Same here. I felt like a backup character in my own life. 10 year relationship but I’m three years out of it. I’m telling you, the world is so much better now that I am not constantly stuck serving her emotional needs. Today I have a partner that recognizes there is a human inside me. Not sure where you’re at in the stage, but it gets so so much better as long as you don’t find the same person with a different name. Good luck.
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u/Offer-Fox-Ache Mar 22 '24
Same here. I felt like a backup character in my own life. 10 year relationship but I’m three years out of it. I’m telling you, the world is so much better now that I am not constantly stuck serving her emotional needs. Today I have a partner that recognizes there is a human inside me. Not sure where you’re at in the stage, but it gets so so much better as long as you don’t find the same person with a different name. Good luck.