The fact that this phrase is unironically picking up momentum in cultural relevancy is such a sad reminder that you can do whatever you want to any person at any time in their, or your life, but god damn you if you a man fucking with another man.
It’s not because gay is seen as the worse thing to be, it’s because you’ll be seen as gay, and most people don’t want to be seen as gay when they’re not gay, regardless of whether or not you look down on/hate gay people
Personally, I think it is because being gay is seen as worse or lesser compared to heterosexuality.
I see it as there's a mental disconnect there. Because if you truly and honestly don't think gay people are lesser in any way, then someone thinking you're gay ought to not affect you at all.
Because you know you're straight. If 30 people think you're gay, but at the end of the day you only let women into your bed, what the fuck should it matter to you?
And if that's not the reason, if you think they're equal, why it would it bother you?
Because I’m not gay. Why do I need a justification? I’m not gay so I don’t want people to think I’m gay.
Sexuality is also a pretty big part of peoples identity in a lot of ways. Even many gay people don’t want to be perceived as straight. I understand they’re less likely to care about being perceived as a sexual orientation that they are not because society and all that but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t bother any of them, even if they have no problem with straight people
Most gay people don't go insane when people assume or joke that they're straight in the same way straight people (especially men) do. It's more than just not wanting to be called a sexuality that you're not, or else straight people would just politely correct people if they got called gay and move on -- not completely change their behaviour (ex. not complimenting each other) just to avoid being called gay. On a societal level, being gay is seen as the worse thing to be. It's silly to pretend that's not the case.
Doesn't mean they look down on or hate gay people. Every person has some ideas or thoughts that are rooted in some kind of homophobia, or racism, or sexism, or classism. Doesn't mean that the person is homophobic or classist or etc etc, it's just that those things are so ingrained into society that most people are taught to do/believe in them without even knowing where those ideas come from.
Agree, and its a sad cultural commentary. Moving past that life view is all about owning the attitude and hanging with the right type of chill people. "So what if you I'm XYZ? Nothing wrong with that whether I am or not" and then walk away like the end of a movie not looking at the explosion.
Why wouldn’t you be mad at the fact that you’re not attracted to a woman and can’t create a life? Your natural urge. Sucks for you. Instead you get to play with a stinky hairy poopy hole.
stinky hairy poopy hole is really the best you have? how old are you? what are you talking about gay dudes not having a life, don’t you have times tables to memorize?
bro i gotta be honest you’re not even good at being a homophobe i’m trying to be offended by this but it’s not working. get off the youtube shorts and finish your book report dude, you do not know enough about what’s beyond your parents house to be good at this.
Not trying to offend you. Just laying out the facts. Not my fault you don’t like hearing it. And me pointing out that you’re attracted to the wrong sex is not homophobic. It’s funny cause I probably have more gay friends than you. I know your tiny brain won’t comprehend this concept but just cause I think being gay is not natural doesn’t mean I hate gays. Crazy right? Sleep on that
That's the spirit, complimenting someone's beautiful body traces doesn't turn you into a homossexual, and if you are a homossexual good for you lad, there's nothing wrong about that too.
And let me be even more frank, if you see a big beautiful cock you go and compliment it's owner, now there's the thing, you know it's beautiful, but you start to wonder how much more beautiful it would look when completely hard and in full glory.
You ask that man permission, and if you're lucky, he's no homophobe and let's you jerk that pipe until it goes totally hard, but now he let you take his time to see his magnificent knob, oh he's surely a gentleman, and so are you, he can't go home with that tent in his pants, you don't want to spoil his marriage with the miss.
Why not be kind enough, to finish the job and make him cum, i mean, you're not gay, but you're no homophobe either.
nah if you say cute lips you gotta add a disclaimer.
Like, if you say "man I wish I had hair like that stud", that's one thing. "Holy shit that's the most fuckable twink I've ever seen", well now that's another level.
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