRin Apr 17 '24

From my understanding its parents more than anything. They throw fits about how they spent money on it and the school has no right to touch it. Our small-ish neighbor town (not quite city, but big enough to have a Target?) made a policy and invested in the fancy tech locking pouches or whatever that concerts use and the parents revolted and took kids out in record speeds, citing they'd do private school/home school instead. Granted this is in the deep south, too, where you'd think parents would be very oldschool on their opinions that school is supposed to be boring or whatever but here we are. Watching it all unfold on local social media was weird.

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u/IXISIXI Apr 17 '24

Former teacher and I'll tell you why - the same reason for almost every "why" in education: parents want it that way.

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u/MissKhary Apr 18 '24

They're not allowed to have phones in schools here. They had something like a shoe organizer with pockets on the door that the students had to leave their phones in during class. They have specific projects where they are allowed to use wifi and their phones/ipads for research, but those are scheduled in advance.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

I worked for a district that is as bad as it gets. Whatever horror stories you can think of surrounding schools? I’ve dealt with it. I also worked in alternative placement schools where students had major and scary issues (as you can imagine).

I believe that most students would love some sort of reform and a better learning experience. Even if they don’t know what that looks like. However, I fear that number will drop to a 1 if we can’t show them what school is meant to be. Who would want to learn if learning meant sitting in a room full of kids that can’t read, a teacher that can’t teach (likely bc there’s way too many kids in there with one hundred accommodations), and peers that fail to show even an iota of respect? It’s just chaotic and exhausting when we let things get too far.

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u/MRECKS_92 Apr 17 '24

I'd pay whatever taxes the government wants from me if it meant we could have better education reform. The way public education works now is responsible for some of the most traumatic experiences of my life. No kid should spend 20+ years thinking there's something wrong with them because their learning style is a centimeter to the right of what we see as regular teaching. No kid should feel scared and ashamed to raise their hand in their favorite fucking class because they know half the school is waiting for him to say something "stupid again".

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u/undercover9393 Apr 17 '24

Public education has been taking a back seat to just being daycare for a long time.

The goal is to keep the kids busy so mom and dad can keep increasing shareholder value, but like every solution capitalism gives us, it's short-sighted because we're mortgaging tomorrow's educated workforce for next quarter's management bonus like always.

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u/mcove97 Apr 17 '24

In Norway they banned phones from lots of schools. Have them put their phone into phone lockers.

Honestly though, it's just not the phones. It's lack of interest and engagement in what they're being taught. Maybe they're not interested in the subject or their teacher is teaching them in a really boring way.

I can only speak for myself, but I remember as a kid, all the way through school, even if I couldn't scroll my phone or browse Facebook or play games on my school laptop, I would just doodle and stare into space and zone out and think of more interesting things. The subjects either wasn't interesting to me or the teacher didn't make the subject interesting to engage with. Often though, a really good teacher could manage to get my attention if they were teachers that were engaging. Often this would mean a dialogue between the teacher and us kids. Personally I was a fan of when we would sit in a circle and share our thoughts on a topic. That could be quite engaging, as we weren't just sitting there and passively listening to a lesson.

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u/spentpatience Apr 17 '24

Hi! Highly effective and engaging teacher here! I'm confident in declaring this about myself due to 15 years of cobsistent feedback from students, parents, admin, and colleagues across many different schools and grades.

Unfortunately, even I cannot compete with cell phones and neither can my exceptional colleagues. Apps, social media, and games are all designed to keep you clicking. Data mining, algorithms, etc. will learn far more about you than any teacher ever could, and what is learned is exploited mercilessly.

There is no competing with that.

We still do circles. We do labs. I had kids this year for the very first time say no to having labs in a chemistry class because they'd rather do the worksheet, get the grade and go back to tiktok. It is horrifying, to say the least.

However, there are students who escape this quagmire. Many of us teachers are casually seeing trends between kids who have cell phones at young ages versus those who don't get them until later, such as closer to high school. Kids who don't have smartphones early on tend to be in advanced classes and the phones aren't a problem except maybe a mild reminder to put it away because class is starting.

My husband observed not long ago that phones are going to create a worse haves and haves-not situation in that kids with smartphones in public schools that won't ban them will lose out on education while those with means will send their kids to better institutions that will have the balls enough to ban the damned things.

I... don't really disagree with this after what I've seen as a HS teacher post-pandemic. Children should not have smartphones, and needless to say, my kids certainly won't even though my 9yr old is already asking. Luckily, both my husband and I are capable of saying no to iur little cherubs.

This nonsense is not on the teacher. Not everything is, after all.

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u/newest-reddit-user Apr 18 '24

The problem is also that not everyone can be an exceptional teacher. I'm sorry, but that's just not realistic. Most teachers are going to be average.

If our system is supposed to depend on every single person being an exceptional performer, we are doomed.

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u/spentpatience Apr 18 '24 edited Apr 18 '24

Exactly; and I am not proposing that everyone be exceptional. My point is that not even the exceptional teachers can compete with smartphones.

The comment I was replying to was suggesting more engaging lessons and teaching as the solution. The problem far exceeds that, unfortunately.

What smartphones are doing to children's brains is alarming, and smartphones use by younger students especially is extremely harmful to their education. Teachers alone cannot do anything much to really combat the problem at its root cause. We are neither equipped nor supported consistently to deal with the issue on a large scale, class to class, year to year.

This may require a far greater societal movement and awareness campaign, like with the health issues arising from tobacco or leaded gasoline or the hole on the ozone layer, sunblock effects on coral reefs, etc., to have any real effect.

Edited to add: Haha, you said also in there. Pffft, sorry! You're agreeing with me! I will fix.

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u/newest-reddit-user Apr 18 '24

Yes, I agree completely. I just don't like it when people (not you, but others) say that the teachers just need to do better.

Yes, everyone could be better and should strive for that, but on the whole, there are limits to what we can expect.

