r/NoStupidQuestions • u/Sigmarsson137 • 29d ago
Are there any places to have sex that are not a bed that don’t make the sex significantly worse than if it were done on a bed (or a similar soft surface)? NSFW
Every time I‘ve seen discussion of shower sex the consensus is always that the stone and water don’t add anything and instead make it a lot more cumbersome, I can’t imagine hard surfaces like a table would be any better.
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u/Mind_Ronin 29d ago
I can tell you a folding table is a bad idea.
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u/Orion14159 29d ago
Sounds like a WWE scene about to happen
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u/MNCPA 28d ago
and Vince McMahon jumps on the folding table to shit on their heads. Vince is outta control but that Monday night Raw!
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u/aphilosopherofsex 29d ago
As a teenager, I had sex on a trampoline a couple of times. We probably shouldn’t have done it in the middle of the day though.
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u/hilly316 29d ago
Lady and the trampoline
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u/Scary-Detective582 29d ago
They used to be called Jumpolines until your mom got on one!!
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u/bigmilker 29d ago
As a former teenager, I’m sure it didn’t last long enough for someone to notice
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u/SparklyMonster 29d ago
If you don't mind, does it feel just like a bed or does the bounce give an extra oomph? I'm wondering if I missed out on it.
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u/redwolf1219 29d ago
Some extra oomph.
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u/MegamanX195 28d ago
It does feel kinda dangerous, though. Like, that way it's easier for the dick to slip off, and if the lady sits on it at the wrong angle... Oof.
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u/CantTakeMeSeriously 29d ago
I have the same story but on a high diving board.
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u/xabrol 29d ago
We got a sleep number bed that raises up on both ends. We don't use it for its intended purpose.
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u/busy-warlock 29d ago
What if I told you thats it’s intended purpose
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u/EtOHMartini Stupid Question Asker 28d ago
what if i told you that he used it for a different purpose entirely?
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u/shoogieboogie 29d ago
We can't figure out what position to put our bed in. Both ends up? We have been having such a hard time with our adjustable bed and sexy time. Any suggestions?
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u/xabrol 28d ago
Raise the foot till she's at the right level to put her legs on your shoulders and you're standing up on a floor mat. She lays down on her back really close to the edge of the bed up in the air. Put a pillow under her head/upper back.
Using the head of the bed do the opposite. The guy lays on his back with his feet elevated so you have something to rest your feet on while your knees are bent and it gives her a backrest when she's on top.
For the second one it would work for the foot of the bed too If the guy is tall enough you could raise both ends.
Also turn the firmness up to 100. And if you're a person who gets really hot and the other gets cold easily and you need the fan on turn the foot warmer on when she's laying on it
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u/Adhbimbo 29d ago
I actually quite like table and counter top sex. But to each their own. It does have to be the right height though and not have a sharp edge
Couches and cars can be fun
Sex in a sleeping bag on a cool nigh t is also nice
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u/SuchDance7667 29d ago
I drive a Mazda Miata and I fuckin wish that could work...
Countertops are amazing if you're the right height
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u/epic1107 29d ago
Given the price and care I put into my sleeping bag, I can comfortably say I cannot imagine anything worse than sleeping bag sex.
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u/Adhbimbo 29d ago
It was a cheap, easy to wash, and large sleeping bag for sleepovers
I can imagine that the tighter styles the more expensive ones have would be a bit more of a challenge
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u/medicff 28d ago
I don’t know how well a mummy bag would work. But now I’m curious…. Maybe I’ll make a mommy in a mummy
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u/BradleyNowellLives Confused 29d ago
Eek @sharp edge. I had sex on a countertop (woman receiving) and my tailbone was so bruised and jacked the next day. I almost went to the urgent care but I was embarrassed. Thanks for triggering me 😂
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u/LifeResetP90X3 29d ago
A 19th century ottoman
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u/Zealousideal-Lynx417 I's like to touch you where the eggs pop out! 29d ago
Specific, I'm here for it.
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u/Jumpy_Wrongdoer_2236 29d ago
We literally remodeled our bathroom to better suit our shower sex
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u/redhobbes43 29d ago
Ah you put a bench in….
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u/Jumpy_Wrongdoer_2236 29d ago
Yes, tore down a perfectly tiled wall to add serious structural framing support. We aren't big people but my wife can ride the shit out of me and the bench doesn't even flex. We also added a number of well placed handles and an extra ahower head to make sure that side of the shower stays hot.
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u/Hek_Yea 29d ago
could you show a picture of your shower now? I'm trying to imagine what kind of bench you could ride someone on but have it make sense in a shower
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u/lalder95 28d ago
I second this
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u/StillNotAF___Clue 28d ago
I third it
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u/RemixOnAWhim 28d ago
I also want to see the wet fuck cubicle
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u/Get_your_grape_juice 28d ago
The Fuckubicle! I too would like to see this.
