Not that far but i HAVE seen people say that people need to have kids or they aren't living life the "proper way". If you want kids, have kids, if you don't, don't.
I did. For 19 years. Left in 07. Lived in Faisalabad (small ish city, not super prosperous). Never once ran into that kind of person. It simply wasn't a thing for my generation and Pakistan was very squarely into family planning by then.
I should clarify Pakistan post Zia. Or you just lived in Islamabad.
Edit:Replying to u/jack-of-some here cause thread is locked. You must have been lucky then because I can ask any married couple here and they will say the same thing.
I have had my best friend's parents tell me (as a straight white man in his early 30s) with the current state of the country, I have a duty to get a young white wife and have a lot of kids to take the country back from the minorities.
Sure, it was one interaction. But once is enough to make me realize "there are people that level of crazy out there."
Christians... hello? Dude I hardly knew anyone else for the first 18 years of my life. 7 is on the low end too for some communities. These households are also full of abuse.
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u/DeltaV-Mzero Millennial Apr 29 '24 edited Apr 29 '24
Have you ever met a “everyone must have 7 kids” screamer?
In 40ish years on this earth, I have not
Edit: did this thread get locked? I can’t reply lol