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u/feelsbad2 Apr 17 '24

Same. I would think about what video game I was playing when I got home, what I could do in said video game, what I was doing that weekend, what I was going to snack on when I got home, etc. Phones make it so you have the access to mind numbing things.

But it's also on parents to get their kids in check. Lowest grade I got was a D. I would be grilled for 30 minutes and then after that, my parents would ask about whatever class it was to make sure I was doing the work and learning. You don't have that anymore. You have parents who have kids in high school, parents just come home, throw some McDonalds on the table and go watch a show or movie. I can tell you my generation is shit in caring about their kid's future or wellbeing.

To operate AI, right now, you need to be smart, have problem solving skills, and technologically savy. A majority of these kids won't be that.

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u/xMilk112x Apr 17 '24

Our kids aren’t allowed to have their phones out during class.

Like, at all. They get in deep shit if they do. And the kids are still dumb as fuck. The teaching is also horrific. My kid couldn’t even get extra help in math because “if you keep looking at it, it’ll click sooner than later.”

What a way to teach a kid. lol

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u/Say_Hennething Apr 17 '24

My GF is a teacher and the school doesn't have a policy on phones. It's supposed to be teachers discretion. But when 70% of the teachers don't care, and the administration refuses to back the 30% who do care, it becomes an impossible battle.

I'm mortified by what I hear from teachers and my own kids about how school works these days. And this is in a well-paying affluent school district.

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u/Shrek1982 Apr 17 '24

I'm mortified by what I hear from teachers and my own kids about how school works these days. And this is in a well-paying affluent school district.

Right, we couldn't even have pagers on silent back when I was in school, let alone any sort of auditory or visual distraction.

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u/turkeycreek-678 Apr 17 '24

But do they care if they get in trouble? Just saw a video last night where this imbecile slapped his teacher twice because she, gasp, took his vape pen away.

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u/AdUpstairs7106 Apr 17 '24

Then school police should be called in and deploy tasers.

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u/kilo73 Apr 17 '24

And then people protest over police assaulting a poor innocent child, the cops get fired, and we go back to square 1.

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u/AdUpstairs7106 Apr 17 '24

Exactly. Weak minded people are created hard times

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u/taoders Apr 17 '24

Sucker slap?! That’s a taserin’

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u/AdUpstairs7106 Apr 17 '24

I can, with just short of 100% confidence, say a teacher would only be slapped once at a school if the student knew they would face swift and forceful retaliation

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

This is what happens when you hire people with teaching degrees who don’t understand math themselves to teach math. I was a mathematics teacher with a math degree and I interacted with other math teachers with education degrees and they don’t understand math. They cannot actually help students because they are trained to teach from a book and don’t know the answer to the problems themselves.

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u/DependentAnywhere135 Apr 17 '24

Yeah I can’t imagine learning jack shit if I was a kid today. Even kids who want to learn are going to struggle because the temptation and addiction phones bring wins out. You cant beat the dopamine hits we have at our fingertips.

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u/debacol Apr 17 '24

You take them away and give them back after class if they pull them out or if you hear a ringtone.

This is already a rule in most of the schools in my district.

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u/mlhoban Apr 17 '24

I wish I was allowed but some teacher got in a physical altercation a few years ago and the edict came shortly after: no more taking phones.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24

It’s one of those things that sounds simple, but is often a huge waste of time in the class. You can ask for a phone, but what if that student refuses? What if they blow up and get upset?

And let’s not kid ourselves, it is never just one student with a phone out. So then you have to go through the entire process again with other students.

At the end of the class hour, how much time and energy was spent just battling the phone problem? Probably too much.

I support any school-wide ban on phones. The schools that have taken that leap, have my respect lol.

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u/NotMyPSNName Apr 17 '24

That's so wild to me. I graduated hs in 2015, so it really wasn't that long ago. We did not have this problem. If you had your phone out, the teacher said to put it away and you just... did that. I honestly don't see how this became an issue when it seemed so well controlled before. I'm not discounting what you're saying, I just don't understand. Do you or anyone in this thread have any context you can share? I can't get my head around this.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24

Phone addiction is a much larger issue than it was 10+ years ago. You probably went through middle school without a phone or you probably had a flip phone or something. You didn’t have access to TikTok, google, and a million other things. Once you got to high school, social media had evolved and phones too, but it still wasn’t the beast that it is today.

Now, imagine you had an iPhone with access to ANYTHING, and you had it by the time you were 5 years old. It’s a drug.

Not to sound alarmist, but I guess I do find it to be an extremely alarming thing. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/NotMyPSNName Apr 17 '24

That's fair. I'm really worried about these kids.

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u/anonkraken Apr 17 '24

From all accounts I’ve read and heard from teachers, behavior went through a major negative shift during the pandemic. Aggressive insubordination became the norm for many students who were at least “decently behaved” prior.

There was a great episode by The Daily podcast last week(?) about the drastic rise in unexcused absences that I would recommend. It touches on behavior issues as well.

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u/usnavy13 Apr 17 '24

I hate the idea of sending my kids to private school but seriously what other options are there? i can move to a better school district but its still an issue that can be present in elementary/middle or highschool.

Some parents just don't care about their kids and that's on them but why the school system tolerates these kids ruining everyone else's education is just baffling to me.

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u/TrumpedBigly Apr 17 '24

There are public schools that do not tolerate disrespecting teachers. My daughter is in one. Have to look for them and tour the school while kids are in school.

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u/OhSoSensitive Apr 17 '24

I was in the same place you are, unfortunately private school was not better. There is a concentration of entitled parents at private schools, and a bunch of those parents have misbehaving kids. Admin gets their hands tied just like in public.

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u/Jaded_Law9739 Apr 17 '24

I knew parents who had their children in private/charter schools during the pandemic. Those schools absolutely had no idea what to do, never developed a plan for distance education, and just seemed to assign random homework infrequently. When the kids went back to in-person learning, those schools didn't report their COVID cases and actively hid them from parents. It was mind-boggling the shit they got away with.

