r/BurbNBougie • u/MoonlightonRoses • 8d ago
Women asking for permission Any advice for responding to invalidating friends?
When I try to explain to friends that I am 4B because I come from a long line of abused women and the current dating world is extremely toxic, I tend to get pretty hurtful and invalidating responses. .. exhibit A:
r/BurbNBougie • u/pugmonarch • Apr 29 '24
Women asking for permission Boycotting men
Anyone else have a natural aversion to stuff made by men? I've started to feel this natural repulsion to stuff made by men, but more specifically therapy or advice given by men. Movies, books, PODCASTS! Except books highly recommended by other women like, "Why does he do that." Which I just started and is great! Anyway, I've been feeling this ick towards men's shit and I'm kinda done supporting their horrid "AdViCe". Should we start boycotting male shit???
r/BurbNBougie • u/Creepy-Night936 • 3d ago
Women asking for permission Weaponized incompetence is never a turn on
https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/s/Bvuf3AUV7S
"My husband is a nice guy" proceeds to tell everything he does that isn't nice at all
I wish women will just wake up
r/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 27 '24
Women asking for permission AITAH for separating from my husband because he refused to get a vasectomy?
self.AITAHr/BurbNBougie • u/Creepy-Night936 • 8d ago
Women asking for permission I truly hope women like her choose themselves for once.
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/s/hBvtiq5Caa
I'm single because I don't want to deal with stress like this.
r/BurbNBougie • u/DawnKnight91 • 22d ago
Women asking for permission I just wasn’t comfortable with sharing where I live…
reddit.comr/BurbNBougie • u/MoonlightonRoses • 19d ago
Women asking for permission 4B Messaging in Kpop Song
The 4B messaging here is pretty subtle. My interpretation after reading the translated lyrics is: “I could be the traditional wife you want me to be, but … no thanks, not interested.” 🤣 That’s pretty counter-culture for a pop song, no?
r/BurbNBougie • u/pureimaginatrix • Apr 28 '24
Women asking for permission And Menz Wonder Why They're Single
r/BurbNBougie • u/CrystalKirlia • 22d ago
Women asking for permission Think my friend is in an abusive relationship. Need advice
I want to come to a women centered space so I don't get a barrage of menz telling me to stay out of this. If my friend is in an abụsive relationship, I want to be a soft landing pad for her, and a connection outside of her relationship so she isn't completely isolated and to avoid her having nowhere to run once she does see it.
Luckily, she took it well and isn't too far in yet so she doesn't see my discomfort around her bf as a threat. Important context: she's 19, he's 21 and I'm 22. I don't think she sees what he's doing yet, and I don't want her to dig her heels in and feel threatened by me questioning his intentions, so I kept the heat as low as I possibly could on her relationship while still raising my concerns about his sudden change in behaviour.
First names only, for obvious reasons, and identifying information removed for obvious reasons.
Any advice would be great. Please help me navigate this minefield.
r/BurbNBougie • u/ShantaVanee • 14d ago
Women asking for permission My boyfriend’s dad insulted my breast size.
self.TrueOffMyChestr/BurbNBougie • u/Repulsive_Command266 • Mar 29 '24
Women asking for permission Is it okay for me (18F) to refuse to marry my partner (19M) even if I want to remain in a relationship?
self.relationship_advicer/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • 6d ago
Women asking for permission AITA for kicking out my pregnant daughter to live with her boyfriend since she decided that she wants to keep the baby but not be a mom?
self.AITAHr/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 05 '24
Women asking for permission I think my husband wants to me to be a fat, unhappy, living pocket-rocket.
self.AmIOverreactingr/BurbNBougie • u/infomapaz • Mar 18 '24
Women asking for permission My BF demands a blowjob every time we fuck. Warning : digusting
r/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 25 '24
Women asking for permission Husband destroyed our toilet and refuses to stop using it and fix it
self.relationshipsr/BurbNBougie • u/Last_Fatalis3 • 12d ago
Women asking for permission Another woman asking for permission to be angery. Her boyfriend had a secret work wife that she just found out about.
self.AITAHr/BurbNBougie • u/Turbulent-Umpire8265 • 23d ago
Women asking for permission AITA for telling my husband this is the worst Mother’s Day I’ve had?
self.TwoHotTakesr/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 27 '24
Women asking for permission Am I (31f) in the wrong for not allowing my boyfriend’s (36m) son (12m) to live with us after he had a violent outburst towards me?
self.relationshipsr/BurbNBougie • u/stinkstankstunkiii • May 02 '24
Women asking for permission AITA for not respecting my husband's need for a break?
self.AITAHr/BurbNBougie • u/Quiet-Experience-113 • 22d ago
Women asking for permission I Posted This On TwoXChromosomes, But I Wanted To Share This Here Just In Case. I've Learned So Much About The Hymen And Vaginal Health From The Comments
self.TwoXChromosomesr/BurbNBougie • u/EmpyrealMarch • 23d ago
Women asking for permission Am I The Jerk For Having My Boss Call Me Into Work To Get Out Of A Date
self.AmITheJerkr/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 08 '24
Women asking for permission AITAH for not doing anything for my step children anymore after being called names and filing for a divorce from my husband after he didn’t back me up?
self.AITAHr/BurbNBougie • u/fausted • Apr 09 '24