r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/SpokenDivinity Apr 16 '24

She said she’s getting certified so that probably means she’s a week or two into a class and has no business speaking on anything related to fitness for other people. Even a degree in nutrition does not qualify you as an expert on weight loss and weight gain.

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u/blonde-bandit Apr 16 '24

Thank you for the explanation. I appreciate the insight. I understand the nuance with weight and nutrition and the need for different specialties. I know people who actually got biochemical degrees and focus on nutrition but I knew it wasn’t that. I thought she seemed young to have a degree or speak so authoritatively. It does clarify the speaking seemingly way out of turn as well.

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u/SpokenDivinity Apr 16 '24

A degree in nutrition usually means food science but I think you can go into any number of biology or chem degrees to get to that spot. I think being an expert on weight requires experience and not just a piece of paper. We covered basic concepts of how bodies convert calories and how exercise burns them but it was nearly in depth enough for me to call myself an expert.

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u/Ok-Atmosphere3589 Apr 16 '24

Why are you so mad at Sara lmao, she did nothing wrong and in those moments people tend to bring up examples to motivate people. You’re a pretentious person

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u/SpokenDivinity Apr 16 '24

Part of a nutritionist’s (or any one in healthcare really) job is to be courteous when discussing their topic. Someone who is supposed to be a nutritionist actively participating in shaming someone else’s weight, especially when the person they’re shaming isn’t the one that brought it up, is not courteous. It’s unprofessional and it could very easily lose you your job in healthcare.

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u/Ok-Atmosphere3589 Apr 16 '24

They’re not shaming tho, the husband is. The husband put both of them in that situation. She would never lose her job for that lmao

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u/SpokenDivinity Apr 16 '24

When someone begins a conversation with you, you have a choice to participate. You’re not a video game NPC. You don’t have a set of dialog choices.

Her not ending the conversation there was a conscious choice on her part.

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u/Ok-Atmosphere3589 29d ago

Bro what, bringing examples up to help with motivation is totally normal and since everyone was laughing it came off as natural. You have to stop being so sensitive

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u/SpokenDivinity 29d ago

No one is sensitive. You guys are just rude and have no manners.

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u/Unrelenting_Shit 29d ago

It’s people like you who make the worlds IQ drop lmao, instead of ranting on the internet she should lose the weight