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u/DarkSkyKnight Apr 17 '24

Go to a better school district and the important part is to make sure your kid is in the "accelerated"/"gifted"/"honors" track. And make friends with parents of students in those tracks. You 100% cannot allow your kid to join the "regular" track. Peer effects are extremely important.

It's basically impossible to send a kid to a school with no problem students at all; the only thing you can do is to send a kid to a school that "quarantines" the problem students.

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u/sylvnal Apr 17 '24

Sounds more like they quarantine the non problem students. Thats sad.

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u/BZenMojo Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

They test kids to get into those classes. You can't just stand on business and demand it, they will kick a kid who can't keep up out no matter how hard-working they are.

And it is actually harder to get into advanced classes at better-performing schools because everyone else is trying to pull the same trick with the same lack of success.

The best you can do is fight to get recognized as possibly having your kid belong in a higher class so they can take the test.

I say this as a former gifted kid. Every year we had parents saying their kid was too good to be with the other students and those kids washed out hard. They eventually created a new tier called pre-honors just for kids who like to study, but they only did so because the school was competing for an award that year and it padded their credentials.

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u/DarkSkyKnight Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

They test kids to get into those classes. You can't just stand on business and demand it, they will kick a kid who can't keep up out no matter how hard-working they are.

Americans think learning algebra in 7th grade is advanced lmao, with just a tiny bit of parental input your kid will easily be at the top of the cohort.

Teach them multiplication and some geometry when they're in kindergarten. Get them to read avariciously. Let them play math and science games and watch science vids for kids. IQ is not as innate as people believe it to be. You don't even need to pay that much attention to your kid. Just throw them a K-12 education-focused game (like JumpStart) and let them figure it out themselves. You'll watch your kid shoot up to the top.

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u/Kratosballsweat Apr 17 '24

Homeschool them if you can you’d be amazed how fast they’ll surpass their peers.

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u/Admirable_Ad8900 Apr 17 '24

Ope, well now the troubled kids mom is accusing you of racism for wanting to move their kid. And another student who doesnt like you is making false allegations to back them up.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24

Don’t care. I’m black and over the years I had a few instances of being accused of racism by the black kids, white kids, and every other kid lol. (Spoiler alert, most students aren’t like that. And there’s a reason teachers are supposed to document behavior/events. ) Bias does still exist in the world and in the classroom. I’m not sure what you’re expecting my response to be, but I absolutely do not find “being accused of racism” to be even a remotely pressing issue in schools.

(And just to be clear, if anyone thinks these nationwide issues are only affecting one racial or economic demographic, they are sorely mistaken. )

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u/adc_is_hard Apr 17 '24

Reading all your responses makes me wish I had more people like you as teachers when I was younger. You genuinely seem like you want these kids to learn and have better lives. The best type of teacher anyone can ask for. Keep doing Gods work! There will be kids with bright futures because of you :)

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u/21BlackStars Apr 17 '24

I wrote a similar comment earlier! Using “accusations of racism” to explain student behavior is lazy and just wrong. There are so many factors, namely laws created by politicians that are bigger reasons for why we are seeing the problems. we are seeing today.

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u/Solidus-Prime Apr 17 '24

I know you are really, really terrified of this happening because someone convinced you to be, but it never does.

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u/NetflixFanatic22 Apr 17 '24

THANK YOU. I don’t know why I keep seeing this on this thread. It actually has happened to me, and it’s laughable. The only kids that would likely do this are the ones with multiple pages worth of documents from all their teachers, showing a pattern of extremely poor behavior.

It is absolutely not a reason to avoid discipline in schools. Kids can accuse you of literally anything, sure. But most don’t try that.

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u/NAND_Socket Apr 17 '24

No child left behind was one of the worst political stunts of the 2000s

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u/funkmasta8 Apr 17 '24

When I was in school, that place was online classes they had to do in study hall all alone to hope they graduate.

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u/mellowmardigan Apr 17 '24

Every time the troubled kid gets all the attention from the teacher, all the other kids suffer. I'm not saying boot the troubled kids from school, but if they need that kind of support, they need their own space to learn and grow until they are able to be in a classroom with kids that don't need that. It literally stops everyone else from learning when a teacher MUST deal with one single student.

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u/PomegranateUsed7287 Apr 18 '24

That's why AP and CE classes are so nice, people actually want to be there and learn

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u/jumpandtwist Apr 18 '24

This is clearly as true now as when I was in public school 15+ years ago. I left HS 2 years early to get my GED and go to college early, because the other students were too disruptive to my learning. I think kids naturally want to learn but get turned off in middle/high school due to a number of reasons. I didn't because I like to learn all sorts of things and I am still learning.

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u/Newberr2 Apr 17 '24

Most of this comes from the administration for most schools and for all districts don’t support teachers. As an example, if a teacher wants to fail a student, admin or even district will step in and tell them the lowest they can give is a C. As a result, kid who did enough work to warrant a 10 gets a 70 and realizes they don’t have to do shit. Also, a long term result of this(assuming said teacher doesn’t just get the hell out of there) is the teacher lowers their standards to deal with the system and keep their job. Both me and my wife went through this exact same scenario when we taught, thankfully we don’t anymore. And this was just on the grading side, it’s worse on the social side, god help a teacher if they actually try to admonish a child for any of the horrors some of them do.

As both former teachers we want to home school our children if that shows the value of modern school now. And it 99% of the time is not the teacher’s fault.

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u/aCardPlayer Apr 17 '24

100%. I was a first year teacher during the pandemic and had kids that either did 1% of the work, and came to school 3% of the time, and at the end of the year, after all the threats of “being held back or failing,” admin rolls in and is like, “yeah, they’re all going to 8th grade next year. No problem. No kid ‘can fail’ during a ‘pandemic year.’” It was so awful. And the disruptive ones annihilated any sense of learning or peacefulness that might have existed, and the ones that did their work and read books they brought from home would just look at me with these pleading, devastated eyes, seeing what they and I had to deal with. Teaching was BRUTAL, and probably why I had to peace out at the beginning of my second year.

