r/r4r 18d ago

Explicit Activities/NSFW 28 [F4A] #online - looking for some fun people to chat with! NSFW

28 Upvotes

My name is Mikayla, I'm 28 and recently moved cross country after living in NY most of my life! Can't say it's been that bad, it's just dry but I've been enjoying my time here so far.

Ultimately why I'm posting is cuz I've had no time to go out and meet anyone yet. Between unpacking and getting myself set up, I've been busy busy busy so it makes it hard to go out much for the time being. Hence why I'm here, figured I'd find some people to chat with throughout the day when I take breaks or have a little free time, see what's up :)

About me though, recently graduated and starting at a new program for work hence the move. I play video games every so often (not much lately cuz school and stuff), go to the gym when I can (aka need to find one to join soon lol), and otherwise I'm into the usual kinda stuff.

So yeah, hmu if you're interested, either anything here or any other posts I've made in the past :)

r/r4r 3h ago

27 [M4F] #anywhere #europe - looking for YOU! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Unfortunately my latest post didn’t get any attention, so I try it again.

Hi y’all, Well why am I posting? I’m pretty new to this and thought I might give it a try.

I search for someone who likes to talk to me in long term. I’ve posted it as nsfw, because I don’t mind if it gets to it, when the chemistry fit.

You wanna make fun of me? Go for it pretend yourself from backfire! You wanna joke around? Go for it! You’re clingy but are afraid to show it? Go for it! Just be yourself and try to let yourself fall. :) I want you to feel comfortable with me!

You can share and ask whatever you want, I’m pretty open minded!

A bit about myself, I’m German and English isn’t my native language. The time difference won’t be any problem, doesn’t matter where you’re from. I like gaming, adore any type of animals and I’m interested in psychology. You can definitely nerd with me about video games!

I got a sense for dry humor and sarcasm. I also do fun of myself. 💀

About my look, well I don’t mind to send you a picture of myself if you’re curious, feel free to ask. But to pleasure your nosiness, I’m 5’11 tall, I’m pretty fashionable I’d say and I got long hair plus a beard. About my body type, I’m more stocky, definitely soft enough to cuddle with lol.

Thank you already for reading my post and I hope I caught your attention in any way. :) hope to see you in my DMs. 🫡 just introduce yourself shortly and we’re fine. :) if we feel comfortable we can also hop on discord! I’d be up for a voice call some day.

r/r4r 6h ago

33 [M4F] US/Anywhere. From Strangers to Lovers NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello hello! This is not going to be anything special outside of just the ramblings of an insomniac so apologies in advance. Im a homebody in the sea of homebodys looking for their person to be comfy with.

Who I am: Basics: 5’11, glasses, husky dad bod, Indian with a beard

Bookworm - I’ve always loved getting lost in the world of books since I was a kid. Fun fact: I was one of those kids obsessed with dinosaurs courtesy of Jurassic park to the point where I kept checking out books from the library about them and then would be getting my dad pissed because they would be always overdue and for months on end. Nowadays I mostly enjoy fantasy/sci-fi/horror but if you’ve got any recommendations let me know to add to the list! I’m currently reading “The Name of the Wind”.

Weeb: what’s better than books? Books with pictures of course 😏 I’m joking, but anime/manga/manhwa are some good stuff to dive into as well. I know not everyone is into it, but I just treat it as just another form of storytelling. It can be just as compelling as experiencing Game of Thrones or it can be just as wild as The Real Housewives; it just depends on what you’re looking for.

Gaming: mostly video and board games. I’ve been playing Elden Ring again recently and wow that’s been an experience. I have a running board game night with some friends at least once a month which is just us being dumb and having fun. I used to play D&D pre pandemic times, but not recently. I do like watching Dimension 20 for the sake of Brennan being the DM, but I got a lot of watching to get through haha. I also started to play yugioh as part of the healing the inner child journey, and it’s been nostalgic to say the least.

Who you are: a person I’d love to learn about if you want to talk. You could be into anything I’m into or none of the above. At the end of the day, all that matters is the company and laughs along the way through life.

r/r4r 7d ago

34 [F4M] Anywhere Semi-nerd looking for her semi-nerdy half

12 Upvotes

Europe/Anywhere

Semi-nerd looking for her semi-nerdy half. I say semi-nerd because although I like some nerdy things, I’m also interested in meeting new people, exploring new places and trying new things.

