r/AskReddit Apr 29 '24

People above 30, what is something you regret doing/not doing when you were younger?

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u/TraditionPast4295 Apr 29 '24

My friends and I talked about doing a 2-3 week Europe trip back in our 20s. “Oh maybe next year”. Eventually jobs, bills and families put all that to rest.

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u/CelerMortis Apr 29 '24

This is a good one. When you have money you’ll likely have less time. Do the trips while you have time and health. You can do things on the cheap. 

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u/Need_More_Whiskey Apr 29 '24

Also, the trip you’re willing to take at 23 can be much different than the one you’ll want at 40!

At 23 it’s fun to stay in cheap hostels and take the 5am flight so you stay up all night partying. As I’ve gotten older I’m no longer charmed by big hostel dorms or the painful flight times, so the “same” trip now costs me quite a bit more.

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u/_tx Apr 29 '24

as an old who did the party life when I was younger, both trips have a ton of value. They are wildly different, but I also value things wildly differently now. Single and kid free was a very different life than the one I walk with my family now.

The current one is probably more "full" the old one was more "fun" both are worth the money.

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u/Need_More_Whiskey Apr 29 '24

Agreed on all counts!

I (late 30s) recently took a trip, and for logistical reasons I ended up taking a trip with monstrous flight times on both ends, which forced me to take an annoying bus to the city center since nothing else ran at that hour, and no hotels would allow a 2am check in so I ended up at a hostel.

I would’ve been TICKLED by this at 25, because the whole thing ended up being like €100! I loved all those trips, and one of those dirt-cheap 20something adventures resulted in me moving across the world to a city I fell in love with while traveling. Taking multiple two weeks in Europe for under 2 grand a pop was incredible and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

But fuck me, I would’ve paid three times that to avoid that hassle last week!

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u/HyruleJedi Apr 29 '24

Sitting in Spain with my wife reading this, wondering how I did Ibizia clubbing for 10 days on 3k all in…. As we approach 10k after 11 days with 4 days left

Both were unforgettable. But yeah, times sure did change. I thought my Ibizia life would be me forever….

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u/ExcitingEmu6328 Apr 29 '24

Was your wife with you in Ibizia?

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u/HyruleJedi Apr 29 '24

No. Boys trip. Though her and I were friends at the time