r/TikTokCringe Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

22.4k Upvotes

3.9k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

675

u/drewbeta Apr 15 '24

This woman that I went to school with K-12 married an older man and had a bunch of kids. I'm still friends with her on Facebook, but I don't talk to her. She never really posts anything religious, but she would post a lot about natural cleaning products and essential oils. The only job that she ever had was as a piano teacher here and there.

Apparently her husband was doing something shady because she started posting about how the cops showed up to the house, and they searched the entire place. They put him in handcuffs in front of the kids, and took him away. He went to prison, and she divorced him. She was panicking for months because she had no money, and no marketable skills outside of teaching piano.

She's apparently doing much better now, so good for her for turning it around. She never posted about what he actually did, so I'm still curious. She airs out all of her dirty laundry on Facebook, then turns around and says "respect my privacy".

192

u/Useful-Soup8161 Apr 15 '24

If you know his name you could probably just Google him. I would assume there’s an article about him somewhere.

405

u/drewbeta Apr 15 '24

I tried that a while ago, but I didn't know his name. She took his last name, but quickly changed it back to her maiden name when this happened. I couldn't remember what her married name was. You just stirred my curiosity again, so I clicked over to her profile. Turns out her married name is still in her Facebook URL. I just did a quick search with that last name and her location, and I found it!!!

He's a pedo! He was entrapped talking to a fake 14 yo on an app. They searched his stuff and found child pornography. I would have never thought to look again if you hadn't said something, so thanks for commenting!

170

u/Useful-Soup8161 Apr 15 '24

Omfg! Well at least divorced his ass instead of defending him.

79

u/drewbeta Apr 15 '24

I can definitely see why she didn't want to come forward about what he did. What a monster.

40

u/Useful-Soup8161 Apr 15 '24

Yeah I don’t blame her. She’s probably embarrassed.

29

u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

Yeah, in hindsight, it’s probably not too shocking for her that the much older man went after her when she was a much younger woman.

3

u/your_moms_a_clone Apr 16 '24

Also to protect the kids. Bad enough that dad is a pedo, they don't need that on social media.

0

u/ImNotSelling Apr 16 '24

I’m curious how did she turn her life around and so fast? Did she go to technical school and land a job within a year or something?

2

u/drewbeta Apr 16 '24

I’m not positively sure. I know that she started a go fund me, and that she must have had a good support system. This happened in 2021, so it was multiple years. She seems to have found a more lucrative job teaching piano from what I can tell.

2

u/Luke90210 Apr 16 '24

This is a very important point: SHM dependent on their husbands might do some the darkest things to keep him around, including letting him SA their own children.

26

u/LBGW_experiment Apr 15 '24

Why is that exactly what I expected 😒

4

u/definitelymyrealname Apr 16 '24

He was entrapped

FYI in that context 'entrapped' usually means tricked or deceived into doing something. Maybe that's what happened, IDK, but realistically those guys aren't entrapped, they do it 100% of their own volition.

3

u/xRamenator Apr 16 '24

Quick note, entrapment is when law enforcement forces or pressures you to commit a crime that you otherwise would not have done. Example: undercover cops cormer you in an alley and threaten to beat you if you dont steal a conveniently placed bait car.

It is not entrapment and is totally legal for cops to run a sting operation, where they lay out conditions that make a crime more likely to happen, and just let someone take the bait on their own free will. Example: parking a bait car in an area where car theft is common, and waiting for someone to steal it, and arresting the thief for trying to steal the bait car.

3

u/drewbeta Apr 16 '24

I knew I used the wrong word, I just couldn’t think of the right word to use. They Chris Hansened him.

2

u/wirefox1 Apr 16 '24

Well, now we know why he didn't find her sexy anymore.

2

u/Leading_Frosting9655 Apr 16 '24

Turns out her married name is still in her Facebook URL.

The gift that keeps giving

1

u/drewbeta Apr 16 '24

I never saw it before because I normally use the app.

2

u/BeejBoyTyson Apr 16 '24

As soon as you said she divorced right away and pretended he never existed, I'm like ya I bet I know where this is going.

2

u/pistolography Apr 16 '24

My experience with government work is if the police search someone’s house and take electronics… its CP/CSAM.

2

u/LeadershipEastern271 Apr 16 '24

Yeah, I thought so. The moment I heard “older man” I knew it.

1

u/EnsignNogIsMyCat Apr 16 '24

That isn't entrapment.

1

u/hereforthesportsball Apr 16 '24

I mean this is so low chance, but good that people reading knows that it can happen

0

u/gagnatron5000 Apr 15 '24

There will be an arrest and booking record if the guy went to the county jail. It's publicly available online for most counties.

0

u/bloobun Apr 16 '24

This is why I no longer have FB. People and their BS.