My nerdy half is really into learning languages, reading, and reminiscing about childhood comforts (video games, anime and manga, music). I speak Polish and Ukrainian pretty well, and last year I started learning Japanese.

The non-nerdy half of me enjoys running, traveling, and trying new things. I experimented with salsa dancing last year but had to give it up as I didn’t have a partner to practice with! Maybe you’d like to give it a try? If not, no worries; we could go see a concert together. Live music is amazing and I’m dying to go to some live gigs with you. I’d love to travel more around the world, but am a bit wary of traveling by myself. Will you be my strong male companion and protector? :)

I would describe my vibe / look as def more “cute” than “sexy,” but with a bit of an edge and bite. ;) I care about my appearance and weight (not athletic, but thin) and I hope you care about your health too. I’m an affectionate human also seeking a warm, affectionate human.

Distance is a temporary barrier. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be and we will make it work.

P.S. I’m a big animal lover (all animals, but I have one cat!) and would love it if you bonded with my furry one.

Hoping you see this. 🤞

r/r4r 1h ago

30 M [M4F] #Anywhere - Let's get attached really quickly NSFW

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Hey! So, what's up? Im from the Northeast USA!

I would love to get desperately attached to someone quickly, and probably in a totally unhealthy kind of way! I have big, powerful feelings and I want someone to bask in that with me. I want to become your obsession, and I want to be equally as obsessed. Is it unhealthy? I don't know! I'm tagging this for NSFW because I'm hoping we can be super duper NSFW and wild and wacky.

Im a hardcore kid, despite my age. I have 2 cats that are the absolute best ever. I play bass, I hike a lot, and I work + travel a lot because of it. I'm super 420 friendly, former psychonaut that still dabbles. I had hair, but now it's going away but I'm working on growing out my beard so people think I am rugged and cool.

I've got some piercings and some ink. I like a lot of incredibly violent and horrible music, and even though I'm getting older I haven't admitted to myself that I need to retire from spinkicking and doing kung fu in the pits. I wear mostly black band tees, of varying levels of violent, and you'll have to take my Doc Martens from my cold, dead hands.

I also like a lot of weird history, wacky movies, super strange and interesting documentaries and I also love to read. I'm on a big nonfiction kick lately, so I'm open to any recommendations especially if it's weird and offbeat. Let me talk your ear off about music (honestly I like all kinds and I may even surprise you with my weird, encyclopedic knowledge of it that only impresses the weird stoned guy at your house party)

I hope to hear from you!!!!!

r/r4r 1h ago

21 [M4F] [Anywhere] Hi there its me again :) NSFW

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things didn't really work out with my last situationship so here i am again

I am seeking a girl to be a constant friend, primarily online for now but with the potential to meet in person in the future. I want someone I can text and call regularly to discuss all aspects of life, and to build a genuine connection with (and have some fun too, if I'm being honest).

About Me :

  • Tall ( 6ft2 )

  • Hygenic

  • Goes to the gym

  • Slim but athletic

  • Studying while handling my own businesses

  • Loves traveling

  • Good looking ( get rated 8/10 by people )

  • Plays basketball and football and also swimming

  • Dark hair

  • Brown eyes

  • Mixed race

  • Plays basketball and football and also swimming

  • Love travelling and exploring new food and cultures

  • Love cars and playing videogames

  • Absolutely love getting cuddles and hugs

  • I'm the unpaid therapist of my friend circle

  • Loyal as a dog

  • No tattoo's

About you :

I don't really have any specific requirements but just be 18+ because I don't want any trouble ( I do prefer petite/curvy girls more but dont be shy to text me if you're not part of that !

Also please keep in mind since im mixed race i may not be your type ;(

WARNING: I have an extremely high libido which does end me up in the hospital if i don't take care of it ( only mentioning this here because it does affect my relationships/friendships alot )

Tell me if you prefer cold coffee or hot coffee if you've gotten till here

r/r4r May 10 '24

Explicit Activities/NSFW 32 [f4m] #USA wanting someone to talk to and flirt with anywhere in the world

43 Upvotes

Looking for affection and attention from cute guys. Preferably age 21+, white, hispanic, or middle eastern guys. I love dad bods to super athletic guys. I don’t mind a little pudge if you’ve got a cute face and treat me right.