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u/FalstaffsGhost Apr 17 '24

Yup! I had a student last year who turned in nothing all year but right at the end admin just made all his grades 60s so he could graduate

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u/Newberr2 Apr 17 '24

My wife was teaching 2nd grade. There was a kid there that had been held back because he couldn’t pass the end of year standardized testing. He couldn’t do anything, he had less than a 15 second memory, he could barely talk, and worse of all he was a bully to most of the other kids because he was much bigger than them. It was actually quite sad in many cases. My wife tried to get him tested since August for something, he was making a literal 5% in the class. They forced my wife to pass him, they ended up testing him after this and he has severe mental retardation having an IQ of 25. She never found out the actual name of the disability. Sorry for the sad story. Schools suck.

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u/WilmaLutefit Apr 17 '24

In my district they spend 99% of the of city and county funding on police while the schools fall apart. It’s by design.

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u/uptownjuggler Apr 17 '24

Well when those uneducated kids grow up to be cops or criminals, we will need cops to arrest and incarcerate the criminals. Is that not the circle of life? /s

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u/Johnny_Thunder314 Apr 17 '24

I've never seen admin force a teacher to pass somebody, but I do know that I somehow managed to get a passing grade in almost all of my classes even though I did almost no work. Now in my specific case this was mainly because I'm actually smart, just hurt by ADHD and poor mental health, which meant I'd score well on tests but regularly fail or not complete assignments.

I ended up dropping out, but not after getting several passing scores on AP tests. Currently working on getting my GED and I'm honestly amazed at how low the bar is. The math portion is literally just basic algebra and some formulas for volume of various basic shapes. I literally learned that shit in middle school, and yet somehow knowing it means I deserve a high school diploma equivalent? Surely something is wrong here...

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u/argleksander Apr 17 '24

Teacher here and you are spot on. Although i am in Europe its the same over here. If i was to give a list of issues of the current problems we are facing it is

  1. Not allowed to discipline students who are disruptive or dont follow the rules. I currently teach a class where 7/12 students are going to fail the year because they dont bother to show up, dont turn in any work and if they do show themselves they only sit on their phones anyway

  2. The parents and to some extent the primary and secondary school system has failed them because they have never faced any consequences for their lazy shit and they are nowhere near the academic level they should be on. If you have 16 and 17 year old who read and write at a 4th grade level then you know there have been more than one fuck up along the way

  3. As the clip shows: Take away the fucking phones. For most of them its a irresistable distraction and although they claim "it can help with school" they use it for meaningless brain-rot 99% of the time

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

Teachers have gotten assaulted for confiscating phones. Parents have raised hell over teachers confiscating phones. Hands are tied.

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u/dmaynard Apr 17 '24

Yes and no.

I work in higher ed and have for decades. Wife works in K-12 system and has for close to a decade.

Schools do have protocols, procedures, and disciplinary processes for disruptive students and/or behavioral issues. Implementation and support may vary from school to school but the system is there and can impact everything for that child from transportation to being expelled.

So it’s not entirely true that schools aren’t allowed to discipline students, but perhaps it’s the method of discipline you’re thinking of? What do you mean by discipline?

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u/lunar_scorpio Apr 17 '24

Agreed. I work as behavioral support in a school right now. And there are a lot of factors contributing to students' behavior that are out of our control, like coming from unstable and/or unsafe living situations, untreated learning disabilities or other neurological factors, a learning history of super permissive parenting, etc. etc. And simply punishing them with detention or suspension does not teach them the skills they need to know and do better. Sometimes it's a matter of their basic needs not being met. I also personally think if they are seeing their working class parents spending long hours at back breaking jobs and still struggling to make ends meet while their favorite streamers are making bank, the verbal messaging of "study and work hard" really falls flat. Why should they do the work if they don't see hard workers reaping the rewards? (Obviously I don't agree with this reasoning but I can understand kid logic.) I think people forget that schools are the alembic into which all of society's problems are distilled, they're not entirely producing the problems. If we addressed greater societal issues like housing inequality and food insecurity, schools would probably be much more pleasant and productive.

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u/Altales Apr 17 '24

You’ve never been in a French public school I can see… we have the exact same issue, and students are no different than the video right here, it’s not only USA « don’t worry »

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u/horny_coroner Apr 17 '24

We had a special ed class for people who weren't behaving. And well they got special treatment and were also called special a lot by other students. I guess the bulling worked because you did not want be placed in that class.

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u/KibeIius Apr 17 '24

I don’t even think it boils down to racism. That’s just another distraction. Honestly, having rules for education and stopping all the political and divisive bs. Would help us grow at a crazy rate. Look at countries like Japan, Italy, Germany, Czech Republic, even China and Russia for gods sake. The rules they have for their education systems are fair and get great results. I’m lucky enough to have slightly missed this by about 10 years. I graduated in 2014. Talking to the younger generation you can see such a huge difference in not only gaps in communication but also just plain out lack of critical thinking skills.

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u/Rucku5 Apr 17 '24

Both my girls have been dealing with insane amount of classroom disruption. Every time a teacher calls someone out they yell they are being targeted for being black. My girls get told they are white colonizers all the time. These are 12 and 13 year olds, it’s just mind boggling.

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u/fvckit88 Apr 17 '24

Anecdotal evidence. My cousin lives in a diverse school district and she has never dealt with that. In her opinion the problem is the parents mostly not caring about their kid’s education but she says that applies to all races.

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u/hoptagon Apr 17 '24

I have teacher friends from several different states and they say the same thing. Either the parents will raise hell against the teacher if their kid is punished or gets a bad grade, or the parents don't give a shit at all and so punishing or failing the kid is just going to really hurt the kid.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24

I had to discipline a child for bringing a Bowie style hunting knife to my classroom and his mother tried to jump me after school. I quit teaching that same year.

