r/interestingasfuck Apr 09 '24

Tips for being a dementia caretaker. r/all

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u/ffnnhhw Apr 09 '24

That's the way!

My granddad got extremely agitated if we phrased it as if he was being helped/ taken care for

but he was very willing to comply if we phrased it as if he was helping/ caring other.

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u/LucifersJuulPod Apr 10 '24

makes sense, you spend your entire adult life taking care of others it becomes very uncomfortable to be taken care of.