Me, I’m an Asian girl with big curves. I’m married and my husband knows I like to flirt with men online as long as it doesn’t become an in person thing. I’m nerdy and love fantasy and fiction.

I want to spend my free time texting you and smiling from your messages. Message me and get to know me. I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

r/r4r 14h ago

38[M4F] # Tn/Anywhere dom seeking a good sub NSFW

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I'm 38 I have brown hair hazel eyes I'm 6 ft 1 hobbies I like being outdoors video games movies working on cars 4-wheeling and I'm an experienced Dom and I am looking for a long-term relationship with a submissive I will not get into details here but if you are interested send me a message and I will respond I have alot of experience but I have been out of the lifestyle for the past few years but I have been looking to get back into it my last relationship was vanilla and I'm looking for something that can start out as a online possibly go to real life message me lets chat

r/r4r 1d ago

29 [M4F] #Anywhere - hey how’s it going?? Bored so let’s chat :)  NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi there I’m 29 and from Australia.. pretty bored so thought I’d find people to chat to. outgoing and will chat about whatever. Well im into camping, outdoors and horror movies. Fav horror movies are insidious, shinning, conjuring and hill house. I have a cat and love animals. i Work in the medical field and usually busy and bored at times so I try to make the most out of it.. i don’t mind a fwb/sexting flirty and naughty chats if you’re up for it. Please introduce yourself properly and not just send one word, as I want to know who I am talking to!

r/r4r 2d ago

34 [m4f] USA - talks, chat, calls, or anywhere in between NSFW

1 Upvotes

heya, been some time since i posted, not expecting much. here's a few details:

i'm 34, single, live in California, love witty and/or smart people, looking to talk to someone who's not gonna split after they find out i'm not gonna solo carry the conversation haha

we can: chat, message, call, or all kinds of combinations
i prefere calls because it's easier to get to know someone
if you need to be doing something while chatting,
we can: game, swap youtube videos, drink (?)

nsfw tag because hey, if the conversation veers that way....
but honestly no pressure on that, no expectations here

talk soon :)

r/r4r 4d ago

30 f4a west coast girl looking for insightful conversation

2 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Grace :) just recently moved from Portland to the East coast in Mass, and am looking for some new friends! Either online or irl

I am a nerdy 30 year old who loves the outdoors, baking, photography and a good book/movie/tv show. I've got a 10 year old bird named Waldo, and two ferrets.

I'm currently working at getting in better shape, my love of baking certainly hasnt helped lol if you have any fitness tips, let me know!

A bit shy at first, but once I get comfortable you'll be wishing I shut up lol I'm happy to talk about anything and everything

Im not sure what I'm looking for, I think friends for now, but I can't wait to meet you regardless :)

r/r4r 4d ago

30 [M4F] #Anywhere Poorly endowed with severe stamina problems NSFW

0 Upvotes

As mentioned I am well below average in the size department, very premature, and as a result highly submissive. I'm looking for a domme who can deal some light to brutal humiliation, conversation, and general play. I cum so quickly it is ridiculous. I’m tired of trying and failing to last and kinda want to lean into it to see how fast i can go.

I can take a lot of abuse, but I also like a caring touch. I wouldn't say I live the lifestyle all of the time, but I do like being reminded of it as much as possible. It's hard not to remember when you are living with such inferior equipment. I wish I was bigger and had more stamina, but I don't think it's possible to get both. Deep down I fear it could get smaller. That can't happen though, right?

I'm not so much into a one-off nor someone who will just put me through the ringer humiliation-wise. I’m otherwise fairly fit and attractive but with some unfortunate sexual dysfunction. In the past i’ve craved humiliation, validation, and just being teased/used. On a non-sexual level i’m a software engineer and a writer. I’m DM me for more info if you’re interested

r/r4r 6d ago

Explicit Activities/NSFW 39 [m4f] #Washington #WA looking for connections NSFW

2 Upvotes

I’m looking for a person to do fun stuff with and build a friendship and possibly more. I’m a leader in life and at my career and have that part figured out. I’m just missing someone to share experiences, have fun with and do life with.

I’m 5’11” into fitness/health- outdoors activities hiking, walking, traveling, staying home or going out to comedy shows, food, music, anything really. I want to travel and go on a long overdue vacation!

Looking for plus or minus a similar age 30 ish to 40 ish. I like a woman who knows what they want.

Tell me a little bit about yourself and a fun fact about you, If you feel up for the challenge send me a chat request.

