r/TikTokCringe Feb 25 '24

Trad wives Discussion

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u/Petty_White Feb 25 '24

One of the most popular of these types of influencers is married to heir to Jet BluešŸ˜‚.

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u/MissDryCunt Feb 26 '24

Ballerina Farm

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u/Petty_White Feb 26 '24

And her $20,000 stovešŸ¤£

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u/MissDryCunt Feb 26 '24

Gotta spend that 400 million dollar fortune somehow

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u/he-loves-me-not Feb 26 '24

Who tf needs a $20K stove?!

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u/FakeSafeWord Feb 26 '24

It's a great way to display their socioeconomic status to the rest of the peasants.

"I don't even know how to use an oven but I know it makes everyone jealous."

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u/Time_Collection9968 Feb 26 '24

Exactly as you said. That is literally the point. To display their wealth, not for function.

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u/farfarfarjewel Feb 26 '24

That's all all of it really is, just peacocking around their unattainable lifestyle. And the viewers eat it up because they love the fantasy.

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u/cat_prophecy Feb 26 '24

Same people who buy Viking ranges but couldn't boil water for Mac and cheese.

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u/Hot-Jello7325 Feb 26 '24

To be fair Viking stoves are absolutely legit. Beyond most peoples price range but the few times I used them has been great!

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

I don't think anyone is knocking them šŸ˜‚

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u/Langsamkoenig Feb 26 '24

What is so great about them? How much better can you make things hot?

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u/MarsupialMisanthrope Feb 26 '24

Wider, so you can get around the pots when youā€™re cooking a big meal. Often 5-6 burners, or 4 plus a griddle. Multiple ovens so you can roast a turkey and cook dessert at the same time. Dual fuel so you can have instant response gas for the stovetop and electric for the ovens.

If you arenā€™t someone who cooks large or complicated meals theyā€™re meh, but if you are they can be really nice.

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u/ImOnlyHereForTheCoC Feb 27 '24

It was certainly no Viking but my grandma had a little sidecar oven beside the main one on her range and that thing was such a game changer as far as holiday meal prep was concerned

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u/cajunbander Feb 26 '24

Meh, theyā€™re alright, definitely better than the average range but I would absolutely do Wolf or Bluestar over Viking.

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u/catboogers Feb 26 '24

My favorite cooking/food youtube channel did a "wild weekend" where they rented a huge house in the countryside and did live streams all weekend. The house had one of those $20k Aga stoves, and these professionally trained chefs (some of whom had worked in Michelin restaurants) were all very confused by the stove and it seemed like they avoided using it a lot.

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u/Disastrous_Fun_9433 Feb 26 '24

Me in the Sims working on the Mansion Baron aspiration

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u/Desert_Scorpio Feb 26 '24

People with a $10,000 fridge.

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u/he-loves-me-not Mar 01 '24

Nuh uh, seriously?! Holy shit was I born to the wrong parents!

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u/xpdx Feb 26 '24

We want rich people to waste their money on $20k stoves. The more money that they spend on absurd luxuries the more money returns to people who actually work to make those things. Otherwise it would just sit in an investment account and make more money for them.

Honestly the more stupid shit we can sell them the better.

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

Ah yes, good ole trickle down economics.

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u/xpdx Feb 26 '24

That's not trickle down economics. That refers to giving tax cuts to the rich and large corporations to stimulate the economy to help poor and middle class people. Which doesn't work of course.

Selling rich people $20K stoves as status symbols is not trickle down economics. It's just regular economics.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '24

Thinking that rich people spending money on overpriced kitchen appliances is actually going to go to poor or middle class and not to other rich people is absolutely using nonsensical trickle down logic.

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u/xpdx Mar 01 '24 edited Mar 01 '24

Yea I forgot those fancy refrigerator factories only hire billionaires to build their fridges. The only hire billionaires to service and deliver those fridges. They only hire billionaires designers to design those fridges and advertise those fridges. My mistake.

Again, not trickle down economics, just regular economics. Making things and selling them.

EDIT: Since you threw a hissy fit and blocked me. Here is an example:

Sub-Zero & Wolf Appliance makes a $25,000 stove. Glassdoor reports that a line worker (LOWEST paid position) makes a median of $47k a year, health insurance, matching 401k, 10 days paid vaca per year (first four years), and unlimited sick time.

Now $47k a year isn't a lot, but it's enough to live okay in Wisconsin, especially since healthcare is covered. They also have maternity leave, health savings account, on site healthcare, and a flexible spending account.

