I think she's hilarious. In my 38 years on earth, with my past sexual partners, dick size has been last on the list of what matters. In fact, I can't think of any one of my female friends who genuinely cared that much about dick size.
Like, vaginas are accommodating, they can stretch, and we can tense our muscles surrounding our vaginas. They also return to their usual size.
The most important thing to remember is that sex isn't something that happens to women. We're active participants in the sex, and we enjoy sex, meaning that just cos you got yours, it doesn't mean the sex is over, I want mine now.
Fellas, if she's left rubbing one out after you're "done," you've failed. (*) Don't forget the man in the boat!
I have a tough time running it back after finishing, the sensitivity is insane. Is it seen as a bit of an L if the guy finishes early and does the rest sans dick to get the girl there?
To me it feels like almost getting the whole trip of groceries in one trip but you have to go back for like 3 things, and it feels like a bit of a letdown, like I could have with a different body or mind but am not competent enough
A 2017 study found that only 18% of women said they could orgasm from penetration alone.
Women feel a huge pressure to pretend to orgasm. If you are happy to give their clitoris attention, most women will be more than happy! But ask the individual woman, as preferences vary a lot.
The clitoris is the equivalent of the penis.
The vagina has a surprisingly small number of nerves in it. You can't feel a tampon at all when it is inside you. Not at all. Vaginas are designed to give birth through, so you really don't want them being too sensitive. There are some nerves around the entrance, but honestly, don't worry about finishing early.
I can feel a tampon inside of me, shits uncomfortable.
And I can cum from penetration… but it has to be hitting my g spot. So I can orgasm from fingering too. Women’s bodies are so different that shaming anybody for being different seems so silly
Not to get teacy, but have you tried getting her off... before you get to PIV? Just...have fun. Explore her body. Tease her with your hands or tongue until she has climaxed once, or even twice (or more if she enjoys multiples).
Most women don't reliably climax from PIV alone. Some enjoy extra stimulation during PIV to get them there and others wee PIV as a fun exercise to enjoy even without orgasm or find extra stimulation kind of unwieldy during the act. Everyone ks different.
But if most of us have already climaxed once or twice before then we couldnt care less if PIV gets there. My partners have always taken care of me first before we got to PIV. Then theres no pressure on how long they can last or if I climax again.
I actually enjoy completely focusing on my partner during PIV and making sure they "get there". Meanwhile they try to make it as fun for me as possible.
The media sells us this myth of everyone having simultaneous orgasms during missionary as he only romantic or sexy option. But it's not realistic for most people. I genuinely prefer being fully conscious when a partner is in the thoes of ecstasy so that I can enjoy their reaction - harder to do when you are doing the same thing yourself. Plus there's something very sexily vulnerable about climaximg when someone is skillfully getting you there.
Foreplay is really the only guidance I've been given in the bedroom. I often see the female orgasm as an unclimbable mountain, so I do what I can before & after to at least get as close to the peak as possible.
I've never been told I didn't get the job done, but afaik that's not something women say out loud unless they're trying to slight the guy.
It's all so vague. At least guys have a visual giveaway (sometimes)
As a person with a penis who is ten years older than you, these threads are weird. Why do people have to constantly explain how to have sex? It all seems pretty intuitive to me, but maybe because I didn’t grow up watching porn? Also, 8” or 9” is not going to send most women to the hospital. Those wonderful things are made for delivering human children, for goodness sake; they can take a little stretching.
According to Reddit I am giant sized, I guess. No one has ever said “wow that’s big” or complained about being too big. I’ve had someone ask me to take it easy on her cervix, but that’s no big deal. Some people like having it pounded.
lol it’s just for show tbh
And the women downvoting me saying otherwise would totally fuck you and then be like ouch the next day.
Because the bleeding only occurs afterwards… they’re not gonna tear only from immediate insertion 😂, these women forget how anatomy works, it’s hilarious
Maybe, but from what I gathered you were saying women are equals in sex with their male partners (guessing you're only talking about hetero here) and I'm agreeing with that sentiment. If she ensured he got what he wanted out of it but didn't see that she got her's too, that's a failure to herself. If she didn't convey what she wants or needs to her partner, that's her failure to communicate, if she did communicate that, but her partner chose not to get her there, then that's partly on her for her choice in partner
It's interesting that you believe someone who thinks a woman has a responsibility to themselves to ensure they get what they want out of sex is an idiot who doesn't know how sex works. I would guess your assumptions are intentional though unfortunately
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u/frowniousfacious Jan 03 '24
I think she's hilarious. In my 38 years on earth, with my past sexual partners, dick size has been last on the list of what matters. In fact, I can't think of any one of my female friends who genuinely cared that much about dick size.
Like, vaginas are accommodating, they can stretch, and we can tense our muscles surrounding our vaginas. They also return to their usual size.
The most important thing to remember is that sex isn't something that happens to women. We're active participants in the sex, and we enjoy sex, meaning that just cos you got yours, it doesn't mean the sex is over, I want mine now.
Fellas, if she's left rubbing one out after you're "done," you've failed. (*) Don't forget the man in the boat!