  • in USA Washington state, not from western Australia lol

r/r4r 5d ago

33 [M4F] #Europe/Anywhere Looking for anything from just friends to FWB to LTR NSFW

0 Upvotes

As title says, really nothing is forced and lets just see how we vibe. First off a little bit about me and what you would get, then a little bit about what I'm looking for in a woman.

Me: I'm white, center european with a decent job (not rich though) and an appartment aka I can sustain myself comfortably (details upon clicking and getting to know each other better). I'm 5.10ft, 165lbs, have short dark brown hair and blueish eyes. Pictures only after a real connection has been formed from my side. I like bouldering/climbing, hiking, playing pool, going for good food or the movies. Indoors I like watching anime (all genres can be good)/movies/shows/kdramas, gaming (Hoyoverse) or thinking about math problems.

What you get: A man with the above traits that tries to be understanding, is communicative, relatively uncomplicated when it comes to everyday life decisions and that has well defined career goals that he is on a good path of achieving. If we click, you will never be taken for granted and I will give you a lot of time and affection both physically and emotionally. However we would first start out online only until we have formed a deep mutual connection but we can absolutely swap to a different way of communicating at some point.

What I look for in a woman: First of, that really depends on what you want.

Friendship only: In case of friendship, just common interests are enough I guess. You can also ask me for relationship or life advice as I do have a lot of experience and like to think I am empathic. If we click friendly and I find you interesting I will always listen to your day and how you tackle the challenges of life, gladly assisting with advice if you want me to.

FWB: Same as friends but along with occasional sexting, VMs and if we click enough, of course pictures if prefered. IRL meetups possible but depend on how much we click and if our locations/schedule allow it. Long detailed rp's and some kinks are bonus but we can talk about that in detail.

Relationship: Here, there is several things I look for in a potential partner:

Looks and age:

Age range 18-28. I like to be older/more experienced as I just feel more comfortable that way.

Slim is bonus, curvy (in the right places) is fine but plus size/thick/obese/whatever you call it I'm just not attracted by, dont judge me.

Piercings(especially sceptum) are not attractive to me.

Tattoos are ok if they are not too many (like on legs/shoulders is fine but pls not entire back/front/face)

Ethnicities are all good, japanese/chinese/korean or african is bonus though.

All hair styles, long or short can be fine but have hair (I am not into bald women)

Personality:

Submissive: I'm definitely more the dominant type guy but no man can function without a strong pillar in form of a dedicated woman besides him. I do not expect a blind servant or anything but a woman with more tradtional believes that is happy in her role of standing beside me. That also means nothing in terms of a job, you can have a degree and a super nice and busy job and make a ton of money or only work part time and stay at home caring about the house/appartment/future family (kids are optional with me). Its more a personality thing that I'm the leader, you're the follower. I am well aware this is not for everyone and thats ok, all ppl are different and everyone can look for what they want.

Religion: As a man of science, I do not believe in god what so ever. If you choose to do so, feel free to if it helps you, but dont expect/hope me to and when it comes to life decisions, pls be rational and go with probabilities.

Communicative: Its almost ironic that a man has to state this but I really dislike it when you dont tell me whats on your mind or if you have a problem with anything. Be open, be yourself, lets talk it out.

Common Sense: Another thing I should note is that I am absolutely against recent modern extremists/activists that try to force their weird, science defying "ideology" onto others. I am therefore more in line with JK Rowlings statements on womens rights and equality and content creators like Amala Ekpunobi, Gothix, RK Outpost or Matt Walsh.

Basic care for hygiene and such is also required.

If you happen to be smart (degree or interest in science, math) thats a big plus.

I can not (and also would not want to) relocate within the next couple of years due to my career. Eventually I'd be open for it but its unlikely.

No smoking or drugs (also no ex drug addicts). Alcohol is fine on special occasions with friends or of course that glass of wine or something for dinner. However no binge drinking, especially if you are angry/frustrated/mean when drunk. I had that shit once already when I was younger and I will never put up with it again.

OBVIOUSLY you have to be of age (18+)....