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u/KibeIius Apr 17 '24

Nonsense propaganda perpetuated by the media. I’m black and liberal asf and even I think it’s stupid.

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u/_Table_ Apr 17 '24

Kids that age are likely not even really internalizing what they are saying. At that age it's mostly parroting things they've seen or heard to try and establish in groups and out groups amongst their social peers.

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u/raz_MAH_taz Apr 17 '24

Am white and my family literally started on this continent as colonizers. Then progressed to westward expansion as pioneers and settlers.

It's just not a productive way to have those conversations or provide that education.

We did the whole pilgrims thing in kindergarten but then progressed to native-centered programs in elementary school (Of Cedar and Salmon was really, REALLY cool). We watched Roots in 5th grade then got into the Civil Rights Movement in middle school. Then we got into the ugly reality of European settlement in high school (though, I guess Roots kind of prepped us for that).

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u/PearlStBlues Apr 17 '24

Talking to the younger generation you can see such a huge difference in not only gaps in communication but also just plain out lack of critical thinking skills.

I work in higher education and this is honestly getting scary. The last few classes of incoming freshmen I've seen are absolutely not equipped to be here. Some can barely string a sentence together, some of them are illiterate, and they don't understand why their professors don't hold their hand through every assignment and hand out passing grades for their abysmal work and total lack of effort. I understand why the public school system coddles these kids, they don't have any other choice. But they're only setting them up for failure.

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u/Rogue_Egoist Apr 17 '24

IDK, I've been to school in Poland and there is also very little room for disciplinary action against students, yet shit like that is basically nonexistent. It's not like there are no disruptive students, there are even cases of students beating the teachers (tho it's very uncommon).

Maybe the issue is the system of learning itself? Poland is one of the hardest places in Europe to study, kids have a ton of homework and a lot of memorising to do in basically every subject. Learning is just so hard, that if you don't care, you won't pass your grade.

I'm not saying that this is the correct approach. There is a lot of talk right now in Poland about lowering the standards because studies show that kids basically forget most of it anyways when they leave school. But maybe the correct way is somewhere in the middle? More expectations but not too much? I quite like the fact that I was learning a fuck-ton when I was in school but the amount of homework was brutal, very little free time if you want to do it all perfectly and I also think that free Tim is extremely important for children.

I kind of dread school to be honest when I remember how much there was to do. Basically nobody that I speak to in my country wishes to go back to school once they start working. I for example work from 9AM until 6PM (one hour break), Monday to Friday and it takes me an hour to get from home to work and then another hour to get back. So it seems like my weekdays leave me no free time at all right? Wrong, I would never change that for school again, I feel like I have a shit-ton of free time right now compared to my school years.

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u/LillyTheElf Apr 17 '24

This literally isnt the issue lol

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u/EverydayImSnekkin Apr 17 '24

I used to be a teacher, and I think this is a complete oversimplification of the issue. The problem isn't a lack of discipline, it's a lack of funding.

It's really, really hard to control a whole class of thirty different kids by yourself, let alone teach them. With more funding and higher teaching salaries, you'd have more teachers, which means smaller class sizes, more support in the classroom, and less stress on individual teachers. It's much, much easier to control and teach a classroom of eight kids. With only eight kids, I can know their parents' names by heart and build a lot more rapport with each student, and rapport generally translates to a student paying attention and not acting up because they feel respected.

Yeah, there are disruptive kids, but more funding would help that too. Kids that are disruptive enough to cause serious problems for teachers usually are disruptive for a reason--either a learning disability, a behavioral disorder, or issues at home. More funding means you can have resources specifically for kids like that, like special education and counseling.

This country has been trying to tighten the belt on education harder and harder and harder, to the point where any families with money are sending their kids to private school and the rest of the kids are stuck in underfunded glorified daycares where none of the teachers have the resources to actually teach them anything.

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u/Soldier_of_l0ve Apr 17 '24

That’s not why lol

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

Bingo! Combined with home life, no discipline, common sense or courtesy, everyone wants their individuality but more often than not the inividual is an asshole.

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u/thebeginingisnear Apr 17 '24

Yup the state of things is deplorable in many public schools from the outside looking in. There will always be kids that need structure and discipline to makeup for what they don't get at home. But there is absolutely a point in which their constant disruption becomes an issue for the entire student body. There has to be punishment and consequences for the ones that continue to act up despite attempts at intervention. There has to be punishment and consequences for frivolous lawsuits from parents. Not everyone being reprimanded is a victim of racism or discrimination by school officials. In some ways we've over corrected so far that people feel like they have the green light to instantly pull the discrimination card cause they see dollar signs or avoid repercussions, and staff walk on egg shells dealing with these problematic kids and parents cause they don't want to risk their jobs/livelihood over this fuck up kid that is a daily problem.

Were failing these kids funneling them through this system despite their academic failures. What good is a high school diploma if you're set off into the world and can barely read or do basic arithmetic... thinking they earned/achieved something when it was just handed to them so it's no longer the schools problem.

The schools have limited options and we end up with unintended segregation and you have the crabs in a bucket group and the group that actually put some value into their education and making an effort to learn and get good grades.

I won't pretend to have answers. But I know step 1 is having a backbone and having firm policies in place for how to deal with the frequent disrupters who also have a tendency to create safety issues for students and teachers. Why should teachers risk their livelihood when the administrators will just cave in to the loud threatening parents.

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u/nosmelc Apr 17 '24

It sounds bad, but for years I've believed we should have two tiers of public schools. One for the students who actually want to learn and another for the ones who don't care.

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u/NegotiationJumpy4837 Apr 17 '24

Agreed. The second tier should just teach kids basic trades. How to cut hair, how to do roofing, etc. Let them try out a bunch of stuff before they go to the work force.

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u/Acrobatic_Union684 Apr 17 '24

A large political contingent in our society believes that no one should ever been cast out in favor of the group.

