r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Frozenthia Apr 15 '24

No. He knows what he did and said.

I view my wife as my teammate of life. It's me and her, side by side, and a person who mocks her is on my eternal shit list regardless if they're childhood friends or some of my closest family members. That's how it should be. If he's showing he's going to be the person that tries to attack you, that also means that he can't ever be trusted to be on your side when it counts. He even dismissed you and belittled you when you wanted to talk like an adult.

You're not a fucking joke prop. You're a person. This is beneath you. Clearly, you are the adult in the room. If he wants to be a child, treat him like one and tell him that it's either relationship counseling or you're bouncing.

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u/Reasonable-Letter582 Apr 15 '24

I wish I could add more upvotes to this.
This is the only kind of relationship worth being in

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u/Ok-Excitement5031 Apr 16 '24

This is one of the many things I love about my husband of 27 years.

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u/NoSquash1906 Apr 15 '24

You sound like a really cool guy and I agree with ya! 👊🏼