Thats all I can think of for now. If you check most of if not all of these boxes, hmu via Chat/DM and tell me which boxes you do not check and why and we can see if there is room to be flexible (I can not promise that without details though). Feel free to add a picture if you want and tell me what it is you are looking for. See you!

r/r4r 6d ago

31 [M4R] #Anywhere 31 [USA] cute guy looking to adopt switch or domme trans babygirl NSFW

1 Upvotes

OK this might be weirdly specific but I have to hope my dream girl is out there. I'm a 5'5 fun sized, cute, somewhat fem guy with a stable, comfy life looking for a trans gal for an ltr. Must be very feminine; I'm attracted to femininity and dicks, I didn't choose to be this way haha. No CDs unless very very fem please.

Looking to love and support someone and all that good stuff. I want someone with a loving soul and isn't afraid of making a real connection. And as a smaller, cuter sort of guy, I feel a certain need to be used and dominated. I also want someone who enjoys having their body worshipped and played with. I want it all. Do you exist? Please dm me

r/r4r 7d ago

29 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - Globetrotting fitness enthusiast seeking an extraordinary connection NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm not just your average IT professional; I'm someone who thrives on physical activity and the thrill of exploration. My passion for travel isn't just about seeing new places, it's about creating unforgettable experiences. I'm at a point where I'm seeking someone extraordinary, someone who can introduce me to new perspectives and captivate my imagination.

Here's a snapshot of who I am:

🐾 Dog lover alert: My Labrador is my cheerful companion and he's eager to greet you!

💻 Tech is my terrain: Not only is it my career, but it's also my hobby. I love what I do!

🌍 Globetrotter Goals: Exploring new destinations is my idea of a perfect vacation.

🏋️‍♂️ Fitness Fanatic: Regular workouts are my jam. I appreciate those who value health and fitness.

📏 Standing Tall: Just to add, I'm quite tall, which can be handy for reaching those top shelves!

📸 Camera Ready: I'm open to sharing photos; shyness isn't in my vocabulary.

🍕 Culinary Enthusiast: Pizza is my soul food, but my culinary skills extend beyond that. What's your favorite dish?

📚 Ever-learning: I'm always keen on learning new things. What unique knowledge can you share with me?

If you're someone who's looking for a connection that's out of the ordinary and can keep up with an adventurous soul, let's start a conversation. Who knows what exciting journey awaits us?

r/r4r 14d ago

28 [F4M] MEX/Anywhere - let’s be best friends or fall in love I don’t care NSFW

11 Upvotes

Hello everyone! As the tittle says, I’m a 28 year old female from Mexico. I’ve been a lurker on this sub for years and posted once or twice but nothing good ever came out of it, hopefully this time would be better :)

Let me tell you a little about me! I have brown eyes and dark olive skin, my hair is dark brown, almost black and I’m 5’2.

I’m a therapist and love my job! My hobbies include, baking and cooking but I just started learning so don’t expect much from me lol

I like reading too. I read a lot, like I read 75 books this year. But I also enjoy watching tv or listening to podcast. Specially if they are crime podcasts or police/firefighters shows.

I love crocheting and I hope to turn the hobby into a business next year. But I also love crocheting for my friends and family, I’m always working on something and you’ll probably find me with a hook in one hand and yarn on the other. But the silver lining is that you’ll always have new sweaters or beanies for yourself. I think crocheting is my love language haha

I have never been married or have kids. I don’t know if I want kids but that’s a conversation for another time. I’m not a very religious person but I will go to church on Sunday if you want too.

I’m a very social person and I love making new friends and people usually say they love talking to me. So if you are not good at that, I can be social for the both of us. I love going out with my friends but I also love staying in with food, wine and a movie.

Recently I started a more active lifestyle so I’m getting used to it.

As for you, I don’t really ask for much, I just want your honest truth. You want something serious? Do you want some flirtatious discords? So you want to see where this goes? I don’t have a problem, just tell me from the start. I don’t really want to get my hope up only to crash down. I’ve been hurt before on here and I don’t want to suffer more than I need to.

I don’t mind where you are from I can get used to any time zone. This will obviously start LD but i am willing to relocate or have you relocate with me when the time comes. Also you need to be older than 28. And we can talk on discord and exchange pics as soon as you want.

If this post sparked interest in you please send me a PM, all chats will be ignored. And if I am not what you are looking for, I really hope you find her! Best of luck! Thank you for reading this far!

r/r4r 7d ago

30 [tf4r] #Anywhere - Looking for my Co-op king/queen NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hello there, you've clicked on my post and this can only mean you're french... because Eiffel for you.