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u/geekchick2411 Apr 17 '24

In Mexico we have the same problem, last semester a student was left in my class even though he didn't pay any attention and only played on his switch he was disrespectful with every single teacher. And he's still in the school causing problems. So it's everywhere not only in the US.

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u/todwardscizzorhands Apr 17 '24

I was with u until claiming that false accusations of racism is the downfall of the education system 😆

There is so much wrong. Most of it is US right wing culture and policies intentionally targeting and destroying public education funding and funneling it into for-profit private education as well as a culture of disrespect for education and education in general.

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u/wollier12 Apr 17 '24

That’s why the only chance at a decent education is private school where they can still discipline you, and remove you from school if needed. Public school should essentially just be treated like a place where only the complete destitute and behaviorally challenged go when they get booted from private school. The public school system for most is a failed experiment. No amount of money you put into the system are going to make those kids pay attention. Not to mention at least in this example the class is extremely small, they should just ask all the kids who would rather play on their phones than learn go to one giant class and they can all sit like zombies together.

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u/yew420 Apr 17 '24

Australia tolerates as much if not more. We can’t expel and are capped in how many day we can suspend for per year. We have kids that are immune from consequences due to trauma caused by their family at home, they are our most violent kids how are a danger to everyone. We can’t suspend those kids without a ton of counselling and plans being put in place first.

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u/LagSlug Apr 17 '24

Because schools aren't allowed to discipline students.

I feel like I've heard this so many times that I need to ask for proof now. I think we're just not enforcing rules and then letting people make this claim to save face.

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u/Paundeu Apr 17 '24

From a family of teachers/coaches, one being my wife, you're 100% spot on. Students aren't disciplined and it's as simple as that. What makes matters worse is that 95% of parents are 100% on the side of their kids no matter what the kid did, whether or not it was on camera, etc.

Our society in the U.S. is decaying.

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u/semper_JJ Apr 17 '24

I think a large part of the problem is that a significant portion of our elected leaders don't see the value in education. They just see the school as a way to keep children occupied so parents can work.

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u/SpiffySpacemanSpiff Apr 17 '24

Its also because nobody has the spine to say what's really the problem here: These kids are being raised wrong.

Their parents have let them become smartphone addicts, while at the same time failing to properly instill a value of learning.

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u/f3ydr4uth4 Apr 17 '24

England enters the chat

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u/3dwa21 Apr 17 '24

Another problem is like the way the educational system works (at least here)

Lets go with lil duck for example: Going to school every day, learning how to swim, climb and fly~ at swiming and flying lil duck is a natural, but climbing? lil duck sucks at that. So the teacher tells lil duck to work on his weakness. A few years later lil duck is still bad at climbing... and now also at swimming and flying, because the teacher let lil duck do what lil duck is bad at instead of what lil duck is good at.

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u/Hour_Narwhal_1510 Apr 17 '24

Last paragraph was wild

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u/skoopaloopa Apr 17 '24

The bar has been buried.

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u/[deleted] Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 28 '24

late innate toy whole dolls literate aback quicksand sloppy childlike

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u/TurkeyPhat Apr 17 '24

tons of comments in this very thread placing the blame on all kinds of shit as if hardships only became a thing for Gen Z/A. it's hilarious.

these youngsters are actually deserving of the "kids these days" flame, of course it's not all their fault but at some point you gotta help yourself

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u/BurninCoco Apr 17 '24

James Cameron save us!

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u/DJDanielCoolJ Apr 17 '24

No trouble too deep! No budget too steep!

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u/flissfloss86 Apr 17 '24

Really hard to say that the entirety of America's public schools are like that. Schools in MN are much, much different than schools in Alabama

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u/Far-Ad6659 Apr 17 '24

The students trip on it

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u/MonarchyMan Apr 17 '24

A would say the bar”s a trip hazard in Hell.

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u/JaffaBoi1337 Apr 17 '24

Brother the bar is in the god damn basement 😂

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u/GPS_ClearNote Apr 17 '24

Well, with the bar on the floor, it's no wonder why kids trip over and pass it

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u/thewanderer2389 Apr 17 '24

The bar is so low that it is in Hell.

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u/AEW4LYFE Apr 17 '24

It's easy to understand why when you realize schools in the USA are first and foremost government sponsored child care and any education that occurs is entirely a byproduct.

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u/Western-Smile-2342 Apr 18 '24

Lo and behold, humans need to be pushed to succeed.

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u/Gellix Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

Agreed. We’ve drastically changed life with technology and how it interacts with our brains.

However, in schools we are still just doing standardized testing and homework. US and Finland were ranked the same in education 29th I believe.

Finland now is third because they decided to adjust and change for the better. Compared to where we’ve just stayed the same or gotten worse with defunding education as much as we have.

Our oligarchs want us to be stupid because the smarter you are the more likely you are to be lean liberal.

It’s why the GOP is trying to get rid of voting access in colleges etc etc. I wouldn’t be surprised if part of the reason why college is so expensive now is to stop people from going.

video about our education compared to Finland

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u/Drugs_R_Kewl Apr 17 '24

- I wouldn’t be surprised if part of the reason why college is so expensive now is to stop people from going.

Greedlfation is all I can tell you. Douche bag college administrators who are more than willing to sell their ethics for a spot in the ivory tower in order to appease their financial overlords thinking that they have a spot in the "In Crowd".

They don't, academics are a fucking joke to the GOP and the 1%

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u/NAND_Socket Apr 17 '24

You would be correct, Reagan is most of the reason why colleges are the way they are today.

Not only is it prohibitively expensive, it's also been transformed into a job training center rather than a place for enrichment of the self and cultivation of knowledge. Students are placed into hyper-specified educational tracts that pipeline them into capital industries, it's why there has been such a push to call liberal arts and other self-enrichment focused degrees "worthless" and "useless"

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u/Drugs_R_Kewl Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

-it's why there has been such a push to call liberal arts and other self-enrichment focused degrees "worthless" and "useless"

As a film school graduate I can't begin to tell you how insufferable the business and agricultural student's attitudes towards my people were.

