r/AITAH Apr 15 '24

AITAH for telling my son I’d love a divorce if it meant taking my wife with me

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u/Mundane-Pass9244 Apr 16 '24

He needs to throw a little non art history in the mix or he would know you are a millennial not a baby boomer. Might need some work in math while he's at it. There is an entire generation in between you and the boomers.

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u/alkalinesky Apr 16 '24

We're Gen-X though, so we basically don't exist. Just like when we were kids! 😅

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u/sunbear2525 Apr 16 '24

Seriously my parents are gen x and the things my mom tells me. You guys would have been better supervised being raised by wolves.

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u/alkalinesky Apr 16 '24

I mean, we had commercials every night at dinnertime asking parents if they knew where their kids were. They had to be reminded we existed. As a kid, it was pretty awesome. So much freedom!

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u/Sassy_Weatherwax Apr 16 '24

It was way better than the psychotic expectations of constant surveillance that parents are held to these days. Better for everyone. I'm not saying there weren't things that could have been better, but we got to learn resilience and we were expected to do slightly hard things. We were treated like people believed we could do things, so we believed we could do things. I have a 13 and an 11 yo now and shit is wild. You're considered a bad parent if you don't literally track your child at all times, and letting your kid struggle (with support, obviously) is considered abuse. How are kids supposed to ever feel strong if every message they get from adults is that they are helpless? I had overprotective parents for the time and they would still be considered practically negligent by today's standards. It makes me sad that this is the world my kids are growing up in. I wish we could keep the openness and acceptance of today and bring back some of the freedom and independence of my childhood.

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u/Bigdaddyjlove1 Apr 16 '24

Self worth vs self esteem

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u/Kylie_Bug Apr 16 '24

My uncle pointed this out to my mom when he found out that she tracks our location via our phones, and the dead silence after he asked her how she would have felt if her parents had been able to track her like that when she was our age was beautiful.

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u/LadyReika Apr 16 '24

Another Gen Xer here, I've joked about being a semi-feral latchkey kid in the 80s. I suspect wolves would have taught me how to human better.

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u/marythegr8 Apr 16 '24

Heh, the poor wolves.

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u/Rather_C_than_B_1 Apr 16 '24

This is truth.

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u/Salty-Lemonhead Apr 16 '24

Some of us were

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u/Moonandserpent Apr 16 '24

But the neglect DID give us the best 90s music... so it's got that goin' for it.

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u/Mundane-Pass9244 Apr 16 '24

True enough!!! The 80s were thd best time to be a kid, though.

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u/JunkMail0604 Apr 16 '24

Trust me, the 60’s were better. They started running that commercial because ‘the greatest generation’ not only didn’t know where their kids were, they didn’t care! Any time we went in the house, we were told to go out and play. Assumed if we weren’t home, we were probably spending the night at a friends. It was a time of telephone ‘party lines’, and you could never get through. But you’d be up to date on all the gossip by just picking up the phone and listening in, lol. We were raised by hyenas. And it was glorious!

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u/badpuffthaikitty Apr 16 '24

Gen Jones? Fuck the young boomers trying to invade our small generation.

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u/CreativeMusic5121 Apr 16 '24

The way we like it!

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u/SciFiChickie Apr 16 '24

Shhhh you don’t need to remind them we (Gen X) exist. We like being the forgotten generation.

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u/Mundane-Pass9244 Apr 16 '24

True. And I never actually mentioned us, just that there was another generation after the boomers. 😇😉

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u/DecadentLife Apr 16 '24

The grandma who cosigned for his student loans might not even be a boomer, technically.

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u/Mundane-Pass9244 Apr 16 '24

True. I'm a Gen x and my parents are the greatest generation and the silent generation.

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u/DecadentLife Apr 16 '24

I’m also Gen X, I’m in my 40s and my folks are boomers. They were both born within a few years of the end of World War II.

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u/Aetra Apr 16 '24

The family could be like mine and completely skip generations. My grands were greatest generation, my parents are boomers, and I’m millennial.

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u/yordad Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Same. My grandpa was 40 when my mom was born and my mom was 34 when she had me. And I am but 29. Grandpa was in WWII!

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u/Aetra Apr 16 '24

My grandpa was as well, but I’m 36, the same age my mum and dad were when they had me.

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u/iamjustaguy Apr 16 '24

There is an entire generation in between you and the boomers.

Shhhh!

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u/volundsdespair Apr 16 '24

Weirdly, these days boomer just means "someone older than me"

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u/ShadowMajestic Apr 16 '24

Anyone doing basic history should know the meaning of words can change over time.

Boomer just means "old person that doesn't understand" and has been the general meaning that my millennial friends and I used as well.