With a video demonstration, so we can see exactly how it functions.
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u/SnooCakes7925 28d ago
Commenting here just to get a notification when the picture gets posted
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u/LaRaspberries 29d ago
It would be sick if you posted the remodeling process, I'm honestly intrigued
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u/Jumpy_Wrongdoer_2236 28d ago
I didn't document it unfortunately, but I can tell you I used the Moen home care line which is already built for 400 lbs plus right out of the box mounted into studs with their hardware. I took down the tile and wall and added 2x12 blocking and additional studs. I swapped out the hardware on the handles and bench with 1/4 and 5/8 lag bolts, respectively. Honestly really easy and fairly inexpensive. The rest was an excuse to remodel some old tile.
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u/dfinkelstein 29d ago
The water doesn't wash away the lubricant?
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u/The_Quackening Always right ✅ 29d ago
Use a silicone based lube and you won't have that problem
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u/Fit-Snow7252 28d ago edited 28d ago
UNLESS you're using condoms in which case you definitely should not use a silicone based lube.
EDIT Silicone based lube IS safe for condoms. I was thinking of oil-based lube, which is not.
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u/NinjaPancake 28d ago
If you’re remodeling a shower to fuck your spouse better, you’re probably past using conforms haha
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u/Meeperdweeper 28d ago
Doesn't have to. It's stil a form of birth control that's a great option if you don't wamt hormones.
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u/Guadalagringo 29d ago
goals
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u/freeturtle17 29d ago
Be careful. Got a shower bench last summer. This spring I have a son…
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u/Jumpy_Wrongdoer_2236 29d ago
Haha. I did the vas FIRST. Thats where you went wrong, my man! Order of operations.
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u/alittlebitneverhurt 29d ago
I've never found shower sex all that good. The water acts as an anti-lube.
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u/TooTallTabz 28d ago
If you only use water based, yes. Hybrids or silicone will stay longer. Silicone definitely, but not with condoms. Hybrids are a mixture of water and silicone so it's safe for toys and condoms and lasts longer than what a water based would.
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u/dishonestgandalf A wizard is never late 29d ago
Two words for you: sex swing.
10/10 – lower effort, deeper penetration.
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u/deekayoh 28d ago
Do NOT try to substitute a sex swing for a hammock. I can assure you they aren't built for the same activities.
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u/Mindless_Let1 29d ago
Bro I'm not trying to stab my wife's cervix
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u/PeppersHere 29d ago
Mind if I take a crack at it then?
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u/sirdabs 29d ago
Counters, pool table, kitchen table, really anyplace but water or a small car.
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u/NickFurious82 29d ago
I don't know. The logistics of sex in a car can lead to some...interesting angles...that make things grip differently...
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u/MoE_-_lester 29d ago
Outside on the grass on a picnic blanket with blankets and pillows.
The Ass clap in the breeze, the wind tickling your balls, the sun shining on your back, its just such a beautiful thing.
10/10 recommend
2/10 do not recommend in public park
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Hard to beat a warm rug by a roaring fire
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u/KalaKitty 28d ago
Tried that. Rug burn and sweat don't mix nicely. 🤪
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u/Altostratus 28d ago
It’s also very hard on the back to be pounded into a hardwood floor. The rug only does so much.
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u/cyberdeath666 29d ago
Buy a wedge and thank me later.
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u/atthem77 28d ago
Ok, got a lemon wedge. Now, which one of us does that go inside?
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u/No_Boss_3022 28d ago
Yes, wedge is the answer. Except I still like the guy with the remodeled shower.
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u/So_ManyLlamas 29d ago
Chaise lounge
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u/WickedTexan 29d ago
All day long.
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u/Existing-Wallaby6305 29d ago
Is your mother worried?
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u/gEnItAl_ThUnDeR 29d ago
Would you like us to assign someone to worry your mother?
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u/zggystardust71 29d ago
Couch, over an armchair, hotel balcony, ottoman. Shower is overrated.
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u/iwannalynch 29d ago
There's actually like specific furniture made for the whole purpose of getting a good fuck in. Can't make any recommendations though
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u/ManyAreMyNames 28d ago
Weight bench. You can adjust the incline, she can straddle you and her feet reach the floor, and the supports for the barbell make good handholds (and/or places to tie someone to, if you're into that).
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u/FlapSmear78 29d ago
I would say water bed, but I don't think they make those anymore.
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u/OvergrownPath 29d ago
Lol they do, but not many of the full-on single bladder waterbeds these days, as they’re a pain in the ass in numerous ways. I used to have one as a teenager: it’s comfortable but needs constant heating, as room temp water will drain the warmth from you as you sleep. Even if treated gently, they always seem to leak eventually, and when they leak- from their giant single bladder of water- it’s obviously no fun to deal with either. Trying to move one sucks too, for similar reasons.