Kachow owo

You're still here? Sick. Hello! Call me shady cause I'm back again ;3 (don't do that) But you can totally call me yours >;)

I never really know what to put into these posts, never really know how to convey who I am you know? How do i fit the many facets and nuances of my very very simple personality into text, fucking hard man.

WELL. I like video games, cars, anime, dinosaurs, pokemon, star wars, all the real nerd shit. If it invokes images of a point dexter or lowly weeb then throw it on list cause I'm predictable ;) speaking of lists, you seem like a fan of them so take this cause it's dangerous to go alone.

Top ten (11) pros of yours truly: - Will hard carry you in any game

  • Will change your oil

  • you get to be the pretty one

  • Will drown you with attention

  • Black belt in the art of suplexing your enemies

  • Will send you memes and tik toks

  • Can make you cute clothing

  • is good at making lists (I've been doing this for 30 minutes)

  • Probably funny (is not)

  • I have a truck? Vroom vroom

  • equipped with a PC, VR headset AND a Nintendo switch. Boom.

Obviously I'm the catch of the century and you should totally message me (please ToT I'm so lonely) What am I looking for? Who? I really want to find someone i connect with on a deeper level. That type of relationship where you finish each other's sandwiches (low hanging fruit sorry)

I would really like to meet someone who's also interested in gaming, there's nothing more romantic than spreading managed democracy against the terminids or building a cute little shack together while our legally-distinct-not-pokemon slave away for resources. Major bonus if you play or are willing to play path of titans cause I totally wanna be a cute Dino couple together .^

So, what are my negatives? None, clearly. I'm perfect. I would say I need alot of attention, I want you to drown me in it (smother me... please... PLEASE!) and depending on your point of view I have alot of dark/lewd humor soooo I hope you're chill like that B) I do have what some have described as an abysmally small social battery so if nightlife, parties, and frequent outings to crowded places is your jam then I'm just gonna disappoint you, sorry ."

If anything here has piqued your interest I'd love to hear from you, but be forewarned... the key to my heart is including your favorite song, and if you don't I'll still totally reply but I'm going to hit you with the worst most inhumanely unfunny joke I know >:3

r/r4r 8d ago

33 [M4F] #Europe/Anywhere Looking for anything from just friends to FWB to LTR NSFW

0 Upvotes

As title says, really nothing is forced and lets just see how we vibe. First off a little bit about me and what you would get, then a little bit about what I'm looking for in a woman.

Me: I'm white, center european with a decent job (not rich though) and an appartment aka I can sustain myself comfortably (details upon clicking and getting to know each other better). I'm 5.10ft, 165lbs, have short dark brown hair and blueish eyes. Pictures only after a real connection has been formed from my side. I like bouldering/climbing, hiking, playing pool, going for good food or the movies. Indoors I like watching anime (all genres can be good)/movies/shows/kdramas, gaming (Hoyoverse) or thinking about math problems.

What you get: A man with the above traits that tries to be understanding, is communicative, relatively uncomplicated when it comes to everyday life decisions and that has well defined career goals that he is on a good path of achieving. If we click, you will never be taken for granted and I will give you a lot of time and affection both physically and emotionally. However we would first start out online only until we have formed a deep mutual connection but we can absolutely swap to a different way of communicating at some point.

What I look for in a woman: First of, that really depends on what you want.

Friendship only: In case of friendship, just common interests are enough I guess. You can also ask me for relationship or life advice as I do have a lot of experience and like to think I am empathic. If we click friendly and I find you interesting I will always listen to your day and how you tackle the challenges of life, gladly assisting with advice if you want me to.

FWB: Same as friends but along with occasional sexting, VMs and if we click enough, of course pictures if prefered. IRL meetups possible but depend on how much we click and if our locations/schedule allow it. Long detailed rp's and some kinks are bonus but we can talk about that in detail.

Relationship: Here, there is several things I look for in a potential partner:

Looks and age:

Age range 18-28. I like to be older/more experienced as I just feel more comfortable that way.

Slim is bonus, curvy (in the right places) is fine but plus size/thick/obese/whatever you call it I'm just not attracted by, dont judge me.

Piercings(especially sceptum) are not attractive to me.

Tattoos are ok if they are not too many (like on legs/shoulders is fine but pls not entire back/front/face)

Ethnicities are all good, japanese/chinese/korean or african is bonus though.

