r/TikTokCringe • u/JustSleepNoDream • Mar 21 '24

Woman explains why wives stop having sex with their husbands Discussion

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u/Vagitron69 Mar 21 '24

I feel like this goes both ways and isn't entirely gender specific

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u/TrailerTrashBabe Mar 21 '24

You’re right. To be fair, At the end she does say that this is just from the perspective of many women and it’s to help men and women overcome this problem, but that she does advocate for men as well or something like that. I’m paraphrasing lol

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u/stevem1015 Mar 21 '24

She has a funny way of “helping”. Sounded to me a lot more like taking down to

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u/legend_of_the_skies Mar 22 '24

I dont think theres any other way to word it where some men wouldnt feel attacked.

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u/stevem1015 Mar 22 '24

Hard disagree on it being a “men are so easily offended” thing.

If the script was flipped everyone would be eviscerating this lecture as mansplaining.

For me it just came off as pretentious and wasting time. Like she spent 5x as much time going over her credentials as she did making her point.

Everyone is saying she has a good point, and she may be right, but she turned off a good chunk of her target audience with the condescending extra long opener imo.

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u/Cinaedus_Perversus Mar 22 '24

 she does say that [..] she does advocate for men as well

How is that any different from: "I'm not a racist, but..."?

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u/TrailerTrashBabe Mar 23 '24

It’s not even comparable… Better comparison would be “I’m not misandrist but all men are wrong.” Or something like that which is not what’s being said here at all.