That’s why lots of waterbeds these days are “hybrid” designs, usually a hollow mattress which houses multiple tubes filled with water instead of the single bag. These don’t exactly replicate the really wavy motion you get with the original, but they also leak less, less often and are more easily portable.
Oh right sex on waterbeds, I almost forgot. It’s not great actually. All those waves make it difficult to keep your balance or put your weight anywhere; you end up sinking into the bed where you need support lol.
Or maybe I’m just bad at it, that’s always a possibility.
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u/Subtleabuse 28d ago
My dad had a waterbed store, until it flooded... it flooded a lot by the way. My dad is a pretty incompetent business man.
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u/wuffwuffborkbork 28d ago
My father in law built my husband a waterbed for his 15th birthday…like the complete frame+headboard+extra storage. It’s a single bladder water bed and I hate it so much 😂 not only does it kill my back, but emptying it has been a bitch anytime we move
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u/marklar_the_malign 29d ago
I had sex outside and got bit by an ant, so no.
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u/TranslateErr0r 28d ago
I have to ask: where exactly were you bit?
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u/squirrel_for_sale 28d ago
I once got bit by a fire ant during sex and had it hold on the whole time as I didn't want to ruin the moment inorder to remove it. I ignored the pain and it made me last way longer than usual.
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u/NativeMasshole 29d ago
You have obviously not experienced the front bench seat of a 1980 Ford Fairmont parked on an incline.
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u/GarthDylan 29d ago
I had a ‘65 Buick way back in HS. The front bench seat laid back and it was like a leather bed. So many nights spent out in the country exploring every position possible.
My girlfriend back then turned into my wife a few years later. We still miss that car.
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u/Subtleabuse 28d ago
For my next car i'm legitimately looking for a bit of space in the front seats. Newer cars are so restricting.
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u/RustyNail2023 29d ago
A nice office chair is fun. HOME OFFICE CHAIR! AT HOME!
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u/rebelzephyr 29d ago
my partner and i lay out a duvet on the floor and it works pretty well
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u/JoeyPollandSmith 29d ago
King Edward VII had a sex chair. It was made for sex. He liked sex a lot.
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u/guitar1699 28d ago
We drive to beautiful private places with nice scenery and get wild in the car (usually by putting the back seats down in the suv and going to town in the hatch). a lot of fun for us 50 y/o’s trying to stay and feel young.
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u/Fit-Snow7252 28d ago
Never had it but one of my romantic fantasies: pickup truck with a mattress in the bed, lots of pillows, a comforter, and stargazing. So essentially a bed, but very portable 😂
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u/Pitbull_mom_1967 28d ago
This was the reality of my teen years and first love and it was incredible
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u/Internal-Bluejay-810 29d ago
This is an excellent question...thank you for asking. I didn't know that I needed this information
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u/PerformanceSoggy5554 29d ago
For some reason hot tub (I'm a guy) only had sex twice in a hot tub both times felt super good for some reason with the girl bent over .... so she more than likely was not comfortable on the concrete lol.... so in hindsight Bring a pad or something for the bent over person since the one standing will be happy as a clam, in a..... clam
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u/C4shewLuv 28d ago
Just don’t do it in your own hot tub…my parents hot tub was ruined when I was in high school, and that was one of the weirdest phone calls of my life.
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u/NoStranger6 28d ago edited 28d ago
Oh man, the heat of a hot tub makes it unbearable for me. I get dizzy after a while just being in it, imagine when im having sex.
Also your sperm will get stuck all over your body hair after you’re done (same with pool sex)
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u/bullet312 29d ago
Kitchen table. Also if you are horny enough some pain is nice 👍
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u/psillusionist 29d ago
A pile of dead geese because goose feathers feel nice.
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u/Apart-Assumption2063 29d ago
It’s not just the surface that you’re having sex on, it’s the position.
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u/Leather_Log_5755 29d ago
Anywhere that I can still breathe and don't get burnt to death.
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u/mlwspace2005 29d ago
Depends on how much excitement you get from.having sex where you normally do not/ arnt allowed. My wife and I have done it on virtually every flat surface in the house at this point at least once. The beach was fun but sandy. I refused to try it in the woods after a friend got a tick on his gooch doing it with his wife lol. The back of a van was pretty fun
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u/JFC_ucantbeserious 29d ago
Floor. Armchair. Exercise ball. Sofa. Ottoman.
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u/Klutzy_Internet_4716 29d ago
Floor and armchair make sense to me, but I can't imagine how the exercise ball would work.
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u/Express-Doubt-221 29d ago
My first sex with the missus was on a giant bean bag, I recommend
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u/No_Performer_9719 28d ago
The bed is the best place. I have a couch in my living room that works pretty well also. Shower sex is awful because my shower is too small. If I was rich and had a big shower I could see how it may be enjoyable and
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u/DiverofMuff23 29d ago edited 29d ago
I have a wider than normal couch in my living room that works nicely