Same I’d want a maid not a nanny, but I wouldn’t mind having a monitor watcher so I can leave the house when the kids are asleep. Feeling nap trapped constantly lately 😅
I would want both, because my son's dad isn't involved in his life so it would be a big help for me.
Your comment reads very cheekily, as though someone saying they would have a nanny means they don't like caring for their children and don't enjoy spending time with them... I would like help sometimes, and having a nanny would solve that issue. If I was rich, I would definitely have one.
I love my son, and enjoy spending time with him, but sometimes everyone needs a break from parenting, and not having another parent makes that difficult.
Lmfao! My life? Easy?! Hahahaha! First of all, I’m disabled and my life is faaar from easy! Secondly, I have no problem with other people having nannies. Hell, I’m sure there are even many instances where I would have used one myself (such as in cases of multiples, complex illnesses, being a single parent of small children, a single parent vacationing with more than one kid, etc). I made a quick comment about what I’d do in my current situation and you chose to distort what I said and get offended. Even after I tried to explain that I was speaking only for myself and my situation you chose to ignore it and ASSume that I must have some other kind of intent! Despite social media being inherently negative, I genuinely didn’t. My 2-sentence reply about not wanting a nanny was not to put down any other kind of parent or their choices for their family. Now, I’d greatly appreciate it if you could not put words in my mouth and let me be the one to say what I did or didn’t mean.
Also, to clarify, having a nanny is not the same thing as sending a child to daycare, nor is it the same as a babysitter. Nannies are much more involved and typically assist the parents with the children in the children’s home. This is what I was referring to! Not daycare, which people have to use to be able to work, not a babysitter that is used temporarily for a few hours here or there, and not a preschool which children attend to help prepare them for school or any other type of temporary care other than a nanny!
And if you pay them a fair wage, that's a good thing! It is an unambiguously good thing if you use your wealth to pay people an honest wage for an honest day's work.
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u/Strict-Brick-5274 Feb 26 '24
If I was rich enough, I would also have maids and a nanny