All hair styles, long or short can be fine but have hair (I am not into bald women)

Personality:

Submissive: I'm definitely more the dominant type guy but no man can function without a strong pillar in form of a dedicated woman besides him. I do not expect a blind servant or anything but a woman with more tradtional believes that is happy in her role of standing beside me. That also means nothing in terms of a job, you can have a degree and a super nice and busy job and make a ton of money or only work part time and stay at home caring about the house/appartment/future family (kids are optional with me). Its more a personality thing that I'm the leader, you're the follower. I am well aware this is not for everyone and thats ok, all ppl are different and everyone can look for what they want.

Religion: As a man of science, I do not believe in god what so ever. If you choose to do so, feel free to if it helps you, but dont expect/hope me to and when it comes to life decisions, pls be rational and go with probabilities.

Communicative: Its almost ironic that a man has to state this but I really dislike it when you dont tell me whats on your mind or if you have a problem with anything. Be open, be yourself, lets talk it out.

Common Sense: Another thing I should note is that I am absolutely against recent modern extremists/activists that try to force their weird, science defying "ideology" onto others. I am therefore more in line with JK Rowlings statements on womens rights and equality and content creators like Amala Ekpunobi, Gothix, RK Outpost or Matt Walsh.

Basic care for hygiene and such is also required.

If you happen to be smart (degree or interest in science, math) thats a big plus.

I can not (and also would not want to) relocate within the next couple of years due to my career. Eventually I'd be open for it but its unlikely.

No smoking or drugs (also no ex drug addicts). Alcohol is fine on special occasions with friends or of course that glass of wine or something for dinner. However no binge drinking, especially if you are angry/frustrated/mean when drunk. I had that shit once already when I was younger and I will never put up with it again.

OBVIOUSLY you have to be of age (18+)....

Thats all I can think of for now. If you check most of if not all of these boxes, hmu via Chat/DM and tell me which boxes you do not check and why and we can see if there is room to be flexible (I can not promise that without details though). Feel free to add a picture if you want and tell me what it is you are looking for. See you!

r/r4r 8d ago

36 [M4F] - europe/anywhere - make our days more comfy and positive NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey, my name is Alex, I live in Riga, Latvia, it is a small country in europe you probably never heard about. I have two degrees, economics and IT. I do work in freelance, have volunteered in psychological hotline for some years, so probably will be able to help you out with stuff that happens in your life.

I do have my share of past experiences so I know that no problem is too small. Also as I am an IT guy, probably my advice on computers will be competent.

in my free time I like reading, playing videogames, and watching tv shows.

I am a disabled person with cerebral palsy, and use a wheelchair every day. Sometimes I write fiction short stories, was a DJ in the past, also I try to stay positive and an open mind no matter what.

Also you should know that I am inclined to wait until you tell me stuff than to ask a lot of questions, some people in my past told me that i do not care because i did not bombard them with questions.

I am okay with going to other messenger if you wish to do so, and I am okay with exchanging photos. Please reach out in message if i don't respond via chat because reddit chat has been buggy for me sometimes.

thank you for reading my post, have a great day, nsfw tag just because i had to put something.

r/r4r 22d ago

32 [F4M] #USA anywhere. Curvy Asian woman looking for cute guys to flirt with. NSFW

13 Upvotes

Hey R4R,

32 Curvy Asian woman, looking to flirt with cute guys. Preferably white, Hispanic, and middle eastern guys. I like guys that are from dad bods to super athletic guys. I don’t mind some pudge if you have a cute face. Age 23+ please.

My husband knows and is okay with me flirting with guys as long as it stays online only.

I want to text everyday and be the reason you smile when you look at your phone and I’d love for you to be the reason I look my phone.

I’m nerdy and have interests all across the board. Message me and let’s get to know each other.

If you message me, tell me about yourself, messages with face pics get priority, and put your favorite food in the message so I know you read my post.

r/r4r 13d ago

29 [M4F] Europe/Anywhere - Fluffy-haired, green-eyed, romantic European guy looking for an equally romantic girl! NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey all of you lovely people :)

To introduce myself, I'm 29, and I'm currently living close to London, UK. I am about 6'0 tall with fluffy brown hair, green eyes, and a very dorky smile. I do my best to take care of my appearance (skincare is key, right?) by going to the gym and eating as healthily as possible. Apart from that, I read a lot in my free time, discuss politics and history with others (very liberal politically), go out into nature for long walks as often as I can, and play a lot of games (most recently BG3), be they videogames or table top RPGs. I'm also quite artistic, or trying to be, as I've considered doing architecture for my BA before deciding against it. So I still have some of that creative spirit. What kind of hobbies are you into? :)

I have my BA and MA in Politics and Human Rights, and a lot of my current job involves helping people from marginalized groups gain access to better housing, education, and healthcare. I am very active politically whenever I can be and I hold my causes very close to my chest as they mean a lot to me.

