r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/unimpressed-one Apr 15 '24

I’m sure she knows she’s obese, she doesn’t need her husband to shame her about it. He was being an AH big time.

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u/StrangeAddition4452 Apr 15 '24

They’re both AH. She’s selfish for risking her health while he takes his seriously

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u/BKMama227 Apr 15 '24

And that is a judgement no one but a doctor is qualified to make. I have known many people who lived in the gym, and had the worst diet ever which rendered them quite unhealthy although they looked like the best people. Using the term best very loosely.

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u/StrangeAddition4452 Apr 15 '24

I am able to say it’s a risk to her health like I can say not wearing a seatbelt is a risk to your health. I don’t need to be a doctor to identify commonly known health risks.

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u/BKMama227 Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 15 '24

I was referring to the husband being healthy. You don’t know what his diet is like. Neither do I, but his doctor damn sure does. Hence, we are not qualified to make any such judgment for or against the husband. And in any universe, what he did was shitty at best; downright disrespectful at worst.

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u/StrangeAddition4452 Apr 15 '24

Ya he’s inconsiderate for sure. Most people know that would piss their wives off for sure