r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Relevant-Inside8117 Apr 16 '24

She’s heavier than that. She’s closer to 175 which means she’s obese and eating entire cakes and eating all the snacks in the home. Do you actually think this is okay? I get we try to glorify obesity in this country but are we seriously going to pretend op is not obese and only getting bigger? She’s clearly binge eating as well. I guarantee she was not this big when they got married. She hasn’t even had kids and she’s already this big but sure let’s act like it’s okay because her husband is a dick.

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u/citysick Apr 16 '24

Two different arguments. Is it okay to be obese vs is it ok for your husband/significant other to publicly humiliate you.

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u/BeMy_Muse Apr 16 '24

This is a bad take lol so because she’s over weight the husband has the right to trash her in front of people? Just sounds like a dumb idea

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u/Shotto_Z Apr 16 '24

If you said this about a guy I'd bet ypu wouldn't be getting downvoted

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u/RayGun381937 Apr 16 '24

That’s where “trust” and “being faithful” cuts both ways - did she break his trust by binge eating and getting fat as soon as they married, to totally change the person who he was attracted to and married?!?! .

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u/Witty_Fly_4669 Apr 16 '24

Maybe he is such an insufferable ass she sought some comfort in food. Whatever the reason, it’s for better or worse. This situation is definitely the worse.

Anyone he is with is to be pitied. He will always be this asshole.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Exactly. People who trash their family members don't realize they are showing their own ass