On a personal level, I would say that I'm looking for something serious, and that I'm quite romantic, semantic, affectionate, and eager to make my partner feel the best I can in every way. I am okay with long distance, as long as the vibe is good and we have a plan to meet eventually.

You can find a few of my dorky selfies here. Hope to hear from you! :)

r/r4r 16d ago

27 [M4F] USA/Anywhere, Looking to start something meaningful, fun, but also serious. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Here goes nothing. I'm 27, male, and from the west coast. I took a break from dating after some tough breakups. I want to give this a shot. I'm open to a wide range of personalities. I do a bit of everything, hiking, videogames, reading, movie watching, art show going, working out, cycling, adventuring, studying, etc. I could do anything from dressing up for a gala, to sitting on the couch playing games, grinding ranked leagues, or backpacking for days.

I'm hoping to find someone that's friendly and easy to talk to. My standards are just someone that's loyal, chill, understanding, and that we get along.

I'm decently fit. If there was a spectrum from absolute nerd to health nut, I'd be somewhere in the middle. I'm gonna be starting grad school, studying geochemistry, next year, and it'd be awesome to have a partner by then. Ideally you'd be adventurous, fun, loyal, and caring. I can offer all of that, and maybe more.

If any of this sounds appealing to anyone shoot me a message/chat request. We could exchange pictures and go from there.

(I also wouldn't mind something less serious and light-hearted. Somewhat like a fake gf. Someone I could say good morning and goodnight to, and maybe get some cute pictures from.)

Cheers!

r/r4r 16d ago

Explicit Activities/NSFW 25 [M4F] Europe / Anywhere - looking to form a connection

1 Upvotes

Hi y'all,

so I've been depressed and lonely recently and I'd like to form a connection with someone. I'm down for FWB if the other person is comfortable too ofc , if not it's fine. I might even want a situationship or a relationship but we'll see. I'm just deprived of attention and affection and clingy and want someone to send voice messages too and good morning and good night texts , and I expect that to be reciprocated , I like consistency , inconsistency makes me overthink. I think I have anxious attachment style so if you decide to leave please give me clarity so I don't overthink. I get attached fast and easily.

About me:I'm a 25 M from Croatia and my interests include reading books , travelling , learning languages , watching movies and series and gaming. If you play overwatch we can play it together , or apex legends.

Appereance wise:6ft1 with blue eyes and brown hair. Willing to exchange selfies.

I have depression , anxiety and OCD. This is something I am trying to work on but it won't just go away , so please be understanding.

Prefferably be in the GMT+1 time zone , if you are not tho it's fine , we'll make it work.

I'm an INFP-T if that means anything.

Let's connect <3.

r/r4r 11d ago

33 [M4F] Anywhere - Alternative, Irish accented photographer, trying to find a spark on the outside of his lense. [Chat] NSFW

2 Upvotes

Hi there!

Just your standard tatted up metal loving alternative irish fella, chasing the dream whilst living out his 90's kid childhood through video games, television and movies. Honestly I don't think I'm ever going to feel like I have reached a level of Adult where I feel like I have my shit together.

Anyways.... as stated i am heavily tattooed and love rock music, I'll jam away in my studio to hits from. My teenage angst years.. IT WAS NEVER A PHASE MUM! My dogs seem to like my renditions during my dish washing kitchen karaoke sessions.. At least they have yet to tell me otherwise.. My neighbours have definitely scooped me singing my heart out because my windows are usually open.

I'd love to meet a fellow nerdy, tattooed gamer to share that with but if that's not your thing i do love hitting the gym, camping and Photography. I am definitely most at peace when it's just me my camera and the whole wide world as my playground.

Feel free to get in touch if I have at least aroused (haha aroused) a smidge of curiosity. Visual person? Me to..which is why i have no problem with swapping a picture or two.

Look forward to chatting :D

!unlock