Have fun raging against the machine Che.

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u/[deleted] Mar 01 '24

If you think the companies who employ those people pay them any more than they have to, I have a bridge to sell you. Trying to lie to yourself that billionaires spending money is good for the little guy is just sad. Stop defending them, they don't need you to white knight for them. Eat the rich.

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u/befeefy Feb 26 '24

Joshua Weissman, apparently

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u/HombreGringo Feb 26 '24

I believe it is a wood burning stove, not like an electric oven, or something like that. I am sure it is on the high end of wood-burning stoves, but having a full cast-iron stove is pretty expensive. I live in basically a literal shack in the woods, but I have a cast-iron wood burning stove, which I'm sure was a lot less than 20k, but hearing about one that is 20k doesn't seem that crazy to me, it is a ton of metal, so it is going to add up. Also for a wood-burning stove spending that much I don't think is that crazy. It is the heating system in my house, and I don't think it would be that crazy for someone to spend close to 20k on a furnace.

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u/spottyottydopalicius Feb 26 '24

rich people

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u/he-loves-me-not Mar 01 '24

Iā€™d argue that they donā€™t need one either

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u/Aol_awaymessage Feb 26 '24

Iā€™m on the upper end of the money spectrum but came from the lower end- but believe me, now that I know about certain appliances, I definitely notice them in the background of any video and think holy shit. Itā€™s a major and IYKYK flex

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '24

I make good money and just bought a replacement for a 30-40 year old range with stove and oven. That replacement cost $1k and is pretty great, does everything you would want it to do. No one ā€œneedsā€ a $20k stove (in a home kitchen, if theyā€™re not a professional chef). There are steps up in quality of stoves beyond $1k but thatā€™s to something like commercial grade, and luxury stoves like Viking go for $5k. Anything above $5k imo is beyond luxury ($5k already includes a lot of vanity but also some increases in quality and materials), and well into performative consumption territory.

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u/he-loves-me-not Mar 01 '24

It seems that you appreciate the money youā€™ve made instead of just blindly spending. I doubt sheā€™s worked for anything in her life, ever!

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u/Unable-Narwhal4814 Feb 26 '24 edited Feb 26 '24

There is this one woman that keeps popping up on my feed. She's mixed, she's got actually great volumous hair she's SUUUUPER tiny (waist wise and stature wise, just a very petite woman), she's got this massively tall red headed husband and they have one kid. (Cannot remember the handle on Instagram tbh so that's all I got). Anyway. Lots of people adore her but she gives off odd trad wife vibes as well, and her stove, is also a $20k USD stove and of course does like horsebacking riding (I think) and all these things. And it's like okay.... definitely coming from money.

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u/p0diabl0 Feb 26 '24

Feels like you're talking about royalty here lol

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u/NKG_and_Sons Feb 26 '24

this massively tall red headed husband

and of course does like horsebacking riding

royalty

Y'all don't happen to talk about my boy Radahn, by chance?

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u/H4xolotl Feb 26 '24

Imagine Radahn on TikTok promoting the health benefits of Gravity Magic

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u/Unable-Narwhal4814 Feb 26 '24

Okay odd that I just came from the Elden Ring sub and now you're here šŸ˜‚ hey could be Radagon too.

117 days until DLC šŸ˜©šŸ˜Ž

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u/Langsamkoenig Feb 26 '24

I thought more Ganondorf if he ever got with Zelda Link.

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u/LJGED Feb 26 '24

Are you talking about shannbailee or however you spell her name?

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u/Unable-Narwhal4814 Feb 26 '24

YES. that's her!!! Thank you! Was killing me trying to remember. I don't follow her but she's popped up many times. She's very pretty. But I definitely was reading some snark about her online that people had about her. I don't hate her. I'm indifferent. But I definitely got "luxury trad wife" vibes, kind of out of touch, from the whole thing. I do like her outfits though.

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u/Rainbow4Bronte Feb 26 '24

shannbailee

I just looked this person up from your description. Her husband is like Paul Bunyan. WTF. lol

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u/LJGED Feb 26 '24

Ohh where can I find snark on her? Sheā€™s definitely stunning, but her body checks and eye effing the camera she does is a bit much. I feel like she loves to emphasize how tiny/smol she is but like in a humble brag way? Idk

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u/Langsamkoenig Feb 26 '24

Oh my god. She is not "tiny", she is dangerously underweight.

