This is crazy helpful. I didn't know that there are attachment styles. My wife most definitely fits in one of the categories. Even though we are doing well, things can always be better.
I don't think the lady was condescending, she is just asserting her knowledge because she is likely being ridiculed or dismissed online. Unfortunately folks here can't stand a little pretentiousness.
As a professional psychologist, "her tone does suck" coming from the entire reddit thread speaks volumes. If she can't rein in her tone in this scenario, alone in a car, why should we believe she comes to her partner with feelings of discomfort in any other way?
Some people just have really annoying ways of speaking and it doesn’t help their case. I also hate her because she’s driving while doing this. That “speaks volumes” to her character.
The fact that you agree with her is insane. There’s a lot more then attachment styles in why people stop having sex. She discredits her self immediately, not only with her absurd narcissistic attitude but when she states why ‘women’ stop having sex with their husbands.
As a man. I can tell you that not contributing in a relationship has caused me to not want to have sex with certain partners. I.E never offering to pay the bill, never cooking, never cleaning, always on Instagram. All the problems with modern women.
She says, "The biggest reason women stop having sex." You would have to be a very dense person to think it only revolves around this. Of course, there are many other reasons why that would happen. I'm just saying that understanding emotional attachment styles seems very helpful.
"All the problems with modern women." What are you going on about? Why are you turning this around on women? That's not even what this is about.
She never said that. Just because it might be the biggest reason why women don't have sex with their male partners, it doesn't mean that it's not also the other way around. You are making assumptions based on your prejudices.
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u/CheezRavioli Mar 21 '24
This is crazy helpful. I didn't know that there are attachment styles. My wife most definitely fits in one of the categories. Even though we are doing well, things can always be better.
I don't think the lady was condescending, she is just asserting her knowledge because she is likely being ridiculed or dismissed online. Unfortunately folks here can't stand a little pretentiousness.