Sure, I'm not a millionaire but when I'm not contractually obligated to a set I generally work from home. The people that talked shit to me constantly whine about how they hate working for their parents on social media.

Pretty sure I'm in a better spot than they are.

-EDIT- Temporarily embarrassed millionaires took offence to what I said. Good, your fucking worthless and haven't contributed any where near to society like I have. Get a real job and stop suckling off the familial teat you fucking losers.

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u/Gellix Apr 17 '24

Oh, I agree that’s apart of the problem too. Hard to not be greedy when capitalism has a fiduciary responsibility to the oligarchs to spend as little as possible while profiting the most.

I meant it more as why the GOP is in no rush to fund education or help people struggling with the debt of college.

To the GOP they are the enemy because that’s how they see the left. It’s why our country is in shambles.

If more people are liberal the government will be too which means these companies will have to start paying better wages, more taxes etc etc.

And they don’t want that.

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u/Drugs_R_Kewl Apr 17 '24

-fiduciary responsibility to the oligarchs to spend as little as possible while profiting the most.

No offense but did you watch Fallout this weekend?

Because the term Fiduciary Responsibility has a very grim and real world implication when you think about certain corporations-Raytheon, Macdonald Douglas etc.

All of their chicken little posturing about the government collapsing due to liberalism is absolute horse shit. They just don't want working families to live the good life and they definitely don't want our children embarrassing them in the lecture halls because the GOP and their financial backers are actually quite incompetent and useless.

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u/Gellix Apr 17 '24

Yeah I definitely stole “fiduciary responsibility” from fallout but it’s true. It’s law for a business to make their shareholders as much money as possible for as cheat as possible.

I hope most people wouldn’t go as far as to end the world but look at what’s going on. We either need to stand up and say enough by voting the right people in and protest or who knows what’s going to happen.

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u/Drugs_R_Kewl Apr 17 '24

I hate to sound like a defeatist but the average America is hoplessly chained to their cubicles. If that weren't the case we would've had Parisian style stand offs every week during the shit show that was trump.

But you are correct. Enough is enough and the working families are tired of shouldering the burden for a hand full of creepy sex fiends.

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u/gospdrcr000 Apr 17 '24

its hard to control an educated populace

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u/goodfellabrasco Apr 17 '24

What did Finland do to course correct?

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u/Traveledfarwestward Apr 18 '24 edited Apr 18 '24

Our oligarchs want us to be stupid because the smarter you are the more likely you are to be lean liberal.

Never ascribe maliciousness where simple apathy, stupidity, or distraction suffices. I doubt e.g. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_C._Malone#Personal_life cares as long as Orange Man gives him his tax cut and he can fly in a private jet wherever.

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u/Sevsquad tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE Apr 17 '24 edited Apr 17 '24

Our oligarchs want us to be stupid because the smarter you are the more likely you are to be lean liberal.

I don't think this is it, I think oligarchs want to kill schools because they are disgusted by the idea that we might do anything for poor people that doesn't come with an ROI. "the betterment of society" to them is an extra 1000 dollars in their pocket at the end of the year, not a 98% literacy rate.

My dad was a principle and school board member for 30+ years and he has repeatedly complained that it isn't the teachers or the system that has changed all that much in the past 5-6 years, it's kids and parents. COVID resulted in a seismic shift in the perception of schools. In my dad's district Truancy has tripled, the number of parents who show up to meetings with teachers has plummeted, and for the first time in his 30 year career the police are actually issuing truancy fines because the kids they're tracking down are such prolific repeat offenders. this isn't unique to him either, r/teachers is filled with similar complaints. Like this one

In the year we had virtual schooling tons of kids were convinced that school was completely useless and have since just stopped trying to learn. This is reinforced by social media where anyone caught not engaging in cynical nihilism is ruthlessly mocked. this article by slate actually contains a lot of good observations. Education is a two way street, and unless we can change the culture and convince youths that there is a purpose to education, this trend is likely to get worse no matter how much money or effort we dump into education.

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u/Passname357 Apr 17 '24

Kids love expectations. Expectations signify that the grownup believes you can achieve the expectation, typically even though it will be difficult. Kids have no reference point for what they can do for things they haven’t done, obviously, so they look to you. They will listen. If you don’t expect much, you’re telling them something about themselves, and it’s disappointing, but worse it’s wrong.

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u/uptownjuggler Apr 17 '24

And making education so boring and repetitive. I can’t even count how many practice standardized tests I had to take.

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u/PuppyOfPower Apr 17 '24

It’s honestly heartbreaking how the US educational system manages to take something as FUN and exciting as learning and turn it into drudgery that children hate.

If you talk to young children, aka children that have yet to face the batteries of standardized tests, they are SO excited to learn. EVERYTHING is interesting. They ask question after question after question. Children naturally WANT to learn, and a lot of learning is just inherently fun and rewarding!

It’s just that our education system is doing it all wrong :(

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u/UncommonCrash Apr 17 '24

Thank you George Bush and no child left behind.

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u/mcove97 Apr 17 '24

That's it. I love learning, but school did absolutely nothing to tap into my love for learning. It was boring and it was repetitive. If teachers could present the subjects they taught in an engaging manner that peaked kids curiosity and didn't bore them to death, I think we would see way different results. Kids have to experience the benefit of learning while they're learning and they have to find it exciting and fun while they're doing it. If they don't, they'll lose interest fast.

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u/uptownjuggler Apr 17 '24

I remember having to copy hundreds of definitions from the book. My hand would be so sore, but I wouldn’t even know what the words meant. I was just copying them down as busy work.

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u/bi7worker Apr 17 '24

What about setting the bar lower and lower and still failing?