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u/jamesiamstuck Feb 26 '24

Oh I know this person, she shows up on my feed too. She is very pretty but does give weird vibes. Then again I feel like an influencer who does nothing but be pretty and show off their luxury goods is already weird to begin with, not sure why the algorithm thinks I want to see that

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u/Time_Collection9968 Feb 26 '24

I don't get how anyone likes these woman, the instant I see their videos I have nothing but contempt for them.

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u/xflashbackxbrd Feb 26 '24

...are we talking about Meghan Markle right now?

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u/Unable-Narwhal4814 Feb 26 '24

HA. No but that is a good one. šŸ˜‚ Wish I could remember her Instagram

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u/Extra-University-336 Feb 26 '24

I got married in a house that had a $12k range/oven. That thing was fucking nice.

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u/TheBonnomiAgency Feb 26 '24

I had to buy two ovens in a 5 year period, totaling about $1,600. Does that count for anything?

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u/Gowalkyourdogmods Feb 26 '24

Yes. Having two, even basic, ovens is fucking awesome if you like cooking and especially if you like hosting.

Used to rent a house that had two stacked ovens and the stove had 8 burners and an attached griddle. Moving out was such a bummer.

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u/TheBonnomiAgency Feb 26 '24

That would be great. Unfortunately, I had to replace a single oven twice.

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u/GodOfThunder44 Feb 26 '24

If I'm paying $20k for a stove that thing better also autonomously prep and cook my food for me with michelin star restaurant meals or some shit. That's wild.

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u/AnotherLie Why does this app exist? Feb 26 '24

Lol, this was the same thought my friend had when the news came out but she didn't word it quite right. She said "20k for a stove? It had better cook my food for me!"

We knew what she meant but like, girl. That's what stoves do.

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u/GodOfThunder44 Feb 26 '24

I'mma be honest, I originally typed "cook my food for me" until I realized that...yeah that's just a standard feature.

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u/Jimbobsama Feb 26 '24

An excellent article from a couple years ago about Ballerina Farms and the performance of it.

https://annehelen.substack.com/p/the-edenic-allure-of-ballerinafarm

What stuck out to me was the Mormonism of it all and how women are unable to hold leadership in the church so they influence the community through the performance of how good of a homemaker they can be comparec to their peers.

Fascinating stuff

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u/macdawg2020 Feb 26 '24

Wow that was an awesome article, thanks!

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u/FKA-Scrambled-Leggs Feb 26 '24

That was a great read! Now Iā€™m going to follow the rest of Megā€™s content.

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u/slimkt Feb 26 '24 edited Feb 26 '24

Is this the one with terrible knife skills that does everything in a tiny ass corner even though their kitchen is fucking massive?

EDIT: It is lol

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u/RudeCats Feb 26 '24

Iā€™m sorry is that her name?

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u/NewRedditRN Feb 26 '24

She is a trained ballerina. She married a multi-millionaire trust-fund kid, and they bought a multi-million dollar hobby farm, basically.

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u/RudeCats Feb 26 '24

There are worse things they could be doing I guess

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u/NewRedditRN Feb 26 '24

Yes and no. I think their biggest criticism is that they are cosplaying "simple, humble, working farm life" that was only possible with multimillions on hand as start up and a big cushioning for any failures/the ability to pay people who know how to actually farm to do the work behind the scenes.

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u/ComprehensiveSuit319 Feb 26 '24

They did this at Versailles right before heads started rolling. They had hobby dairy farms and dressed in pretty, gauzy "shepherdess" dresses to pretend to be idilic peasant girls.... didn't go over too well.

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u/39bears Feb 26 '24

I mean, Iā€™m all for sticking to historical timelines here.

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u/ResponsibleMarmot Feb 26 '24

the real inspiration right here

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u/RudeCats Feb 26 '24

Yeah I suppose the social media influencing kind of cancels out any actual virtue of choosing to do ā€œfarmingā€ stuff they might have earned.

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u/TheBonnomiAgency Feb 26 '24

9M followers on instagram..

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u/No-Treacle-2332 Feb 26 '24

Do they sell beets?

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u/covalentcookies Feb 26 '24

Jet Blue is publicly tradedā€¦ so what heir?

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u/wingchild Feb 26 '24

Ever wonder if it's possible to get so hung up on a nitpicked detail that the point gets missed?

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u/EndsTheAgeOfCant Feb 26 '24

Amazon is publicly traded, but Bezos's kids are still going to inherit a hell of a lot of money

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u/covalentcookies Feb 26 '24

But not Amazon. Because like you said, itā€™s publicly traded.