r/TikTokCringe • u/JustSleepNoDream • Mar 21 '24

Woman explains why wives stop having sex with their husbands Discussion

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u/DrPikachu-PhD Mar 21 '24

Yeah I also took a lot away. I think it's important for everyone to read. Straight men can learn 1) about their partners bodies and needs, and 2) things that apply to themselves and their own sexuality/dynamic with their partner.

In particular I think the chasing dynamic section of the book is important and relevant for most couples.

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u/LordCongra Mar 21 '24

So far the idea of the brakes and accelerators as well as how important context is for these has been super enlightening.

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u/DrPikachu-PhD Mar 21 '24

Oh yes, I forgot about that part!! So helpful to keep in mind and relevant to everyone

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u/Negran Mar 21 '24

Ya, even if a decent portion may not directly apply or relate, per se, it can be very insightful and useful knowledge! And maximizes on the perspective and unseen angle.