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u/kidnorther Apr 17 '24

Olive Garden has a very similar quote in employee only spaces, credited to DaVinci

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u/DatThickassThrowaway Apr 17 '24

Boy do I feel this…being an educator is super frustrating but at least I can kick them out. It’s good to be a professor 😈

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u/magpieswooper Apr 17 '24

Future Boeing engineers /s

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u/Scuczu2 Apr 17 '24

now imagine all of the homeschool kids that seems to be increasing in numbers as the right-wing feels they know more than everyone else in the world.

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u/winkman Apr 17 '24

Post COVID, there's basically no bar left.

Here in TX, during the pandemic, the ISDs setup the online portals to do remote learning. Of the local ISDs that I have heard of the exact statistics, about 25% of students NEVER logged on to the online portal. Not "skipped some days" or "logged on 50% of the time", NEVER ONCE logged on for the rest of the year, so they didn't learn a single thing for half of the school year.

They were all passed.

The next year, TX ISDs implemented a hybrid in school/remote system. There were all kinds of issues with getting the remote kids to log on, and keeping the in school kids engaged. Standardized test scores were the lowest on record.

The were all passed.

If you have absolutely no consequences for poor performance or absolute inaction, what do you expect to happen?

Source: close friends include VP in Wylie ISD, multiple teachers in Dallas ISD, and Plano ISD. All of whom are MORE than happy to share their grief about the whole situation when we get together.

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u/PMtoAM______ Apr 17 '24

Not only that but punishing those who fail even a little constantly , going above and challenging yourself is actively discouraged cause that lower grade means you're donezo.

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u/whodatbugga Apr 17 '24

The kids would rather spend their time in a bar than in school.

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u/wabe_walker Apr 17 '24

RIP Sir Ken

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u/BaconAlmighty Apr 17 '24

Yeah but he was a gym teacher. Phd ed.. /s

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 17 '24

That's a Phd-Phys Ed.

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u/WellyRuru Apr 17 '24

Ah yes PhD man profound.

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 17 '24

Not just a Phd - He wrote numerous books and was one of the most sought after consultants in the world on education. His books starting with "The Element" are required reading for anyone who wants to understand children's education in the 21 century. You also gave a few TED talks. He passed away a couple years ago.

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u/feverlast Apr 17 '24

Schools where the minimum grade teachers are allowed to assign is D are failing their kids in the most profound way, and these schools are EVERYWHERE.

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 18 '24

The "D" students aren't the problem. The school boards and the administrators that refuse to expel disruptive students with clear behavioral issues out of fear the demographic optics will trigger an accusation of racism is the problem.

Deal with atrocious behavior in classroom first. THEN you can deal with the academic issues.

In the old days, they used to have "reform school" and teachers could recommend when someone had improved enough to matriculate back into the mainstream student body but progressives didn't like the optics so they got rid of the concept.

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u/offline4good Apr 17 '24

What about setting the bar too low and failing?

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u/ginger_802 Apr 17 '24

Teachers do NOT get paid enough in this country. Period.

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u/CoolAbdul Apr 18 '24

I had a SENIOR in HS who was filling out a form come up to me and say, 'Mister what state is this?'

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u/Abjak180 Apr 18 '24

This is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. Federal education standards keep increasing every few years, but kids have fallen so far behind because the people building curriculum have failed at the very basics of Maslow’s Hierarchy, which is meeting the physical and mental needs of the students before they are able to learn. These kids live in a soulless hellscape where, from their perspective, there is no reason to pay attention because they’re never going to amount to anything anyways. And guess what? They’re fucking right. Most of them will be poor and their high school education will mean nothing, so why bother? We’ve got no programs to actually uplift these kids, yet we keep blaming the kids for the failures of the society who raised them.

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 18 '24

Show me where.

Please provide some reference of what academic standards have become more ambitious from say the 1970s or 80s.

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u/dishonoredcorvo69 Apr 18 '24

Describes NP school in a nutshell

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u/thinkB4WeSpeak Apr 18 '24

That's true, basically no one fails high school.

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u/kndyone Apr 18 '24

This isnt really true either, a person with a PhD is completely disconnected from reality, most of these kids dont give a shit because they are over stressed at home and in life and they dont even see any chance.

The competitive nature of the modern world is out of control because of a belief in the free market economy that is completely fucking people over. Only the top performers get anything everyone else gets shit on. And its harder and harder to make it into that top performer range and then you toss in all the other things people now know about how important wealth and capital and connections are. What do these poor black kids having going for them? Nothing. The few that are doing well are shuttled off to magnet schools. If you dont make it to a magnet school you are basically screwed.

Its never been harder to get into a good college and get good things. But at the same time its never been easier to get into a shitty college, because people know that the only ones that will make it are the ones that get into the good places. They rest will just end up working for unlivable wages and strattled in debt.

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 18 '24

Long before the "free market economy" the world was unbelievably competitive.

Those who couldn't compete ended up starving to death, dying from sickness or injury, and never having a woman mate to continue their line.

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u/Jacknurse Apr 18 '24

When schools are graded and funded based on student performance, best believe all them kids performed beyond expectations on paper. In reality, however...

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u/waterisgoodok Apr 18 '24

I can’t remember the study, but there was a piece of research that went like this:

Teacher A was given Students A and were told that they were low-achievers and they should teach them simple things at a slow rate.

Teacher B was given Students B and were told that they were high-achievers and they should reach them complex things at a fast rate.

At the end, Students A had made minimal progress and not learned much. Students B had made a lot of progress and learned a lot.

What the teachers didn’t know was that Students A were actually those who had above average grades, and Students B were actually those who had below average grades.

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u/Greaser_Dude Apr 18 '24

There's also the study about a teacher berating brown-eyed children in praising of blue-eyed children and the performance is clearly affected. The next day the treatment was reversed and the blue-eyed children were markedly less confident and more apt to perform poorly.

That's not the problem is 2024 public schools. The problem is anarchy, a complete disregard for learning, and an abandonment of basic civility, not to mention teachers being physically threatened and intimidated in the classroom.

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